Suddenly! A well-known Hong Kong star committed suicide by burning charcoal, and his husband stole food many times, and the last scene before his death was exposed
There is unfortunate news in the Hong Kong entertainment industry again.
On December 26, former Asian sister Lai Shuxian burned charcoal at her home in North Point, and her son reported the case after finding out, but unfortunately died after being sent to the hospital at the age of 47.
Looking through Li Shuxian's social account, she also posted photos of Christmas dinner on Christmas night, posts and pictures seem to be normal, it seems that everyone is eating and having fun, according to friends, they only went home one after another at about 3 o'clock in the morning, and in just a few hours, why did Li Shuxian suddenly commit suicide by burning charcoal?
As Li Shuxian's ex-husband Lu Huiguang confirmed the news of his ex-wife's death in an interview with the media, due to the suddenness of the incident, the other party was reluctant to talk more.
And the current husband Xu Zhizheng was photographed leaving the hospital with his friends, without any interview, he was wearing a mask and looking gloomy.
When his former partner Ren Dahua learned the news, he was very sorry: Haimei is gone, many friends are gone, life is impermanent, I hope they will go all the way, everyone should cherish the people in front of them, and don't drill the horns in case of trouble.
It is reported that Li Shuxian suffered from depression for more than 20 years before his death, so many netizens believe that his suicide is related to depression.
Her life has been full of ups and downs, her career began with a glorious honor, but ended in an unfortunate tragedy, and now her death is deeply regrettable.
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Li Shuxian was born in 1977, and she has been loved by everyone since she was a child.
In 1995, she participated in the selection of Miss Asia, although she was defeated by Yang Gongru, she also won the runner-up and successfully entered the entertainment industry.
After entering the entertainment industry, she has always been known as the "frozen lady".
In her early years, she used to be the host of "Afternoon Tea", and later set foot in the entertainment industry, playing the role of Fang Ting, the girlfriend of the underworld brother Ren Dahua, in "Crazy Boy 3: One Hand Covers the Sky" and became popular.
There is a scene in the movie where she was forced to take nude photos by Zhang Yaoyang, and her sexy image left a deep impression on the audience, and this is also one of Li Shuxian's most daring performances since the film, and it also made her a well-known "sister-in-law" on the street.
Later, she participated in the filming of many movies, including "Lan Kwai Fong 7 Princesses" and "Biochemical Shou Corpse", but unfortunately these movies did not bring great repercussions, and her fame gradually faded.
She first married Lu Huiguang, the right-hand man of Jackie Chan's eldest brother, and gave birth to 2 sons, and became a full-time mother after marriage, doing her best to educate her children, while Lu Huiguang was responsible for making money to support her family.
But with the end of martial arts films and the rise of literary films, the road of martial arts actors has become narrower and narrower, resulting in financial problems for the two for a while.
Later, the marriage lasted only 8 years before it ended hastily.
It is rumored that the two have incompatible personalities and cannot continue to play the role of a loving couple, and some people say that Lu Huiguang secretly cheated during filming, and Li Shuxian chose to divorce after struggling in pain after discovering the truth.
But what the specific reason is, the two did not disclose one or two, but said that they would raise their children together like a family to grow up.
Many years later, Lu Huiguang mentioned this marriage in an interview, only to admit that he sacrificed a lot of time with his family for work at that time, neglected his ex-wife, and various reasons led to the divorce of the two.
And Li Shuxian also revealed that he got married and had children too early in his 20s, his thinking was not mature enough, and he was too impulsive.
But in any case, the two are still family and friends, they did not turn their faces with each other in public, and they got along very well in private.
More than a year after the divorce, Li Shuxian quickly married beauty doctor Xu Zhizheng, perhaps because of her husband's work, even if she has two sons for her current husband, she can still maintain a beautiful face and figure.
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may have experienced a failure in a marriage that has made Li Shuxian grow a lot, and her attitude towards her current marriage is very appropriate.
In the face of her four sons, she does not have any partiality, and will always actively resolve conflicts, maintain this cross-family family connection, and ensure that the four children, especially the eldest and second, will not fall victim to their failed marriages.
