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I grew up in an unusual family, and my parents were always very cold to me, as if I didn't exist. Whenever I tried to get close to them, they always avoided them as if I wasn't their biological child. And what puzzles me the most is that whenever I mention going to school, they always avoid talking about it, even when facing me.
Until one day, I really decided to persevere in enrolling my grandson in school. I started looking around for the documents I needed to sign up, when I accidentally rummaged through the cabinets when a title deed caught my attention. I took the title deed and carefully compared it, and it suddenly became clear. The names on this title deed are my parents, and they are exactly what I remembered. I can't help but wonder why they keep avoiding me, and what is going on with this title deed?
I went to my parents with doubts, and when I opened the door, my heart was full of anticipation waiting for a response. Yet, unsurprisingly, they remained expressionless at me, as if I were air. I picked up the title deed, placed it in front of them, and asked with a serious face, "What the hell is going on? This is your name, isn't it?" and I tore the title deed to shreds without hesitation.
"This is me" I seemed to find the answer in them, but I got unexpected results. My parents looked at the title deed that I had torn to shreds and didn't say a word. I understood that this home was not real from the beginning. I left this home, and I firmly believed in my heart that true relatives are not connected by blood, but when you need them, they are willing to shield you from the wind and rain. These are not real relatives, even though they are related by blood, but they have nothing to do with me for a long time.
In the outside world, I regained my confidence and chose to start anew. I no longer force a family that has lost my true feelings, I want to create a warm world of my own. Every time I think of my parents' indifference to me, I cherish everything I have now, because all this is created by me with my own hands, and it is my real home. Sometimes, a little more choice, a little less tangled, maybe we will be happier. Yes, I walked out of my pain and embraced a new life.
After a while, I decided to move to a new city and start a new life. In this city, I got a job, made many friends, and gradually accepted the city as my new home. However, lonely days will inevitably come to the door occasionally.
One day, while I was shopping at the supermarket, I accidentally bumped into a girl of the same age, and she apologized to me a little shyly: "I'm sorry, I didn't pay attention. I smiled and said, "It's okay, you should also pay attention to the dots." "We talked for a while and it felt like we were in tune with each other. Later, we became good friends. Her name is Xiaoya, she is a counselor, and I told her about my troubles during the chat, and she told me, "Life is like this, everyone has their experiences. However, you must learn to accept the past and cherish the present and the future. These words were like a light to me, lighting up the darkness deep within me. We became each other's confidants, going shopping, eating food, and sharing the moments of life together.
Gradually, I found that I had found a sense of belonging in my new city. I've found a warm circle of friends, I have a fulfilling job, and I'm enjoying my life more and more. I began to muster up the courage to find my own happiness. Xiaoya's friendship made me feel warm, and I gradually faded away from the loneliness and loss I had before.
One day, Xiaoya invited me to her house. Her home is simply and warmly furnished, and the walls are covered with paintings she painted herself. In the living room, I saw her family, and they were having a great time. Xiaoya's mother warmly beckoned me to sit down and made tea for us. Xiaoya's father is a kind old man, and watching the happy scene of their family, I also feel a trace of warmth in my heart.
On the seat, Xiaoya's father suddenly said, "Do you have a family?" I was silent for a moment, bowing my head and saying nothing. Xiaoya's father seemed to sense my inner struggle, looked at me with concern and said, "Young people, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must face them bravely. His words are full of understanding and inclusiveness for life. I nodded, "Thank you, I'll try." "At this moment, I understood that warmth does not necessarily come from blood, but from the mutual support of the heart. On that night with Xiaoya's family, I felt like I had found a long-lost home. Their kindness and tolerance towards me made me feel the warmth of family affection.
On the road of growth, I slowly learned to be grateful, and I no longer confused the confusion of the past. In this new city, I gained friendship and warmth, and I also tasted the sweetness of self-reliance. Most importantly, I have learned to cherish what I have in front of me and to be hopeful about the future. Along this road full of warmth and companionship, I am happy, and I am grateful to cherish the scenery along the way.
One day, Xiaoya suddenly took my hand and said, "I'm going to take you to a place." I looked at her with some confusion, she just smiled, reluctant to give more information. We came to a quiet mountain village with mountains and rivers and a peaceful and beautiful scenery.
At nightfall, we came to a small hill. Standing on the top of the hill, I saw a starry sky, shining brightly. Xiaoya said quietly: "This is our family's graveyard and the home of my soul. Here, I found peace in life and cherished everything in front of me more and more. I listened silently, feeling the firmness and understanding in her heart, and her strength and tolerance deeply infected me.
As we walked down the hill, Xiaoya seemed to open her heart to me, allowing me to see the softest side of her heart. I felt extremely cherished and grateful, and I also said to her under this starry sky: "Thank you for showing me the strong side and teaching me how to face difficulties." "We hugged each other and cried, and at that moment, I felt that the loneliness and sadness in my heart had been healed because of this sincere friendship. I finally understood that in this world, there are always some people, and their company will bring us great strength.
As the days passed, Xiaoya and I were still the most important people in each other's lives. We filled each other's loneliness and emptiness with each other's warmth and understanding, faced the ups and downs of life together, and firmly believed that as long as we had each other's company, no matter how big the wind and waves were, we could ride the wind and waves. This friendship has taught me to cherish, to work hard, and to understand that happiness is not something that is out of reach. Happiness is inadvertently within reach. I will never feel lonely inside again. Every time I recall that experience, my heart is filled with gratitude and warmth. Because those loneliness and pain have become my motivation to move forward in the future.
