"Open Heart World": The romance that women want, this film can give an answer?

It rarely involves same-sex films, because it has not been experienced in life, it is difficult to feel empathy, and the impression of the same sex is limited to superficial appearance, figure, and asana position of sex that is different from the opposite sex.

But somehow, I have always had a strong desire for knowledge for the emotional appeal of the same sex, and the quantitative problem is, just from the experience dimension of falling in love, what is the difference between the same sex and the opposite sex? As a woman, is it necessary to deliberately find the same sex to fall in love and find romance?

Until I watched Mona Fastoud's film "Open Heart World", the genre is "love, same sex, women", a little confused, the romance in the eyes of female directors is like this?

Women want romance, this film can give an answer?

"Open the Heart World" is so beautiful, from the narration of the two heroines, to the delicate love process, to the decent and generous costumes and makeup, so that the whole movie has a faint, melancholy, romantic atmosphere.

Especially in the movie, the two heroines from the love love to the love letters that are forced to separate and exchange heartfelt feelings, with good English, romantic to incredible.

A few words are randomly intercepted, and they are all textbook expressions of love.

First, when they have a good feeling for each other, shallow kisses determine love.

At this time, the plot is that A happens to have a cold and goes to B's residence to find B.

Hostess A: I'm afraid you're going to get a cold.

Hostess B: You smell like little cookies.

Soft and sticky adjective, "little cookie", an inexplicable sweetness, permeated with the pleasure of beautiful things, I really heard this adjective for the first time, for kissing, the most heard from male mouths is nothing more than "soft lips, sexy" and nothing more, basically linked to lust.

Second, after the two were forced to separate, the heroine B wrote a love letter to A.

"I want to tell you, to be with you.

Even if it's alone. I also felt like I was in one of the most lively groups.

I feel like we're closer than sisters.

Because everything I feel wonderful is something I have chosen to feel.

Do you know what my most cherished memories are? It's the smile on your face when you realize someone is in love with you and look back at me.

I don't know what's going to happen next, but I do know the trust, care and courage we all share. It will shine on us. Protecting us.

You are my happy city. You are my happy city. ”

This is the most sincere and beautiful love letter I have ever read, especially this sentence "When you realize that someone is in love with you, look back at me with a smile on your face." ”

Third, "Open the Heart World" fast-forwards the scene clip when the two have sex in the form of a calendar, and the love words written by the heroine A to B.

"I think I love the feeling that we're wrapped up in each other and that we don't have any desire for anything else."

It is very strange that there are scenes of two female protagonists kissing and making love naked in the movie, but when watching the movie, I did not feel any color emotion at all, I felt so beautiful and romantic, and they were defined in this atmosphere, even if they were naked and did not play mosaics, I would only hold an attitude of pure appreciation for special things, and I would never get involved in anything else, although I was a lustful person inside.

As a woman, is it necessary to deliberately find the same sex to fall in love and find romance?

Circumventing the opening topic, only from the works presented by the director and actor of "Open Heart World", the way women and the same sex get along is indeed more delicate and more romantic than that of the opposite sex.

For example, the same map that heroine A has in mind, her husband will refuse her purchase needs with "that thing is useless", but heroine B will be very careful to give her as a birthday gift on her birthday.

"Open The Heart World" heroine A husband is a good husband, he will pay attention to his wife's joys and sorrows, and will also moderately express his love and concern for it, but even so, there is still no way to enter A's heart.

It can also be seen from the speech and demeanor of heroine A that she has obviously become more confident, active, and more delicate emotionally after being with heroine B, and her dress is no longer a lifeless black, gray and blue, but a clearer tone.

The reason for this, I think, is that my husband lost in focusing too much on the bookkeeping of chai rice oil and salt, and ignored the feeling that his wife longed to be valued.

After watching "Open The World of Hearts", I suddenly solved my long-standing doubts, is it necessary to deliberately find the same sex to fall in love?

The answer is, not necessarily.

First of all, I am not born gay, there will be no physical reaction to the same sex, and the impact on me in "Open Heart World" is more romantic love words, not riotous words;

Secondly, my romantic emotional needs can be dismantled, and as I continue to understand myself, I can pin my needed points on other things, rather than resorting to another same-sex person, because once I have mastered the skills to control my emotions and the ability to rationally analyze my emotional needs, any romance can be quantified.

Of course, this is only extracted from "Open The Heart World", romance = needed, valued, the label, shallow.