Tonight, I walked around the neighborhood and enjoyed the breeze on my cheeks. Suddenly, I saw a familiar figure walking in front of me, it was my old leader Uncle Wang. This old leader has suppressed my work three times, and each time I have been hit hard. His appearance made me want to go up and slap him a few times for a while, but I held back the anger in my heart.
"Xiao Zhang, I haven't seen you for a long time!" Uncle Wang smiled kindly when he saw me. But I was very conflicted inside. The look on his face made me feel like he didn't seem to feel any guilt for the blow he had inflicted on me.
"yes, it's been a long time. I reluctantly replied, but I felt depressed in my heart. We just exchanged a few pleasantries and left. I know that this encounter was not an accident, but an emotional encounter. But I can't forget Uncle Wang's three times of suppression of me, which makes me unforgivable.
When I got home, I was in deep thought, and the appearance of Uncle Wang reminded me of the past. I couldn't help but start re-examining everything that had happened in the past. Once in the workplace, I tried my best to fight for promotion, and all this also attracted the jealousy and suppression of the old leader. Although I tried my best to deal with it on the surface, I couldn't let go of my deep grievances and resentment.
Tomorrow, I decided to talk to Uncle Wang. Perhaps, this is the best way for me to release my resentment. But at the same time, I am well aware that forgiveness is not easy. This requires courage and responsibility, and more importantly, true inner reconciliation.
I look forward to tomorrow's conversation with Uncle Wang, which will be an unexpected twist. Perhaps, this will also be a baptism in my heart.
The next day, I dressed up and went to Uncle Wang's house. He heard my knock at the door and cordially invited me in. The aroma of coffee fills the room, which makes it feel warm. We sat down and talked about the past.
"Uncle Wang, I've been thinking about the problem between us. I said.
"Really, Xiao Zhang, in fact, the competition in the company is very normal. Don't take it too seriously. Uncle Wang said as he poured two cups of coffee.
"I understand the importance of competition, but I feel like the oppression that used to be on me is beyond the norm. "I poured out my frustration.
"Xiao Zhang, my request to you is also for your good. You are young and promising, and what I did at that time was to train you. Wang Bo explained.
Hearing his words, the anger in my heart was ignited again. He always used "for your good" to cover up his actions, and I felt that he was denying the harm he had done to me.
"Uncle Wang, I can't agree with your explanation. I've been devastated by what you've done, have you ever thought about how I feel?" I got a little emotional.
Uncle Wang was silent for a while, and his eyes seemed to be a little complicated. Eventually, he let out a long sigh, "Maybe I went too far." ”
I saw that he had admitted his mistake, and my heart calmed down a little. "Uncle Wang, I'm not here to blame you. I just want you to understand how I felt at the time. ”
The conversation went on for a long time, and we seem to have found some common ground. Unexpectedly, when I was about to leave, Uncle Wang suddenly said to me: "Xiao Zhang, I still have something to tell you, I hope you can understand me in the future." ”
A trace of doubt rose in my heart, and I looked at him with alert eyes.
"I used to be oppressed, so maybe I was too you, but I don't want you to follow the same path I walked back then. Uncle Wang's voice revealed a hint of helplessness.
I was stunned, I didn't expect him to have a similar experience. I savored his words. Perhaps, his suppression of me was also out of good intentions. His words made me re-examine him.
Back at home, a series of conversations echoed through my head. I revisited the past and found some details that I had overlooked. Perhaps, Uncle Wang had to make some decisions for my good. My heart began to fluctuate, and my original firm beliefs began to waver.
This unexpected turn of events has changed my perception of the past a bit. Maybe the contradictions between people are not as simple as they seem. What do I do next?
The next day, I mustered up the courage and decided to go to Uncle Wang for a farewell talk. I understand that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting, but I've decided to let go of the resentment in my heart and look forward.
I went to Uncle Wang's house and rang the doorbell. After a few moments, Uncle Wang opened the door and looked at me with a little surprise.
"Xiao Zhang, what's the matter?" asked Uncle Wang with concern.
"Uncle Wang, I came to you to talk to you about our past. I said frankly.
Uncle Wang listened to my words, and a complicated expression appeared on his face. We sat down, and I told him about my past grievances and grievances. I told him that during these long days, I had been struggling with the stress of life and the strife of work. But after an illness, I began to understand what my deepest heart really desired.
At the end of the conversation, I said to him, "Uncle Wang, I don't want to complain and hold grudges anymore, I just want to tell you that I have let go." ”
Uncle Wang was silent for a moment, then nodded slowly. At this moment, I felt that a big stone in my heart seemed to fall to the ground. Looking at the smile on Uncle Wang's face, I knew that the knot between us was finally untied.
"Mom, can you talk to me?" I stepped forward and whispered.
Mom looked at me and smiled gently, "What's the matter, what's the matter?"
I sat down next to her and said a conversation I had with Uncle Wang. I said that I understood a lot of things, and at the same time I felt the power of forgiveness. But after I said this, my mother's eyes suddenly became a little complicated.
"Mom, what's wrong with you?" I asked, somewhat surprised.
Mom sighed, her expression a little conflicted, "Xiao Zhang, I know you're trying to forgive, but have you forgotten that some things are not easy to let go so easily." ”
I looked at my mother, a little dazed, "Mom, what are you talking about...... What?"
I listened quietly, and a sense of foreboding gradually rose in my heart.
"At that time, your father also made some painful decisions. His choice involves our entire family and gives me and you a lot. Mom's words were a little choked.
