From the perspective of life, not everyone has a "child life".
Some people are destined to have no heirs, so they will not be able to meet the person they like. Even if you marry someone you like, you don't necessarily have children. Even if you have children, there will be many problems during this period.
In real life, many people want to have one or two children and pass on the family lineage. However, there are always some people, no matter how they are born, they just can't be born.
Why? Because their destiny is to control children, and there is no fate of children. Even if they look for a lover everywhere, they can't give birth, and there may be fertility problems during the period.
They are all human beings, so how can some people be particularly fertile and some people be sexually impotent? The key is that if they are destined to have no children, they will have such an experience.
The following groups of people do not have children, and even if they have children, the children will not last long.
1. Those who suffer from karma have no children.
The Southern Song Dynasty had a "notorious" emperor, Song Gaozong Zhao Gou. The reason why he is notorious is because he instructed the traitor Qin Hui to kill Yue Fei.
Zhao Gou is a descendant of Zhao Guangyi of Song Taizong. It was through the "sound of candle shadow axe" that he killed his brother Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin and the careerist who seized the throne.
Zhao Guangyi believes that if he takes the throne of his brother, the throne will always belong to his own line. As everyone knows, it was transmitted to Zhao Gou, but something went wrong.
Zhao Gou, who had a child when he was young, Zhao Yang, unfortunately died at the age of 2. Later, because he was frightened by Jin Bing, Zhao Gou lost his fertility while fleeing.
He has no heirs, so he can only recognize Zhao Yan as his adopted son. And this Zhao Yan is the descendant of Song Taizu's lineage. After going around for a hundred years, the throne still returned to the Taizu lineage.
This is the so-called "magpie's nest dove occupies the day". The cause of the ancestors, the fruit of Zhao Gou, took something that did not belong to him, and he had to return it after all.
2. Those who hit the Kezi have no heirs.
In the last years of the Western Jin Dynasty, there was a super official, Deng You. At that time, he and his clan encountered a war in the north, and could only flee to the south with the Jin family.
In the process of fleeing, Deng You and his people encountered pursuers. In order to protect his clan, Deng You could only sacrifice his son. The wife cried: He is your son, how can you bear to do this to him?
Deng You shook his head: Either one dies, or the whole clan dies, as the head of the family, how can I serve the public if I don't set an example? What's more, you and I are young, if there is a life, I can return to Jiangnan, and I will have another one.
The son attracted the attention of the pursuers, and Deng You and his people survived, but the son was chopped into meat sauce. After returning to Jiangnan, an accident happened, and the young wife was unable to have children.
In order to give birth to a son, he asked someone to find a concubine. When I greeted my relatives, I found out that this concubine was my niece. Deng You sighed, he had no children in this life, so he let go of his niece and never married again.
Some people are destined to be "Kezi", either their children leave early, or they encounter impermanence and have no children in their lives. Whether there are children or not, and whether the children can last until they are old, are all questions of "life".
3. Those who have no relationship with children have no children.
Everything in the world needs to talk about "fate". What family you were born in, what environment you grew up in, who you meet, and who you are with, this is all "fate".
You have a relationship with this couple, so you are reincarnated into their family. In the same way, if a couple does not have children, then they will not have children.
At this time, some people will say, "Is an adopted child considered his own heir?" Strictly speaking, it does not count. Only children who are related to their own blood can be regarded as their own offspring.
Some husbands and wives have no children, no matter how they linger; some men have been betrayed by their wives and have many children, none of which are their own; and some husbands and wives have children who have died in the middle of the journey.
Why do these tragic things happen so often? It can be summed up in one sentence, there are times in life when you have to have them, and there are times in life when you don't want them.
If you want to be born, you may not be able to give birth. If you can be born, you may not be raised. This interlocking accident is basically impossible to escape for some people who are destined to have no children.
Fourth, those who conceive of Dink have no heirs.
After all, there are conceptual differences and conflicts between people. For example, people who want to pass on the lineage don't understand why anyone likes Dink?
The former want children and have their ideas and pursuits. The latter do not want children and also have their ideas and pursuits. It is precisely because of different concepts and pursuits that their choices are also different.
There is no right or wrong between these two concepts, only whether they are suitable or not. There is a principle of succession, and Dink also has the truth of Dink.
Some people, the reason why there is a Dink concept is because they have had some bad experiences or encountered some difficulties. These experiences and dilemmas are not shared by everyone.
As far as what happened to them, it shows a truth, they are destined to have no heirs, and they are destined to have Dink's thoughts. The question of ideas, in the final analysis, is a matter of fate.
Whether there are heirs or not, whether the descendants are prosperous, just let it be. There are always people who have a queen, and there are always people who have no queen, one yin and one yang is the Tao. So much for.