#头条创作挑战赛# "The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article", people inevitably shorten the distance between each other by eating and drinking in their daily interactions, and achieve the purpose of understanding a person by drinking at parties.
After retirement, the social circle will gradually narrow, and there are not many opportunities to go out to party, so many retired elderly people cherish these hard-won gatherings, so many retired elderly people also like to participate in all kinds of gatherings.
My father, who is in his early eighties, likes to wrap a red envelope to participate as long as the neighbors invite him, because he feels that others can invite you, which is in his heart, and he often gathers with people of different ages when he is older, so that he can feel new things and keep his mind younger.
Nowadays, many festive banquets, most of the protagonists are retired elderly, after all, these people have worked all their lives, and their social experience and interpersonal communication are very rich.
After retirement, there is no need to cater to others as much as at work, and there is no need to be with people who make them uncomfortable, so after retirement, when you meet these 4 types of people at the dinner table, you will immediately put down your chopsticks and leave, and you should know when you are over 60.
1. People who make fun of you and your family at the wine table
When you go out to party and eat, you will inevitably meet acquaintances at the dinner table, especially some old acquaintances who know the roots, who like to tease and ridicule others, and joke with their families about other people's troubles.
When people reach retirement age, they must learn to be more steady, especially at the dinner table where there are younger generations, at this time, if someone makes fun of you and your family, then you can directly put the chopsticks and leave, so that such people can't get off the stage.
In fact, these people who make fun of you and your family basically don't have you in their hearts at all, so there is no need to swallow your anger for such people, after all, they are all over 60 years old, and they are respected when they go out, and it is completely unnecessary to be ridiculed by others about themselves or their families.
2. People who are younger than you and serve you with tea instead of wine
At the wine table, you will often meet people who can't drink alcohol and replace wine with tea, but under normal circumstances, people who are not old enough can not use tea instead of wine to toast others, only when others toast, say the reason why they can't drink, and then use tea instead to apologize.
After retirement, if you meet someone younger than yourself, or a generation later than yourself, and you toast yourself with tea instead of wine, then there is no need to accept such a toast, you can put down your chopsticks and leave directly.
If a person who is younger or later than himself chooses to drink tea if he is too strong to drink, there is no need for such a person to toast others, if he does this, it can only mean that this person does not know how to be polite, or does not take the elders in his eyes at all, and such a person does not give him face at all.
3. People who frequently go out or answer the phone loudly at the wine table
After retirement, everyone attends the party, everyone is just trying to have fun and chatting, if you meet people who frequently go out at the wine table, and if there is no one to answer the phone loudly, then the atmosphere of the party will be too awkward.
People who frequently go out at the wine table, or answer the phone loudly, can only mean that this person is not very polite, or he came to the party to perfunctory everyone, and it is meaningless to get together with such a person, so it is better to put down the chopsticks and leave directly.
4. People who sit next to each other to smoke or toast
Cigarettes and alcohol are not separated, many people like to smoke and toast when they get together, if it is the person who toasts or toasts others through you, then it is pointless to participate in such a party.
The person who toasts or toasts in the next seat indicates that he is more snobbish, or he usually has a bottom fire with himself, and if he sits with such a person for a long time, then when the wine is deep, it is very likely that something unpleasant will happen with the strength of the wine.
After retirement, I came out to attend the party, just to have fun and be happy, and with people who don't like me like this, or who used to sit at a table with a bottom fire with themselves, everyone will look embarrassed and uncomfortable, so it is better to put down the chopsticks and leave.
After people reach retirement age, what they need is to be with people they feel comfortable with, and there is no need to cater to others, so when you meet the above 4 types of people at the dinner table, it is the best choice to put down your chopsticks and leave, and people over 60 years old should know.