I swiped a video today and watched it really worried.,The child who broke down and screamed,Kept yelling at his mother.,Originally, I thought it was just this mother educating the child normally.,Until the little boy's mother said, "I beg you to be okay" and knelt down for the little boy.
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The little boy's mother still has a stick in her hand, can't an adult subdue a child? When the mother herself is emotionally unstable and kneels down to the baby in public, this kind of parent is very stubborn, and will always feel that it is all the child who is disobedient and will not find the reason for herself, in fact, there is no communication between the child and her, and they are just venting their emotions.
That's why I'm seeing a helpless child, the child doesn't know how to express emotions and needs guidance, and then her mother's behavior should not be once or twice, what does this feel like? This doll should be very aggrieved.
Mom keeps saying I beg you, I beg you, it's just the reason why the child is even more devastated.
Some netizens also think that children's obedience will really make people collapse, but as a parent, don't do excessive behavior, because children are really a copy and have a strong ability to imitate.
Don't provoke the baby when he is emotional, pull the baby aside and tell him: Mom gives you time to make you feel better and have a good chat. The elders must know how to catch the baby's emotions and reason at the right time, and the confrontation will only make the parent-child relationship worse and worse.
Standing at the highest point of moral kidnapping of babies, in fact, there has been no equal communication.
How important is the emotional stability of a family's parents, "If it weren't for you, I would have been divorced a long time ago", many parents have said to their children. Does it really make children grateful? No, it will only make children more depressed.
Is it really good to let the child know that it is difficult to feel guilty and blame himself? If you can choose to run away early and not be in this family, you should not find a reason if you are reluctant, and the child cannot afford this responsibility.
"Mom and Dad make money for you", why do children hate it.
In fact, it's not that the child is not filial, but I just think that there is a problem with saying this sentence, and I shouldn't say it, I know what I mean, that is, if you say so, then if you don't raise a child, you don't have to make money. I understand everything they do, but I can't accept that they take everything on the child, so that the child has a strong sense of guilt, so that the child can grow up sensible and obedient, I think this kind of words are very depressing for the child, so I think this sentence is annoying for many children.
It's not that you criticize anyone, after all, it's your family who will always love you, but as a parent, you must set an example and guide you more correctly.
In fact, from the mother's point of view, I can understand, although I don't agree, because she doesn't have her own social circle, she can't get out of this house around the stove, there is no one to talk to, and you, as her child, have become the object she can talk to, if you are a girl, it will be better, on the one hand, she will subconsciously talk to you, seeking a sense of identity, on the other hand, she thinks that you are a child will not and do not need to understand so much, there is such a big burden. So it forms a contradiction.
In the past, there were many people who did not receive a good education, without this concept, they did not know how to educate, but they still wanted their sons to become dragons and phoenixes, and people's personalities were more difficult to change, and they did not want their children to repeat the mistakes of the past, but they did not know how to do it.
Mutual understanding can make the parent-child relationship better and better!