The 52-year-old Lei Yuyang, who has been working in film for many years, married mainland female anchor Ma Li in 2012 and settled in Guangzhou.
Lei Yuyang was promoted to father 3 years ago, and his son Lei Ting is now studying in an international school in Guangzhou.
In the first two years of his son's birth, Lei Yuyang still had to take care of his work and fly around, and there was no time to accompany his son.
After having children at home, life has changed a lot, and Lei Yuyang said that when the work is over, he will hurry home and rarely socialize:
"He's 3 and a half years old now, and when he's about 9 years old, he has his own classmates and friends, and he doesn't want to play with me and has his own world."
"I cherish these years, some jobs are too far away and too hard, or I don't pick up after going for many days, and now I rarely see friends."
"Even if you meet friends, they all have children, friends only get together once in a few years, and they used to go out to drink when they were single."
"I have an open attitude towards having a second child, and my wife said enough is enough, taking care of one is very time-consuming, if two are too hard."
"My wife is also very busy getting back into work, and she loves the job now and doesn't want to give up, but I don't think she will have another life for the time being."