3 high emotional intelligence tricks.
Liang Chenyu: A person without emotional intelligence can easily lose because of emotional intelligence, even if he makes a lot of money with IQ. Some people say that I just have low emotional intelligence, and I ask everyone to be more inclusive. You ask this society, he will tolerate one. Is it always easy to offend people by speaking? Well. So the next 3 ways to improve emotional intelligence, you must quickly remember well, so that you can live a flourishing life.
First, when you express dissatisfaction with someone, express your anger, but don't express anger. It's like not saying: Why are you so stupid? Why are you doing this? Instead, it should be replaced by: You did something very wrong, I don't need to say it. You should also know what you did wrong, and let your anger vent within a reasonable range, rather than regret saying those angry words and harsh words later.
Second, think more about the other party's position when speaking, send fruit to people, don't say: I can't finish eating and send you, but change to: This is delicious. You have to try, someone else messed things up, don't say: I already knew, but to replace it with something wrong? I'll help you, my husband came back too late from work. Don't say: How did you come back? Instead, it should be replaced by: next time you have to say earlier, I am worried about your words, and I can directly strangle the source of many quarrels.
Third, whether it is sales or dinner toasts, or self-introduction, you can boast on any occasion, and then say what you originally want to say to customers: customers as generous as you are really rare. At the dinner toast, you can say: Mr. Li, I have long heard that you are not only successful in your career, but also dashing. When introducing yourself, you can say: I am very honored to meet all the wonderful people today, to do things beautifully, to be able to make a person succeed to say beautifully, but to accelerate your success. Agree, guys?