Although she is sometimes too busy with work to take care of the children's daily life, she always cooks for the children on special holidays, and invites a group of friends to come together to create a strong festive atmosphere.
On the other hand, her high emotional intelligence helped her properly solve the prejudice and alienation of her current husband's family against her ex-husband's children.
The family is happy, and her current husband Hui Zhizheng is also very fond of her ex-husband Lo Wai-kwong's two sons, and often invites the two teenagers to his country house in the New Territories to be guests and go fishing on horseback.
Everyone thought that this marriage should be very sweet and happy, but they didn't expect it to make her fall into the abyss again.
Even though she has done a very good job as a wife and mother, she still has not won the loyalty of her husband.
In 2012, her husband Xu Zhizheng was photographed kissing with his female employees on the street.
Li Shuxian moved out of the residence in a fit of anger, but when she thought that she was a second marriage, and she had 4 sons, she couldn't bear to let the child face another failure in marriage with her, so she could only explain her separation from her husband on the grounds of "home decoration".
It didn't take long for her to simply turn a blind eye and forgive her husband.
Although Xu Zhizheng seems to be a prodigal son, he will be a good husband and father at home.
But in fact, the heart of stealing food is not dead, and he was photographed buying sex toys and going to the hotel with the female staff.
This time, Li Shuxian finally couldn't bear it, she took off her wedding ring, and left a message on social platforms: "Pig Rancid (潲)", and directly counterattacked Xiao San.
According to the staff of Hui Zhizheng's clinic, Li Shuxian went to the clinic because her husband stole food, quarreled with Xu Zhizheng, and finally left crying.
Maybe it's because she and her current two sons are still young, maybe she doesn't know what to do after the divorce, she still tries her best to maintain the superficial harmony of the family.
Even if the warmth of this home is long gone, it is like an empty shell.
In this way, although the two did not announce their divorce, their marriage status has long existed in name only.
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In the days that followed, Li Shuxian rarely posted photos of herself and her husband on social accounts, but mostly shared life photos and fitness photos.
In her career, she seems to have found a new motivation, enrolled in the Gemmological Institute to change her career to do gem identification, and made a rare cameo appearance in "Law and Love".
The state of life is all for the better.
But who knew that "Law and Love" had become her posthumous work.
Some people say that if she committed suicide because of depression, then the cause of depression must be inseparable from her stealing husband.
Because no matter from which point of view, how could she be depressed when she loves her children so much and actively creates a positive and harmonious environment for them?
Even if her first marriage failed, she could still say goodbye with dignity, how could she, who became friends with her ex-husband, suffer from depression due to a moment of disappointment?
Presumably in her second marriage, she endured again and again, and the pain of betrayal had nowhere to vent, which eventually led to the onset of depression.
In fact, there are really too many such examples.
Therefore, why is Xingzhi telling everyone every time that marriage cannot be endured. Escape conflict through patience and maintain semblance of harmony. You can neither change the other party nor change the status quo, so as to suppress yourself for a long time, and in the end it is only yourself who will be hurt.
As Cai Kangyong once said in "Wonderful Sayings": "Forbearance is a chronic poison for marriage." "
A research team in New Zealand analyzed some divorce cases and found that all marriages on the verge of collapse are always strong for a long time, while the other party is never silent and forbearing.
Blind forbearance makes the betrayed party in the marriage more and more fearless, and the weaker party will eventually come to an end.
In the event of an unhappy marriage, the best way for a woman is not to forbear, but to climb out of the swamp, use wisdom to regain the dominance of marriage, stabilize her own core, and control her own interests.
If it is impossible to solve the problem with communication, then we should take a legal way to collect all the evidence in our favor, and when the chips in our hands are enough, we will go to the table for a showdown at one time and kill the other party by surprise.
The only thing is that you can't "endure bitterly" or "endure to death". If you are also facing similar problems, if you are also in a state of "no bottom line forbearance" and cannot withdraw, welcome to contact Xingzhi, Xingzhi will teach you how to draw salary in an endangered marriage.