Mother's life should not be just trapped in chai rice oil and salt, only by living the best of themselves, can they raise the best children.
Author: Flower Blue (Rich Book Author)
The Shenzhou 13 manned spacecraft was successfully launched, sending Wang Yaping into space.
This beautiful and sassy post-80s female astronaut who exudes the light of female softness and perseverance is considered by netizens to be the most worthy star to chase.
As early as 2013, she flew into space aboard Shenzhou 10. After 8 years, she visited the sky again with the beautiful expectation of picking stars for her daughter.
Under the hot search, netizens have commented:
"This little girl is so happy, there is a mother who can pick stars, and the kindergarten children are envious."
"My mother went to heaven to pick stars for me, and as a daughter, this is probably the most glorious thing."
"Wang Yaping is 41 years old, flew into the universe, she is the one who can really pick stars for her children, how proud her children should be!"
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The whole network is envious of Wang Yaping's daughter!
After reading these comments, I suddenly realized that Wang Yaping is a space hero that everyone admires, but her best thing is to be a mother!
Excellent mothers are mothers who make children proud
Turning to Wang Yaping's resume, every page sparkles.
At the age of 17, she came out of a small mountain village, passed the barrier and became the 7th batch of female flight cadets in the country, and later became a female astronaut after layers of assessment.
In 2013, Shenzhou No. 10 flew into the sky, and Wang Yaping became the first Chinese female "post-80s" to fly into space, and stood on the "highest" podium, giving a vivid science lesson to 60 million primary and secondary school students across the country.
"Shen Ten" returned, she did not stop the pace of progress, at the age of 38, was admitted to the Peking University psychology doctorate.
And this year's Shenzhou Thirteen mission, Wang Yaping was once again selected.
This expedition caused a sensation, and the beautiful and sassy Wang Yaping broke many records: the first woman stationed on the Chinese space station, and the first female astronaut in China to leave the capsule.
Although her daughter is still young and cannot understand the sacredness of the astronaut profession, she is full of pride when she mentions her mother: "Mom, you are an astronaut, but I also know that you are a teacher, a space teacher." ”
Every time she walked through the astronaut photo display window in the family home, her daughter would point to Wang Yaping's photo and proudly say, "That's my mother!" ”
A good mother must be a mother who can make her child proud and be regarded as a role model by her child.
Child psychologists say:
The mother is an example for her daughter, she teaches her daughter how to live, how to correctly understand herself, how to be a woman, and plays a decisive role in shaping her daughter's character and the formation of her outlook on life and values.
Zhao Li, the author of "Life Is Not Limited, Bloom Better Yourself", shared his parenting story.
In the past, her daughter was very introverted and inferior, and her grades were still very poor. Later, when working, Zhao Li took her daughter with her.
The daughter saw her mother win the Gold Microphone Gold Award with a workaholic spirit, and was also praised by the mayor as the media mastermind with zero mistakes, and also made an obscure company a famous corporate brand.
Subtly, the daughter has also become a treasure girl in other people, won the highest scholarship in the grade, practiced business projects, opened a reading column, filled in the lyrics and composed, painted...
Edification is the most effective and labor-saving education, as Zhao Li said, when parents live as a beam of light, children will chase the light.
The truly powerful mothers are radiant, and they use their knowledge, insight and courage to lay a thick life foundation for their children, bringing positive, positive and upward love to their children.
Heaven picks "stars", dreams are the best gift for growth
Before going out into space, Wang Yaping and his daughter had a romantic agreement:
She hopes that her daughter can take good care of herself and her grandmother during the six months of her "business trip", and her daughter hopes that she can pick stars for herself and her classmates from space...
Although Wang Yaping could not have plucked the real star to give to his daughter, this agreement guarded the child's fairy tale dream. Every day that the mother is not around, the daughter lives in a beautiful vision.
The stars in the sky are her daughter's dreams, and Wang Yaping is using her life's experience to tell her daughter what the true meaning of her dreams is.
In 2003, 23-year-old Wang Yaping was a pilot. Watching the successful launch of Shenzhou No. 5 carrying Yang Liwei, she had a surging dream in her heart, and cast her eyes from the magnificent mountains and rivers to a more vast and vast universe.
Today, 18 years later, Wang Yaping has flown into space twice and has become the first female astronaut in China to carry out the capsule activity.