I was silent for a moment, then said with some emotion, "Mom, I think we should try to let go of our past grievances. Perhaps, my dad also had his difficulties. We can't continue to let the past haunt us. ”
My mother looked at me with mixed emotions in her eyes. "Xiao Zhang, I understand what you mean. But some things are not as simple as you can imagine. Perhaps, at some point, tolerance is not always the only answer in the face of family entanglements. ”
My conversation with my mom made me feel distraught. After all, I don't know exactly what Daddy's business is, maybe it's family, twists and turns.
All of this made me rethink what it means to be tolerant. Entanglements and conflicts in the family cannot be resolved simply by tolerance. In the face of family conflicts, it may take more time and more in-depth thinking. Perhaps, the knot in my heart is not so easy to unravel.
The next day, I called Uncle Wang and made an appointment to meet.
When I saw him, his face was still so calm. We exchanged a few words of greeting, and I finally couldn't help but speak: "Uncle Wang, I want to talk to you about the past again." ”
Uncle Wang looked at me and said softly, "Yes, things at work are always full of contradictions and misunderstandings. ”
I told Uncle Wang that I always felt sorry for him and that I couldn't give my best performance at the meeting last time, but I also stressed the importance of three promotions. I looked at him with concern, hoping he understood.
He was silent for a while, and then sighed deeply: "I also went to understand your situation, and it is true that my evaluation of you is a little biased. I'm sorry, but sometimes I also suffer from work pressure. ”
At that moment, his cell phone rang. "I'm sorry, I had to answer this call. Uncle Wang walked away, leaving me alone to think.
"What's going on at home?" I asked curiously.
Uncle Wang hesitated, "Actually, there are some problems in my relationship with the elders in the family. The stress of my work has always affected my family relationships, and sometimes I have always neglected my family's feelings. ”
I was deeply touched by his words, perhaps each of us has our own difficulties. I comforted him and said, "Maybe we all need to spend more time caring for our families and solving family problems in order to better face work." ”
Uncle Wang smiled slightly: "Maybe you're right, family is the most important thing." I'll think about it, thank you for your enlightenment. ”
We walked around, and we all felt a little more comfortable. On the way home, I thought deeply about the importance of family, and perhaps this is something that I need to think about carefully.
This chance encounter made me re-examine the past, and it also gave me a deeper understanding of some truths. Perhaps, this conversation can also be an opportunity for me to have a better relationship with Uncle Wang in the future.
Early the next morning, I decided to go to Uncle Wang. Walking on the road, there are still many contradictions in my heart. After all, the grievances and resentments over the years do not dissipate overnight. But I realized that it was a knot in my heart that had to be untied. I'm going to face it today without hesitation.
When I arrived at Uncle Wang's doorstep, I was a little hesitant. At this moment, Uncle Wang actually appeared in front of my eyes.
"Xiao Zhang, why did you invite me to my house?" Uncle Wang looked a little surprised.
"Uncle Wang, I would like to talk to you about some things about our past. "I said what I really thought.
"Oh, yes, what do we have to talk about?" said Uncle Wang.
"I'm sorry, Uncle Wang, I really can't help it. In fact, over the years, your suppression of me has always made me unwilling. I'd like to talk to you about it. "I started to get a little emotional.
"Xiao Zhang, you also know over the years that the work pressure of the leader is very high, and I also made some decisions for the benefit of the post, don't take it to heart. Uncle Wang looked a little embarrassed.
"I understand that the work of leadership is indeed not easy, but your suppression has given me a lot of frustration, and I have always had a lot of grievances in my heart, which is difficult to let go. "I tried to make him understand how I was feeling.
"Xiao Zhang, you are also a veteran in the workplace, it's time to learn to let go of it, so that it is good for yourself and your family. Uncle Wang's tone softened a lot.
I was silent for a while, in fact, Uncle Wang's words also made sense. After all, I am no longer a young newcomer to the workplace, and inner maturity and tolerance may be a step I need to take.
On the way out of Uncle Wang's house, I was a little hesitant, but my heart began to slowly relax. Perhaps, let go of the resentment in your heart to truly liberate yourself.
However, when I got home, something unexpected happened. My wife, who was waiting for me at home, told me about some past conflicts. She brought up what she had always been unhappy with about me, and it caught me off guard.
I couldn't help but start thinking that I let go of the resentment I had against Uncle Wang, but I ignored some of the problems in my family. Is there anything else I've overlooked? Hopefully I'll find out.
Soon, the next morning arrived. I decided to go to Uncle Wang and openly and honestly express my deep grievances and dissatisfaction to him. I don't want to let these negative emotions occupy my heart anymore, I need to release myself, and I also want to release such emotions to Uncle Wang.
Just as I was about to get up and go out, my phone rang. It was my brother's call.
"Xiao Zhang, why haven't you come yet? Come here as soon as possible, Dad has an accident!" The brother's voice was extremely nervous.
My heart tightened, and I hurriedly put down my phone and hurried to the hospital. Dad was lying in a hospital bed, his face pale, and I could feel his pain. It turned out that Dad had been feeling unwell for a while, but he kept it from his family. It wasn't until this morning that he suddenly fell ill and was in critical condition.
At this time, the contradiction in my heart became more acute. My planned conversation of rational communication and forgiveness came to naught in an instant. How do I deal with this sudden and unexpected turn of events? I am torn between family and work.
I decided to deal with the sudden conflicts in the family first and take care of my father's health problems. As for the conflicts at work, I decided to deal with them in a more mature and rational way, and no longer let negative emotions affect my mood and mentality. Facing the future, I need to know how to cherish my family more, and how to deal with conflicts in life, so that I can become more mature and wise. This unexpected turn of events has taught me something more important, and I will face every contradiction and challenge in life with a more mature attitude.