In the modern view of women, being a housewife is shameful. Because a housewife is a person who needs to trample on the soles of her feet, reach out for money, and do not create value for the family. Because if you have been a housewife for a long time, you will be out of touch with the times and become a person who is behind the times. A strong woman is an excellent female representative who is self-reliant and self-reliant, can realize her own value by making money, and thus become a good role model for her children. Zhang Peisheng, a strong woman in "Chenghuan Ji", is such a strong woman.
As soon as she appeared, she conspired with Yao Zhiming, the male protagonist in the story, to get rid of the foreigner who used to manage the hotel Botticelli, to clear the line for herself to become the president of China, and then she had to cooperate with Yao Zhiming to get the Xing'anli Hotel founded by his grandmother, adding fuel to her successful promotion to president. It can be said that Zhang Peisheng has been a villain from the beginning, but you can't help but say that many professional women are like her, like a hungry wolf in the shopping mall, crazy looking for opportunities to make themselves successful.
But her successful female personality completely collapsed when her daughter Zhang Ziyu appeared. Because she was busy with work, she left her daughter abroad alone and let Yao Zhiming, who was not related by blood, be her guardian. The daughter rebelled and returned to China and quarreled with her, but her reaction was "I will provide you with food, you will drink, and you will go to the best school, what more do you want?"
Have many children heard this sentence?
In the same way, if it is changed to the mouth of housewife Liu Wanyu, it will become "I pulled her up with a handful of and urine, and she dares to contradict me now".
The logic behind these two statements is: I worked hard to raise you and create better conditions for you, what else do you want?
How many children have broken down when they hear these words? Because children expect a parent who is not just someone who raised you, but also someone who can give you fair advice in your life, give you a hug when you are in trouble, and share joy with you when you are successful. In other words, children want parents who can not only raise themselves, but also educate their children themselves.
When everyone expects different things, the children in the eyes of the parents will be rebellious and disobedient, and the parents in the eyes of the children will often accept what they think is right in the name of love. Housewife Liu Wanyu is like this, and so is strong woman Zhang Peisheng.
Even in a sense, Zhang Peisheng's so-called successful career makes her inferior to Liu Wanyu in handling the relationship with her children. Because Liu Wanyu does not have such a brilliant experience, she knows how to reflect and apologize when she understands the difficulties of her children, and she knows that she also has to learn and change.
But because Zhang Peisheng is rising step by step in his career, it is difficult for him to introspect and find that the way he loves his daughter is wrong. Zhang Peisheng's career achievements made her too logical and self-consistent, so stubborn that she didn't believe it, and she wouldn't admit that she was wrong. Therefore, as soon as Zhang Peisheng's daughter Zhang Ziyu appeared, everyone thought that she would be the resistance to the love between the protagonist Mai Chenghuan and Yao Zhiming, but after seeing the family atmosphere of the Mai family, she immediately changed her position and began to help Yao Zhiming and Mai Chenghuan. Because she knows very well that she and Yao Zhiming's family are unhappy, and only a happy family like Mai Chenghuan can cure it.
But Zhang Peisheng is smart, but she couldn't imagine that the family that didn't have so much money was what her daughter wanted.
In fact, originally, Zhang Ziyu would have a better innate advantage than Mai Chenghuan. Because Zhang Ziyu has more successful people around her, the path she chooses has a greater probability of success than the headless fly Mai Chenghuan. And in the real world, it is much easier for the rich to experience poverty than it is for the poor to experience wealth. However, Zhang Peisheng did not pass on his successful experience to Zhang Ziyu through companionship and education. Instead, Zhang Yousheng, like housewife Liu Wanyu, simply imposed what he thought was best on his children, which aroused the disgust of his children.
Now, the more I read "Cheng Huan Ji", the more I began to reflect on myself: education can increase people's knowledge, but it cannot really change the way a person deals with problems. For example, Zhang Peisheng.
So, don't look down on anyone, because it's very likely that you're making the same mistakes as others when you look down on them.
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