Dong Yuhui pointed out the problem of the good man in one sentence!
He said: You think about problems from countless angles, and in the end you are embarrassed to say your position, because you are so empathetic!
That's the reason for the good guys, for everyone's sake, they just can't take care of their emotions. I'm one of those people who have been bothered by this for years!
One day, a good neighbor invited him to dinner and made pancakes stuffed with sauerkraut, and everyone praised them and said they were delicious. I've always loved pasta, and everyone was looking forward to it. However, this time the filling was too salty and not to my taste.
When I took my first bite, my neighbor looked at me expectantly and asked if it was delicious? I couldn't bear to splash cold water on it, and blurted out that it was delicious!
Afterwards, I repeatedly didn't understand why I couldn't always express myself according to my heart, always took care of other people's emotions, was afraid that others would be unhappy, and was afraid of affecting everyone's mood, and finally wronged myself and ate a stomach full of food that I didn't want to eat.
It's really not good at all. There are also many such netizens in the comment area, and they are all because of good people, and their emotions are repeatedly consuming themselves.
I really want to change myself, I want to learn to please myself #LifeInsight # #我来唠家常#
