Zhang Ailing said: Everything has a price, and it is difficult to love someone. If you like a person, you will be humble enough to blossom in the dust.
Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi did not compromise for each other.
On December 12, 2017, Cai Lin gave birth to a son in South Korea, named Minyu.
Since the birth of her child, Cai Lin has been living in her mother's home in South Korea, and Gao Ziqi has made money by filming in China. The married life of gathering less and leaving more has also laid the groundwork for the future.
After 3 years, on December 17, 2020, Gao Ziqi publicly said that the two have divorced: sincere thanks, sincere blessings, and willing not to be disturbed, everything is fine "gift mother".
Gao Ziqi's divorce copywriting is sincere, full of love for his ex-wife and son and full of blessings.
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Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi's son is now 4 years old, with thick eyebrows and big eyes like his father Gao Ziqi. Compared with the single eyelid of Xiaoguang and Qiu Cixuan's son, Cai Lin's son Minyu can be regarded as inheriting the excellent genes of his parents.
4-year-old Min Woo is like a Korean, and when he was a child, his long curly hair was very Korean. In these 4 years, Cai Lin is both a mother and a father, she often drives her baby out to play alone, and until the age of 4, she has been sleeping with her son.
4-year-old Minyu has a very cheerful and sensible personality, getting up early in the morning to feed insects, and then to help her mother Cai Lin cook, during which she also stole raw eggs.
Mother Cai Lin's personality is very gentle, seeing her son eating raw eggs, she did not shout loudly, but smiled helplessly. Made a delicious Korean breakfast for my son early in the morning with stewed eggs, fish and kelp soup etc.
Cai Lin's home is also public, which is a mansion in South Korea. There is a super large living room with fitness equipment and a trampoline. The kitchen is open plan and there are 3 big fridges. The fridge is full of food, from canned to fruit to meat.
The food of the mother and son can actually fill three large refrigerators, which shows that the income of South Korean stars is also very high. Cai Lin's cultivation of her son is also very in place, and there is a piano and a dollhouse at home.
Cai Lin's parenting style is worth learning. She will take her 4-year-old son to get close to nature, and will also go to the road to pick up garbage, which will invisibly let the child love the environment and have a sense of environmental protection.
Cai Lin also grows vegetables and fruits at home, and her 4-year-old son will also go to the vegetable field to help his mother pick tomatoes.
In addition to letting her son get close to nature, Cai Lin will also take the initiative to play with her son and take out various pigments and shower gels for experiments. 4-year-old Minyu smiled very happily.
4-year-old Minyu is also very good in terms of eating habits, he takes the initiative to sit at the table to eat, and his mother Cai Lin will also feed his son appropriately.
The relationship between mother and child is harmonious. Without the participation of dad, cai lin and min yu, a mother and son, seem to be very harmonious and happy on the surface.
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Minyu, a 4-year-old son, is currently at home communicating with his mother, Cai Lin, in Korean. Thinking of Qiu Porcelain Xuan and Yu Xiaoguang, Qiu Porcelain Xuan let his son learn Korean and Chinese from an early age, so that children can be bilingual from an early age.
Cai Lin obviously did not let her son learn to Chinese, and even when she studied the flags of various countries, she directly skipped our national flags and let her son learn the flags of Britain and the United States.
4-year-old Minyu can already speak the flags of various countries in English, as well as some simple English. Speaking Korean and English, Cai Lin just doesn't teach her son to learn Chinese.
This is really confusing operation. As a mother, it is not necessary to let the son not forget the roots, as a Chinese offspring, it is absolutely necessary to be able to say Chinese.
Cai Lin's behavior was really inappropriate. Such behavior will make the child's mind have no so-called "root" at all. In the long run, 4-year-old Min-woo can only speak Korean, how to communicate with his own father?
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Cai Lin still has a message note written by Gao Ziqi on the eve of her son's birth. At that time, Gao Ziqi gave his son a nickname "Gift", and the words were full of love for his son.
Mentioning her ex-husband Gao Ziqi again, Cai Lin has mixed feelings. Cai Lin, who was alone with a baby after childbirth, never collapsed, although she lived in a mansion, had a sensible son, and had no worries about food and clothing, only she knew what she lacked in her heart.
Every time he took his son Minyu out to play together, his son's eyes would stare at the father of other people's houses. This scene reminds people of Dong Jie's son Dingding.
When Dong Jie took her son to the top to play taekwondo, all the children were brought by their fathers, and only he was accompanied by his mother. The loneliness in his eyes was obvious.
The same look of longing and longing also happened to 4-year-old Minyu, and her mother Cai Lin could feel Minyu's loneliness from her son's eyes every time.
4-year-old Minyu has always thought that he has no father, so he envies other people's children having fathers.
Seeing her son's reaction, Cai Lin tearfully said: The 4-year-old son has never seen his father.
Cai Lin's heart is both complicated and sad. It turned out that after the birth of her son, Cai Lin basically did not mention her father in front of her son, and Cai Lin seemed to have a preference for her son, and when she was 4 years old, she still slept with her son in her arms, and put all her sustenance on her son's body.
Therefore, Cai Lin carefully mentioned her father in front of her 4-year-old son, and she told her son that he also had a father.
When the 4-year-old son learned that he had a father, he asked his mother: Is the father there? Cai Lin: I can't come to see you now. Cai Lin's words have two meanings, one is that it is naturally not easy to meet with the epidemic situation, and the other is that now her parents are divorced. It is clear that Cai Lin did not tell her son the true state of his parents' marriage.
A 4-year-old son will think that he has no father, and Cai Lin has a big problem with being a mother. Even if you can't meet because of the epidemic, you can still video call and chat. The high probability is that Cai Lin will not let Gao Ziqi see her son. Otherwise, the son would not think that he did not have a father.
The reaction of the 4-year-old son is full of emotions, he holds his mother Cai Lin: Mom, thank you.
The child of a single-parent family is always very precocious and sensible, and he does not want to make his mother sad, and he is not willing to give up the father-son relationship. You can only keep everything in mind.
Fortunately, Cai Lin also gave her son full of maternal love. The 42-year-old Cai Lin has made enough money, and now the focus of her life is on her son, and a good-natured mother is the greatest blessing for the child.
From another point of view, Minyu, who grew up with her mother, may not lose to her father, after all, Gao Ziqi has been filming in the crew for a long time and cannot give her children better care.
It's just that she should teach her son to say that Chinese and not forget her roots.
It is said that marrying a chicken with a chicken and marrying a dog with a dog is not rough. Looking at Big S and Wang Xiaofei, Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi, Qiu Porcelain Xuan and Yu Xiaoguang, and Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao, only Yi Nengjing compromised, and she moved to Shanghai with her daughter.
The other couples either mentioned divorce or held the female neighbor on the thigh. Long-distance marriages are unreliable and full of variables.
Cai Lin Gao Ziqi is divorced, and the relationship between husband and wife in this life is all about here. No matter how many conflicts there are between husband and wife, children should not be implicated. Children are innocent.
Couples divorce, and the most hurt is always the children. Because they can't choose from birth.