On April 10, an 86-year-old artist posted on social platforms announcing his remarriage, and according to the online content, the old artist started his fourth marriage, which quickly became a hot topic on the Internet.
In fact, since the Internet, the example of people over 70 years old marrying very young wives has been frequently reported on the Internet, and quickly became a hot event on the Internet, allowing netizens to comment for a long time, such as the old artist who made movies, for example, there was an 82-year-old scientist who married a 28-year-old wife, which was widely discussed on the Internet back then, and there was nothing to say, 20 years have passed, and the scientists are over 100 years old.
When it comes to the age of marriage, it is very common for everyone to be the age of the husband and the age of the wife, which is mostly the solid-state thinking formed under the concept of male superiority and inferiority, however, this is not absolute, even in ancient times, there is a saying that "the female is three hugging the gold brick", the wife is older and the husband is young, and the situation of child daughter-in-law also exists, which is mainly to consider the practical needs of life, and the concept of this view model believes that women can take better care of their husbands' lives in the family. Therefore, in ancient times, the age of marriage between men and women was not absolute, and what kind of age gap was good also depended on the needs of life. Under the ancient marriage system, it was common for men to take concubines when they were very old, and that was under a special system.
What is the best age to marry today? It is generally believed that age is the best marriage. In today's society, under the trend of the age gap between people, couples of the same age may be better, because in today's society, people with a gap between five or six years old have a sense of generation gap, and the age is comparable to that of marriage.
However, I think that there is a more realistic and marriage-friendly argument for having a child. In the eighties and nineties of the last century, there was a very famous Taiwanese scholar who proposed an optimal marriage formula: the man's age is halved and added to seven equals the woman's age, which is the best marriage match and is suitable for all ages.
According to his formula, for example, a 10-year-old boy should marry a 12-year-old girl, which is also very consistent with many marriages in ancient times. For example, a 20-year-old boy will marry a 17-year-old girl according to this formula, which is in line with the pure love between the big brother and the little sister now.
A 30-year-old man will marry a 22-year-old girl according to the above formula. This is a perfect fit for today's society. A 22-year-old girl, who has just graduated from college and doesn't know anything, needs to be taken care of by a 30-year-old man, and a 30-year-old man has also worked for a long time, and has accumulated a certain amount of life experience and material wealth.
According to the above formula, a 40-year-old man should marry a 27-year-old girl, and a 50-year-old man can marry a 32-year-old lady, which is also in line with today's social reality. A 60-year-old man marries a 37-year-old woman, a 70-year-old man marries a 42-year-old woman, and an 80-year-old man marries a 47-year-old woman.
It can be seen that the formula proposed by the above Taiwanese scholar still has some truth, however, his formulation is still based on the social concept of male superiority and inferiority of women.
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