After 10 years of marriage, the wife ran away from home, leaving her husband alone to raise three children, and after 30 years, the woman was seriously ill and came back not to make up for regrets, but to hope that her husband and children would come to the hospital to take care of herself, will her husband and children forgive her?
Sun Weidong and Huang Min, the two have been neighbors since childhood, Sun Weidong is an honest person, he has been hard-working since he was a child, and he is reluctant to spend a penny of his family. People in the village often say that he is frugal to the point of being a little stingy.
Huang Min is a lively and cheerful girl, although her family is not wealthy, she never gives up her yearning for life, and the two gradually develop love as they grow older.
Huang Min takes a fancy to Sun Weidong's hard-working and down-to-earth character, and Sun Weidong is attracted by Huang Min's lively and lovely character.
Life after marriage was dull, the two worked hard, and life was tight, but it was also warm A few years later, their first son was born, followed by the second, and the third child was born soon.
Three naughty children make this small family very lively, and with the birth of the child, the family's expenses slowly become higher. Sun Weidong was really hard to work alone, and Huang Min had to do some odd jobs in addition to housework to earn some extra money.
Even so, life is still poor, at this time Huang Min saw that many people in the neighboring village made a lot of money by going out to work, and she was envious, she felt that it was too lonely to stay at home, and her heart was full of yearning for the future life.
Huang Min began to go out from time to time, or to the market to hang out, or to visit relatives' houses, although Sun Weidong was a little dissatisfied, but also let her go, but one day, after Huang Min ran away from home again, he never came back.
Sun Weidong inquired about his wife's whereabouts in the village, and finally learned from a passer-by that Huang Min had left this poor mountain village and gone to the city to make a living, and this news completely crushed Sun Weidong.
After his wife ran away from home, Sun Weidong had to take care of the farm work in the fields and take care of his three young children, and his life was in trouble.
Faced with a difficult living environment, Sun Weidong could only go on hard, collecting firewood and selling money during the day, and taking care of his three sons at night. Slowly, the three children grew up, and in order to reduce the burden on their father, they also worked everywhere to earn money.
After his sons grew up, Sun Weidong's living environment improved a little, but his wife has been away from home for 30 years without any news, and sometimes, he thinks that if he could be more considerate back then, maybe Huang Min would not have run away from home.
Sun Weidong blames himself every day, and a news that he didn't expect came, Huang Min actually took the initiative to come back to the door! It's just that the purpose of this return is not to make up for regrets, but because he has a terminal illness and wants to seek care from his son and husband.
Knowing that his wife's first purpose after leaving home for 30 years was to seek care, Sun Weidong was extremely angry. He immediately dialed Huang Min's phone and reprimanded: Death will not bury you! It's been thirty years since you remembered to come back, and I don't have time to take care of you!
In order to impress Sun Weidong, Huang Min's sister recorded her illness into a video, hoping to let Sun Weidong and several sons come to take care of her. However, when Sun Weidong finished watching the video, there was only indifference on his face.
The eldest son, Sun, left a sentence of "I don't have time", and the other two sons, although they were not too excited about their mother, were willing to visit her in the hospital.
Faced with the coldness of her sons, Huang Min looked at Sun Weidong, hoping that her husband would give her a chance. Sun Weidong was silent for a moment and made up his mind to visit his wife in the hospital.
In the hospital, Huang Min has been tortured beyond recognition by the disease. Seeing his wife so miserable, a sadness rose in Sun Weidong's heart, he sat on the edge of the hospital bed and talked to Huang Min for a while.
Before leaving, Sun Weidong did not agree to Huang Min's request for them to take care of her, telling her to take care of her body now, and then left the hospital directly.
Walking out of the hospital, Sun Weidong's mind recalled the past thirty years ago, when Huang Min was beautiful and lively, maybe because he was too young and ignorant, so he had too many illusions about life.
I was busy with farm work every day, and I also ignored my wife's feelings, and I thought that hard work was the greatest virtue, but I didn't expect that in order to give my wife a warm home, I need to be more tolerant and considerate.
Thinking of this, Sun Weidong was full of emotion, he pulled his three sons to grow up alone, only he knows the hardships in the middle, and the sons have gradually grown up and have their own lives, but unfortunately, his wife left this home forever and never came back.
On the way out of the hospital, Sun Weidong's eyes had tears in the corners of his eyes, and all his regrets turned into dullness in the end, he only hoped that his wife could get a good death in the last time.
As for whether he can forgive his wife, I'm afraid that even Sun Weidong himself can't give an exact answer, 30 years of ties and hatred have been deeply imprinted in my heart, and only the passage of time can dilute everything.
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