In our busy days, a video squeezed into the sight of the big guys, and it was so popular. The video reads: "Bao's mother is distressed: how did the baby food made by herself become a snack for the old couple?"
Speaking of which, Bao Ma is really putting it in. Under the sun, the selection of materials, stewing, and an afternoon of hard work are just to give the child a good order. The complementary food is filled with the mother's full love, thinking that it can make the child healthy and healthy, not to mention how beautiful it is. But who would have thought that with a twist of his head, this loving supplementary food has "transformed" into a public snack at home. The grandparents inadvertently took a bite, which made this matter explode on the Internet.
[The bittersweet and sour in my heart] In the video, Bao's mother's voice trembled, and tears rolled in her eyes. What she was uncomfortable with was not only the loss of complementary food, but also the feeling that the love that belonged to her mother had been ignored. This scene made many parents feel entangled in their hearts, and they began to think about how to talk well with the older generation and understand each other.
This matter is getting bigger and bigger, and netizens are divided into two factions. On the one hand, he said, isn't it just to eat, but on the other hand, he didn't do it, saying that it was a matter of boundaries, and it was disrespectful to the new way of raising children. In everyone's words, there are hidden thoughts about how to get along at home and where personal boundaries are.
[Those little secrets at home] think about it carefully, this thing is not just as simple as complementary food, it is like a small mirror, reflecting the complex corners and corners of the home now. The older generation may just want to try it out and don't think about it so much, but this also reveals that the two generations have less communication and the idea is not right. It's not easy for young parents, and the old people can't find the north in the old and new concepts.
[Small family on the big stage of society] This thing can be so hot, in fact, it reflects everyone's concern about educating children, family and living in harmony. It is like a mirror of society, reflecting how we find a balance between family affection and self-esteem, how to respect each other, and move forward together when we alternate between the old and the new.
[In the end, it's still that love] This "complementary food turmoil", to put it simply, is actually a topic of how to put love in the right position. Love, should it be clearly marked in white? Do you want to draw a line for what you give? At home, harmony is the last word, and this harmony depends on mutual understanding and support.
In the end, what this little turmoil left everyone should not be just a casual conversation after dinner, but a profound reflection: love and boundaries, tradition and modernity, individuals and families, how can we go through these hurdles hand in hand, heart to heart, and together. On the other side of the screen, what can you do to make the story at home warmer and more loving?
Netizens hotly discussed:
1. This matter, I think both sides are reasonable, Bao Ma worked hard to make the supplementary food is definitely not happy, but grandparents may also taste a bite, communication is the most important!
2. Looking at Bao's mother's sad look, I really don't feel good in my heart, and the elders should be more considerate of the difficulty of young people with babies, after all, the times are different.
3. Sometimes this little thing at home is infinitely magnified when it is put on the Internet, and it is better to solve it behind closed doors, after all, everything is prosperous at home!
4. In my opinion, this is the problem of the generation gap, where does the older generation know what complementary food is not supplemented, everyone just sit down and understand.
5. Hey, my mother-in-law is like this, she always thinks that the food I make for my children is too fine, isn't it just a meal, as for being so particular?
6. In fact, from another point of view, the elderly may feel neglected, so they will behave like this, and if you care more about them, maybe things will not happen.
7. In the final analysis, it's better to understand each other, who hasn't had a little conflict, the key is how to resolve it, don't hurt the harmony.
8. After reading the comment area, I feel that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, but love is always right, and the ways and means must be improved!