Fates are intertwined, encounters and separations, and everything follows fate. Some people come to us to repay kindness, good cause. The arrival of others means debt, which is a bad fate. This is a fate and cannot be predicted. The so-called "good fortune is impermanent, take precautions". The following kinds of people may be a burden in your life, seeking your repayment, and once they are targeted, disaster will come at any time.
First, the burdensome partner, a typical representative of debt collection.
As the saying goes: "Marriage in the past life is in this life, and a hundred generations of cultivation come to sleep together." "An entanglement in past and present lives has created a couple who share a bed. However, this fate is not always rosy. In real life, although some couples share a bed, they are enemies in their past lives, and they meet in this life to seek each other's repayment. Sometimes, perhaps one party owed a debt to the other in a past life, otherwise there would be no encounter in this life. And this encounter often means an endless dispute. Some men wanted to start a business, but married a woman who dragged their feet, and eventually ruined their lives. Some women originally wanted to marry a good man, but married a man with a fancy heart, and their lives were miserable. The world is so complicated, either they love each other like honey, or they hate each other like wrongdoers. When a person is in trouble, it is often because he has harmed himself.
Second, the children of blood relations who are unfilial to you are here to collect debts.
When we were young, we often heard old people say, "This child is related to you, and he must be filial." "However, the reality may not be otherwise. The children we give birth to are not necessarily good to us. No matter how close the blood relationship is, it cannot change their nature of wanting "revenge and debt collection" in their bones. There was a man from the village who only had a son at the age of 35 and was overjoyed. However, more than 20 years later, his son has always had a bad relationship with him, often colliding with him. This man was puzzled, this is obviously his own son, why is he opposed to him? The wife also asked the child, why should he go against the father? But the child replied to his mother, "When I see my father, I get bored. As soon as I hear him speak, I have the urge to refute and oppose him. "This kind of emotion has always existed since childhood. Children who have a bad relationship with their parents, even if you have a good education, can not change the fact that they are not at odds with their parents. When parents give birth to them, it means that they need to be prepared to be "collected for debts".
3. Obstructors who suddenly appear during the rise of your career.
This kind of "mutual survival" is not uncommon in history. In his 50s, Cao Cao had unified the north. According to his plan, he only needs to defeat Eastern Wu and recover Jiangnan, and the world will be all yours. However, Liu Bei and Sun Quan became obstacles to Cao Cao's great cause of unification, and their obstruction brought down Cao Cao's army. Liu Bei and Sun Quan dealt a severe blow to Cao Cao in the Battle of Chibi, inflicting great losses on him. Years later, Lü Meng attacked Jingzhou, resulting in Guan Yu's killing, and Liu Bei, who had just recovered Hanzhong, was also in trouble. Soon after, Liu Bei launched the Battle of Yiling, but Sun Quan sent Lu Xun to burn the company camp for 700 li. Sun Quan hindered both Cao Cao and Liu Bei, and eventually Sun Quan was also involved and eventually came to his own end. This is the mystery of fate, Liu Bei and Cao Cao are not members of the royal family, but because of a person named Sun Quan, the entire historical situation has been changed. Life is full of unpredictable factors, and it is necessary to be vigilant against obstacles to career advancement.
4. The evil people who have helped him, but suffered from it.
We often say that we should not test human nature with our own kindness, because human nature is fragile. When we were young, we always had good intentions and were willing to help people in need. At that time, we thought that if we helped others, they would become our friends. However, after experiencing a bite back, we realized how naïve this was. Our goodness may be seen by others as an opportunity. As soon as they have the opportunity, they will bite back. In the fable of "Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf", the farmer hunts down the big bad wolf and is rescued by the big bad wolf who asks Mr. Dongguo to save him. Mr. Dongguo helped the big bad wolf. However, after the big bad wolf escapes the farmer's pursuit, he wants to eat Mr. Dongguo. This is an act of "ingratitude" and all such people are not to be trusted. Once dealing with such a person, it is likely to be harmed. Therefore, we must keep our eyes open and be wary of those around us.