#TiannandibeibeiNew Year's greetings# Get red envelopes together >
It's almost the New Year, and I'm scolded by my mother every day [laughs]
In the past two days, my 90-year-old mother with dementia has always been sick, but she doesn't like me, always saying that I stole her things to eat, and that her family's food is reserved for her son and grandson to eat, not "feeding the dog".
I said who is the dog, I didn't eat your dumplings at all, I brought food from home to eat, I haven't eaten a dumpling from your house.
Yesterday, because I fried a cabbage, my mother scolded me angrily, saying that I had a family that was not at home to eat, and I ran to her to eat and drink, wasting her gas.
My husband sent me over at 5 o'clock in the morning to take over, I can't go a day without vegetables, she won't let me do it if she doesn't eat. Yesterday at noon, I made a cabbage vermicelli soup, and I was scolded enough by my mother to make a soup, saying that it was a waste of her family's gas and oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, fortunately I am a daughter and not a nanny, otherwise who can stand her endless blame, she is not just a matter of passing.
This morning, because I ate a boiled egg in the kitchen, my mother saw another stinky scolding, and I said that I bought all the eggs in our house, can't I eat one? When did you not eat at home, and you were so mean to me?
When my mother saw me talking back to her, she began to cry, saying that the things in the family were all reserved for her son and grandson to eat, not to "feed the dogs".
Forget not to have "general knowledge" with her, her contempt for her daughter is not a day and a half, I used to think that my mother was really good to me, but since Alzheimer's disease, I have changed, especially rejecting my daughter, and the deep-rooted concept of patriarchy is difficult to change.
It was false to say that I was not angry, and I tried to convince myself: my mother is sick, I don't know her like her, fade out of her sight, and just dry her for a while.
There is an elderly person with Alzheimer's disease at home, and her daughter takes care of her like this, it is hard to imagine what it will be like to hire a nanny, and I think it will not be long if you hire someone.
I remember that when my niece took care of her, she often squatted in the kitchen to eat, and she didn't dare to make a sound, for fear that my grandmother would see it, and that kind of caution made me feel distressed, and now I understand my niece too well, but I won't do it.
Why should I be sneaky when I eat, eat the food I brought from home and don't eat yours, she scolds if she likes to scold, anyway, I have already practiced the thick skin of the copper wall.
It's almost the New Year, and some people scold it every day, which seems to be a kind of happiness. #我来唠家常#
