Hangzhou second-child mother sunbathing summer vacation schedule Netizens: Look at the contraception can be

There are also readers in the "Further Education Treasure" background message: My family's two babies summer vacation schedule is arranged for 20 pages

This densely packed summer vacation schedule has attracted heated discussion among netizens.

At the end of each semester, parents are always extra anxious, especially for families with two children, and their anxiety is doubled. It's not just the final exams that make everyone anxious, but also the summer schedules for children.

Yes, the annual "Summer Vacation Schedule" is staged again.

Two days ago, the Qianbao reporter saw a girlfriend with two treasures in the circle of friends, and posted the summer schedule of the two children who had just come out (see picture) - two months were arranged densely, and there was almost no free time. Don't say that the child is tired, just picking up the child to this and that training class is an unparalleled chore.

Someone commented under these two pictures: "This summer vacation schedule for the second child who is about to rise to the beginning of the small ascension, seeing that contraception can be obtained, ask you if you dare to have a baby." ”

Dabao has to deal with further education

Erbao is busy with quality education

This girlfriend of the Money Daily reporter, Dabao is about to enter the sixth grade of primary school in the second half of the year, facing the pressure of Xiaoshengchu, Xiaobao is also in kindergarten. Just as the so-called "Dabao is busy going to school, Xiaobao lays the foundation", these days, just giving Dabao and Erbao a summer schedule has broken my heart. Not to mention that as a party, even the reporter, an outsider, looked at the two tables listed and her scalp was numb.

The big treasure of the girlfriend's family is called "haha", and the second treasure is called "doll". This summer schedule, she has been lined up for several days, and she is still quite thoughtful. Because the age difference between the two children is a bit large, the summer vacation plan has its own focus: Monday to Friday, I reported a training class in mathematics and science to Haha, and strived to sprint in the sixth grade to see if I could go to an ideal private junior high school. On weekends and holidays, children always have to move their muscles and bones, otherwise they will be old in the air-conditioned room and will be prone to illness. Therefore, I gave Dabao a basketball class, and in the early stage of the small ascension, physical fitness is also very important.

As for the second treasure doll, just read kindergarten, there is no pressure to go to school for the time being, but the quality education should be paid attention to as soon as possible, roller skating, piano and English classes, in the summer vacation.

After reading the summer schedule of the second treasure of the Zhang family, the reporter of the money newspaper immediately felt that all the mothers of the second child are superhuman, and nothing else, just daily transfers, it is not the physical work that ordinary people can take down. Of course, in order to facilitate the transfer, the place where the two children attend classes at a certain time is basically the same. "There is no one else to help at home, mainly the children's fathers pick them up." Girlfriend said. It seems that this dad has been busy this summer, just exercise to lose weight.

The girlfriend later quietly told reporters that in fact, Dabao's piano lessons and Erbao's dance and calligraphy lessons had not been added to this table...

Such a "summer schedule is full" story

Just ask around

Ms. Hu's eldest son is in the fifth grade this year, and her youngest daughter has just entered kindergarten. This summer, she focused on her son, who was about to usher in the beginning of Xiaosheng. "We had planned to let him go to private schools a long time ago, so this time is very important." Ms. Hu said.

She showed the reporter the summer vacation schedule that she had just made, mainly based on Dabao's subject training. From Monday to Friday, there are daily language and mathematics training courses. Also learn jazz drums.

Since having Erbao, there is no elderly person in the family to help, Ms. Hu simply resigned and became a freelancer. She thought that by reducing the workload, she would be able to bring the baby well, but the personal experience of the past two years made her deeply feel the hardship of taking two babies.

This summer, Monday through Friday, she commutes between the piano shop and the training class. Because there is no one at home, you have to take the second treasure with you, and the degree of hard work is self-evident.

"Before my daughter was still young, it was the most difficult to wake her up every morning, while the eldest child was going to be late for class, while the second child refused to get up, crying hard, and then there was really no way, I could only grit my teeth and take my daughter out of the door to send my son to school." Recalling the experience of the previous two years, Ms. Hu said helplessly.

This summer, it was another challenge for my sister. My brother's jazz drum lessons started at 8 a.m., but the piano shop was a 40-minute drive from home, and there was a traffic jam early on weekdays, so the mother and son had to get up at 6 a.m.

"In fact, as long as you get used to it, pick-up and drop-off is not difficult, I am afraid of encountering unexpected situations, only I am an adult, and it is not okay to find someone to take a handle." Ms. Hu said.

In addition to the lack of time and manpower, the mother of the second child is also generally worried about the financial crisis in the summer vacation, because there are two "shredded frying machines" at home.

