<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" >01 Introduction</h1>
When I was in graduate school, I took a high school boy as a tutor, who was more than one meter and eight meters tall, and his weight was not far from 100 kilograms, his family was poor, his grades were very poor, and he tutored continuously on weekends, mathematical, physical, and chemical, English, and weekend tutoring classes.
Although I am 178 tall, it is very stressful to see a boy who is much taller than me and much stronger than me. When lecturing, the words are all thought out and then said, in case he beats me up if he doesn't agree with the words, I will suffer the loss in front of me.
His family lived in a building from the 1980s and 1990s, and there was no new furniture in the house, so it was easy to clean up. Once, when he went to class, the boy had a cold, and he sat at the desk in the room, and his mother ran in and out of the room with her hair scattered to bring water and medicine until she handed the medicine to the palm of his hand and watched it eat before leaving.
Seeing this for the first time, I was really stunned to be honest. From now on, as long as you see the news of the "giant baby", this picture pops up in your head.
Chinese-style giant baby, refers to a strange group of adults, extremely selfish, only to ask for no dedication, absolutely self-centered, everyone must revolve around him is the right, no sense of rules, no legal concept, no moral constraints, the help of others, gifts as should, without the slightest sense of gratitude, the whole world is indebted to him, as a baby of the country.
Giant babies regardless of age or gender, anyone can become a giant baby.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" >02 TV show version of the real giant baby</h1>
In 2012, I watched several episodes of Metamorphosis Meter broadcast by Hunan Satellite TV, and the children of the rich families in the bustling city exchanged seven days of life with the children of the poor families in the remote mountainous areas where the birds did not.
In just 7 days, a clumsy boy who is idle, eating, drinking, and playing pranks has transformed into a three-good teenager who knows how to be grateful and strives to be self-motivated.
Before participating in the festival, these stupid children are obvious giant babies, however, after participating in the program, it is simply a rebirth and a change of heart.
However, the impact of short-lived different experiences on children can only be short-lived. Once you return to the familiar living environment, after the passion, it is easy to return to the original state again.
Recently, netizens broke the news that the male protagonist of the deformation meter borrowed money from many netizens, did not repay it when it was due, and was also reported to the police station by netizens.
In addition to Yi Huchen, Wang Chenzheng was also rumored to be suspected of letting fans swipe orders for fraud.
From a psychological point of view, the environment affects people's thinking and actions. In a certain environment, humans always make moves that are in line with the environment at that time.
For example, in the pampered family environment, children are generally more willful and arbitrary; in the family environment with strict tutoring, children generally have a strong sense of rules; children from poor families are generally homemakers early.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" >03 How to avoid your child becoming a giant baby</h1>
Whether it is for the child himself or for the parents, giant babies are a big problem.
How can you prevent your child from becoming a giant baby?
1. Cultivate children's independence in the world from an early age
Children are also human beings, and even if they are mentally immature, they still have the ability to understand society. Some things, even if they are not done well, will become more and more skilled in continuous independence.
What parents have to do is to let their children do it, respect their children's choices, and give the right guidance when they encounter problems, rather than blindly doing everything.
2. Never condone the child's willfulness
Children always have emotional dependence in front of adults, and adults still have unreasonable troubles, not to mention children.
When the child is unreasonable, what parents have to do is not to condone, so that the child understands that some things can be done and some things cannot be done.
3. Encourage children to try new things
People will be exposed to more and more things in the process of growing up, and they need to deal with more and more problems.
Children try new things from an early age, which can enhance their ability to adapt to society in the future and be able to deal with more problems calmly when they encounter them.
When trying new things, don't be harsh on your child to succeed, help your child analyze problems when you fail, and encourage your child to continue working hard when you succeed.
What determines a child's personality behavior is the surrounding growing environment!
Dear moms and dads, what are your successful educational methods? Or what are the children's education problems?
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Source: Military 214135171