Through that experience, I learned to cherish the people and things around me, and saw the warm and grateful side of life. I started to settle down in the new city and take on the challenges ahead with a more positive attitude. My work has also become more motivating and I have learned to enjoy every beautiful moment in life.
One day, I received a strange phone call, and a familiar voice came from the other end: "Hey, are you okay?" Years later, I finally heard her again. My emotions instantly tensed, but the desire in my heart made me look forward to it excess. I held back my excitement and calmly replied, "Mom, I'm all right." "She told me that she regretted it and wanted to rebuild a mother-daughter relationship with me. Hearing these words, I felt an inexplicable emotion in my heart. After so many years, she finally spoke. She confessed her mistakes and felt deeply remorseful for my neglect and indifference. Instead of saying yes right away, I told her I needed time to think.
I told Xiaoya the news, and she patted me on the shoulder and said, "This is a new beginning, you can give her a chance, and also give yourself a chance to be free." Her words sent ripples through my heart, maybe it was my chance to rebuild my family and fill in the gaps, or maybe it was time to undo my mother's hurt to me.
Eventually, I decided to meet my mother. On the day we met, my mother stood in front of me, full of guilt and affection. For some reason, I didn't feel anger in my heart, but more relief and tolerance. The meeting between my mother and me allowed the estranged relationship to reconnect with each other, as if we were back in the old days. We began to communicate slowly, looking for each other's bits and pieces, and slowly injected ourselves into each other's lives.
In the process, I learned to understand and also learned to forgive. We watched movies together, ate together, and chatted together, and I slowly felt the sincerity of my mother's heart. Her honesty and change also made me feel relieved of the pain from the heart.
I understand that life is not all smooth sailing, and sometimes, there will be difficulties and hurts, but as long as there is faith and desire in my heart, the sunshine of happiness will always shine ahead. I opened my heart, accepted my mother's sincerity, and released my own tolerance. This new beginning brought me a deep sense of ease and tranquility, and it also allowed me to feel at home again. In my new life, I have learned to be brave, tolerant, cherished, and understood that the strength and warmth of family affection will never fade.
After many years, I finally got back together with my mother. We slowly built a new relationship, and every time I received a call from her, I felt an indescribable warmth. Time kept moving forward, and I matured in all these changes. Although I still feel lonely and lost at some point, I have learned to cherish the happiness in front of me and stop dwelling on the pain of the past.
However, one fine afternoon, I received an unexpected phone call, and the voice on the other end of the line seemed a little uneasy: "Hello, I'm your father, I don't know if you still remember me." I was stunned, and many years later, I was able to receive a call from him. As if memories of the past were churning through my mind, I hesitated for a moment and replied, "Dad, I remember you." "My father told me he regretted it, and he felt so guilty about the years I had missed in my life. His voice was full of guilt and remorse.
After rebuilding my relationship with my mother, I became firm and tolerant inside, and I accepted my father's agreed meeting. The day we met, I found that he had gray hair, and I finally realized the remorse and pain in his heart. In the face of this man who once hurt me, I no longer feel angry, but longing to find the father-daughter relationship that I once lost. We did a lot of communication and he was honest with me about his life over the years. In his narration, I discovered that he also had his own pain and pain. I suddenly felt an indescribable sense of relief and tolerance, as if the knot in my heart had loosened a little with this meeting.
We have become more understanding and tolerant of each other. He was willing to apologize for the past, and I learned to understand with a tolerant heart, accept with tolerance, and try to re-establish this father-daughter relationship. We walked down the street together, enjoying the time together, and at that moment, I felt warm and peaceful inside.
We met not to dig up the pain of the past, but to find the long-lost family affection. Through this process, I learned to forgive, and I also learned to look at life more forgivingly, including my father's weaknesses and faults. Maybe time will make everything okay and also make us more mature and understanding. This meeting doesn't mean that everything will be smooth sailing, but at least we have been able to tolerate and understand each other. It may take us time to build this new relationship, but at least we have the courage to take this step and face the dullness and uncertainty of life together.
Our meeting between us didn't solve all the problems, but there is no doubt that it marked a new beginning. The distance between me and my parents is slowly decreasing, and I have learned to forgive and tolerate. This experience has made me stronger and more aware of how to deal with the setbacks and uncertainties in my life. There is no doubt that every step of life will become more colorful because of the growth of life experience.
After sharing this experience with Xiaoya, she looked at me gently and said, "Some things, the deeper you bury them in your heart, the harder it is to let go." However, when you are truly determined to face it, you will find that your heart becomes wider and no longer haunted by the gloom of the past. Her words were like a beacon of light that guided me in the direction of my journey. I am deeply grateful to her for giving me the firmest guidance in my most perplexed times. A little bit of gratitude gradually watered the flowers in my heart, and also made me know how to be grateful and cherish more.
From this moment on, my heart became more peaceful and free. No longer bothered by the regrets of the past, I have learned to grasp the present and love life more. I have plucked up the courage to face the future and learned to appreciate what I have in front of me even more. Maybe the future will be full of twists and turns and challenges, but I am willing to meet it with gratitude and love for life.
I deeply understand how precious family affection is, even if there have been twists and turns, as long as you are willing, you can always find that long-lost family affection. I have learned to cherish family and friendship because they are the softest part of my heart. Like the warm sun of spring, it permeates my heart and rejuvenates my endless vitality.
Since then, I have appreciated the beauty of life more, cherished the emotions between people, and knew how to find a more abundant life in this grateful mood. Grateful for the past experience, grateful for the friendship and family around us, and with a grateful attitude to meet every day in the future, I believe that the sunshine of happiness will always shine ahead. This is the most sincere feeling in my heart, and it is also the most important belief in my life.