She said: "Only by paying down-to-earth can we have the confidence to look up at the stars." ”
Behind these 18 years is the perseverance of the dream and the training of the devil intertwined with blood and tears:
Overweight endurance training, training your own facial muscles until they are deformed, and tears are soaring;
In order to enhance cardiovascular function and muscle strength training, in addition to normal physical training, also increase the amount of yourself every day;
Training in buoyancy tanks for six or seven hours straight;
Vestibular function training with 360 degree high-speed rotation;
NASA retired NASA astronaut Katie Coleman said when blessing Wang Yaping,
"When you look out the window at the stars and see our planet, don't forget that billions of women are also looking out the window through your eyes, including me."
Presumably, Wang Yaping's daughter also saw the sea of stars through her mother's eyes.
Perhaps as netizens said, perhaps the little girl will understand when she grows up that her mother is the brightest star.
Her mother has already given her the most precious gift of growth, that is, to tell her children with her own dream-chasing experience:
"Dreams are like stars in the universe, seemingly out of reach, but as long as you work hard, you will be able to touch it one day."
Chen Meiling, a female singer who sent her 3 children to Stanford University, once said,
The quality that children should have on the road of life is to have dreams, and the only job of children is to dream. I hope that the dreams that children have are dreams of the future, big dreams, dreams that parents can't think of.
Smart parents know how to guard their children's dreams, teach their children to feel the beauty of dreams, and give them the strength and courage to chase dreams.
Parents love each other, is the child's lifelong confidence
At the farewell scene of the expedition ceremony, Wang Yaping's 5-year-old daughter was held high. She waved a pair of small hands and shouted excitedly, "Mom! Mom come on..."
After the expedition ceremony, she buried her head in the hood of her little hat and began to cry, and her father kept comforting her.
It is the period of the most attachment to the mother, but to be separated for 6 months, even if there is no reluctance, but also wait for the mother to leave after the whispering crying, understanding is painful.
After reading Wang Yaping's marriage love story, I suddenly understood that her daughter's understanding was not without reason.
When Wang Yaping was a pilot, he met and fell in love with Zhao Peng, who was also a pilot, and entered the palace of marriage.
In life, both are notoriously good-tempered, never quarrel over trivial matters, and have always been a model couple in the eyes of colleagues.
The only time they had a fight was in their sixth year of marriage, and the two were planning to have a baby. Wang Yaping changed her mind halfway, because she was going to participate in the astronaut selection.
The training of astronauts is dozens of times harder than that of pilots, and Zhao Peng is worried that his wife's body will not be able to eat, and resolutely opposes it. For this reason, the husband and wife argued for many days, and finally Zhao Peng compromised.
After Wang Yaping became an astronaut, he fully supported his wife's work, gave up the opportunity for promotion, followed his wife to Beijing, and undertook the family's large and small affairs, so that she could train with peace of mind.
It was her husband's reckless support that gave Wang Yaping the courage and confidence to pursue his dreams.
The best marriage is to grow and complete each other, and parents love each other in order to cultivate sensible and loving children.
It is to witness the way parents get along, Wang Yaping's daughter, although young, knows how to spare no effort to support her mother's work.
I remember that psychologist Wu Zhihong also said a sentence: "Parents are the greatest destiny of children, if parents love each other, children will be full of happiness." ”
I know that netizens "protect the short and do not discuss" to share their family stories.
His parents are very much in love, sometimes even if they quarrel, they will immediately bow their heads and apologize, and there is endless gossip every day. It's almost fifty years old, but the two of them often go out on trips together, and the rose gift red wine dinner is even more commonplace.
And he also feels that he is very lucky, living in a very harmonious family atmosphere since childhood, seeing what a good relationship is like, and having a correct view of love.
At the same time, the love and tolerance between his parents also taught him to treat the world gently and tolerantly.
Zhou Guoping said: "A family is harmonious, parents love each other, children can spend their childhood in an atmosphere of love and happiness, his life has a warm and bright background, can ensure mental health, good emotional intelligence." ”
The world is uncertain, and everyone's confidence in riding the wind and waves in the sea of people is given by the primitive family.
The best love for a child is probably when parents love each other.
Wang Yaping said in an interview: "The love of astronauts is very big, big enough to hold the home country, the universe, and the Chinese nation's thousand-year-old flying dream!" ”
But the astronaut's love is also very small, so small that there is very little time left for the family.
But she's a really good mom:
She led the way and became a role model for her children.
She ignites her own dreams and collides with the dreams of her children.
She and her lover work hard to run the family and provide the warmest cradle for the children.
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