Mother Ye (pseudonym), who lives in the west of the city, is in the sixth grade of Dabao Daye this year, and will report to junior high school next semester; Erbao Xiaoye is 3 years old and attends kindergarten classes in the second half of the year. Her summer study schedule for her two children is also densely packed. But the reporter took a closer look and found that the summer learning tasks of the two children were not heavy. But Mother Ye also has worries - the expenses are too large. For example, just taking your children to the surrounding cities according to the plan will cost at least 30,000 yuan. Coupled with the training costs of Erbao, various extracurricular books, school supplies and other expenses, at least fifty or sixty thousand yuan will be spent on two children this summer.

Thousands of parents of two children were investigated

The biggest difficulty of summer vacation is "lack of skills"

Qianbao Education WeChat public account "Shengxuebao" did a small survey for two-child families, as of 8 p.m. last night, a total of nearly 2,000 parents filled out the questionnaire.

For the question "If you are a second-child mother, what do you think is the biggest difficulty in managing a baby in the summer", 49% of parents chose "both children need to be taken care of, and they lack skills". 23% of parents are worried about the financial situation of their families, believing that "the expenditure on training courses and tourism is too large". It seems that during the summer vacation, parents are "throwing thousands of dollars" for their children, but they are also feeling the pain of huge money expenditures. Another 21% of parents believe that two children have different learning priorities and need to do two sets of planning. To some extent, this has increased the payment of energy, manpower and financial resources, making parents tired of coping.

Second question: What are the main summer plans you plan for your two children?

52% of parents said that they would apply for different interest classes for their two children's interests and learning progress. 30% of parents believe that the learning pressure of the eldest child is greater, and it is necessary to apply for subject training courses; as for the second child, it depends on the situation, and if there is spare energy, it will apply for some interest classes. 18% of parents firmly say that summer vacations are for relaxation and will take their two children on trips. They believe that instead of spending money on training courses to make adults and children suffer, it is better to go out and enjoy the family. Of course, the premise is that you can resist the anxiety contagion and great pressure from the outside world.

Third question, we want to know how much money parents of two children are willing to spend on their children during the summer vacation?

It seems that everyone is much more rational than in reality, 67% of parents choose "10,000-30,000 yuan"; 27% are willing to spend "40,000-60,000 yuan"; 4% of those who choose "70,000-90,000 yuan"; and 2% of parents choose "100,000 yuan and above", it seems that this part of the family "has a mine at home", not bad money.

Netizen comments are divided into two factions

"Do you think I will?"

"Hangzhou second child mother posted the summer vacation schedule" poked at the pain points of many second child parents, this article was pushed by the "Further Education Treasure" and qianjiang Evening News public account, to last night's 8 o'clock cumulative reading has been close to 150,000, the background is received countless comments. These comments are nothing more than two factions, one is to accuse the current parents of pushing their children to various training classes regardless of whether they are willing or not; and the opposing side, most of them have a bitter tear: Do you think I am willing?

Of course, there are also a small number of parents who have read several summer vacation schedules we have released and think that this is only a "small meaning", and the training classes that their families have reported to their children are more than the ones described in the article.

One mother even said that the schedule she had made for her son who was about to rise to the beginning of the little ascension was 20 pages long! Here are some of the interesting comments we've picked:

Fang's wings: Compared with me, it is not a thing. Dawa is a junior high school, the learning pressure is high, and the second is twins, not yet the age of kindergarten. In addition, there was no elderly person at home to help, and we both had to go to work. That bitterness, talking too much is tears...

Vanilla Yo-Yo: I have to line up the excel table every summer vacation, and every day I check the same thing as I want to do, and I have to check it all before I can sleep.

Thank you for the time of the sand: That's also a full-time mother of two children... As a second-child mother who has not gotten up when she goes out to work every day, often has to continue to work at home after work, and is forced to go crazy by various work chores, she thinks of making a summer vacation plan for the children, thinks about it for half a month and has not put it into action, nor does she have the heart to study what summer vacation training classes, and has no energy to plan a trip... The children were probably left to free-range and seek their own blessings.

Jia Jia Mama: I feel that this class schedule is really a small meaning, this boss's class is not much, my boss five liters six summer vacation training class is double her family, there is a little milk baby who is less than two years old at home, every day you need to read Tang poems, three characters, Analects to the second elder, talk about mathematics, everything needs time and money. In the summer vacation, I can only work hard grandparents, grandparents, plus our two husbands and wives, and the whole family is mobilized.

Xiao Shen: From the perspective of children, do they like this arrangement? The children are now not called summer vacation, called training leave.

Little Binbin: Let me be fair, you are not children, and you will not know the fun of children in learning! How many companions can you have for your current children when you stay at home? Can it be compared to ours? We were next door neighbors and several children were crazy playing together, of course happy. Now the child, a child of a stay at home alone to play or watch TV, the age difference between the second child is not large, you can also play and fight, the age difference is also playing each other, go outside to communicate with the same age, for the child, is not it also a kind of happiness? Of course, when mothers apply for classes, they should really consider their children's interests and hobbies.

Shen Menghe