Someone on Zhihu asked: What kind of life is a good life?
Some netizens replied: Live seriously, not live on the spot, it is a good life. Otherwise, your life will not go to stability, but to mediocrity.
And Zhou Shen sang more directly in the song: Eat well, sleep well, and live well, it turns out to be beautiful.
I see, we are always used to sacrificing the basics, and we always like to be ambitious, but in fact, a good life itself is a good life.
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Living well is a positive attitude
There is always a kind of person in life who complains about the sky, the earth, and the air all day long, either complaining about the bad environment, or complaining that he is not ladylike when he meets others, and he even complains about himself when he is in a hurry. Such a person is not pleasing to anyone, and the world is pitch black in his eyes, and he can't see a trace of light.
And when a person looks at everything with this mentality, his own life is not much better, and the worse his life is, the more this negative emotion will be aggravated, forming a vicious circle.
On the contrary, those who live well can always look at everything around them with a positive attitude, they understand the truth that "water is impermanent, people are not normal", and they firmly believe that things are man-made.
Therefore, even if they are in the quagmire, they can seize all the strength to make themselves upward, desperately break free from the shackles of the mud, and strive to make themselves grow; even if they have a bad hand, they will never give up on themselves, and will take advantage of every opportunity to let themselves win in danger and strive to break the game.
As the saying goes: If the heart is sunny, the flowers bloom by itself, and if the people are sunny and the breeze comes from the sun.
If you have the right mindset, everything will go smoothly.
Living well is a positive attitude and the only way to have a good life.
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Living well is a kind of wisdom that focuses on the present moment
As the saying goes, there is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself.
If you look closely, you will find that whether it is in life or in the workplace, there are always people who regret what has happened in the past and worry and anxiety about what has not yet happened.
The problem is that no matter how much you regret it, you can't go back to the past, and no matter how anxious you are, it won't help, but the more you regret it, the more you linger, and the more anxious you are, the more you can't do things with peace of mind.
Truly wise people know that no matter how good the sun was yesterday, it could not dry today's clothes, and no matter how strong the wind and rain were tomorrow, they would not be able to drench themselves today.
Only by grasping the present, focusing on the present, and taking advantage of the trend, can we better deal with those unpredictable things in the future.
Only by doing a good job in every moment will many problems be solved, and the desired results can be ripe and natural.
As Joe Kabakin, the father of mindfulness, said, "The best way to prepare for the future is to take care of the present." ”
Therefore, there is no need to look back frequently, and there is no need to rush to achieve success, open the road in the mountains, build bridges in the water, cherish the present, and strive to manage the present, which is always the best solution to solve all problems.
"When you've been through something, you feel like the scenery in front of you isn't the same as it used to be. ”
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Living well is a choice to be true to yourself
"The five colors are blinding, the five tones are deafening, and the five flavors are refreshing. ”
Colorful colors dazzle people's eyes, chaotic music makes people insensitive to hearing, and sumptuous food makes people's tongue untasteful.
Especially in today's society, all kinds of information are constantly pushed, all kinds of temptations emerge in endlessly, good and bad, true and false are difficult to distinguish, always interfering with our thoughts, testing our will, a little careless, will be led astray by the rhythm of others, and even go astray without knowing it.
People who really live well will calm down and listen to their inner voice, and will open their eyes to distinguish the truth of the information, and finally be loyal to their inner choice.
Because they understand that a person's life is full of more than 30,000 days, except for food, rest and other real time for study and work, there is not much time, so instead of trying to stop at many aspects, it is better to work intensively in one aspect.
The so-called: choose one thing, for life. Living well is nothing more than staying true to your original choice for the rest of your life, and then continuing to strive to make it the best. And such a life is undoubtedly beautiful.
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To live well is to be beautiful
Life is like a wonderful stage, each of us is our own protagonist, and we are all pursuing our own beauty. But occasionally I forget: living a good life is a beautiful thing in itself.
It is a positive attitude, a wisdom to focus on the present moment, and a choice to be true to yourself.
It makes us understand that since we have come to earth, we should be bold to love, to experience, to feel, to appreciate all the small joys.
"Perhaps, there will be an answer as the days go by, and there will be a gentle landing as you walk. ”
So live well!
Don't think too much, when you are down-to-earth and serious about life, what you want, life will definitely give back to you!