The real high emotional intelligence is not to know what to say, but to be able to answer, so that the other party has face, is the most clever words, learn these 6 points, so that you can easily mix in the society.
1. Be able to say things in the scene, for example, thank you for your concern, but you are too polite, don't care who the other party is, you have to praise it, and the relationship is one step closer.
Second, you should be able to say the opposite, for example, you are so good, I am not worthy of you, how can I climb you, I am refusing.
3. Talk less nonsense, for example, invite you to dinner another day, and talk about it next time, do you understand, you are refusing.
Fourth, if others praise you, you can say, where, where is I, how can I be as good as you say, so that the other party has a step down.
5. If others say, thank you, you are too polite, you can say, yes, this is my job.
6. If someone else says, I'll invite you, you can say, no, I've already eaten, or another day, make the other person feel comfortable.
In short, the real high emotional intelligence is not knowing what to say, but being able to answer the conversation, and the words that make the other party have face are the most brilliant words.
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