"I'm just going to smash his entire self-esteem and bully him enough at home!"
A few years ago, Guo Degang was proud to share his "education methods" in major programs.
When he said these words, he never took Guo Qilin's feelings to heart.
As a result, the current world came too quickly, and Guo Degang regretted dying!
At that time, after Guo Degang divorced his wife Hu Zhonghui, he went to Beijing alone.
Perhaps afraid that his son would suffer with him, he entrusted Guo Qilin to his parents to take care of.
It wasn't until Guo Qilin was six years old that Guo Degang took him back.
But in Guo Degang's family, he is not the only child.
At that time, there were seven or eight apprentices around Guo Degang, who followed Guo Degang in food and housing.
The more children there are in the family, the more contradictions will naturally be.
Whenever this time, Guo Qilin became that punching bag...
If there are any good things in the family, they are given to the apprentice first, and finally Guo Qilin's turn can be obtained.
So much so that Guo Qilin is in his 20s, and if he wants to eat at home, he must first ask Guo Degang.
Perhaps, Guo Degang himself has experienced too much "competition",
Therefore, he has his own unique views on Guo Qilin's education and believes in suppressing education.
Guo Qilin has not been "pampered" at home since he was a child, because Guo Dejian let him know,
Even if you are my son, you do not have any privileges.
He accidentally fell while playing, and no one came to help him and coax him.
Even his biological father Guo Degang continued to play with others like a nobody.
It didn't hurt to fall down, but his father's disregard was like a sharp knife, deeply rooted in Guo Qilin's heart.
At that time, Guo Degang's family ate a lot, but the number of stools was limited,
So every time others sat on a stool, Guo Qilin could only sit on the stairs with a bowl to eat.
Guo Qilin was a picky eater when he was a child, and he liked to eat meat rather than vegetables,
Can Guo Degang make him have the problem of "provoking trouble"? That must not be possible!
Whenever he ate, Guo Degang would give him a bowl of food and let him go to the corner to eat clean.
Whether you cry or laugh, the bowl must be eaten.
Guo Degang was very proud, because he felt that Guo Qilin's obedience was all good "tuning" by himself.
But Guo Qilin said:
"I cry because everyone has chairs to sit on."
"And I can only sit on the stairs and eat dishes that I don't like."
Not only that, as Guo Degang's only child,
He had no stool to eat at home, not even a toothbrush, a towel, a bed or a room.
So Guo Qilin laughed at himself in the interview: "Isn't I just a guest there." ”
(iii)
From childhood to adulthood, Guo Qilin will be severely criticized as long as he makes mistakes.
Moreover, the more people there are, the more Guo Degang has to scold him in public.
He likes to press Guo Qilin's self-esteem to the ground and rub it fiercely.
In 2012, the fledgling Guo Qilin assisted Yue Yunpeng.
This is the first time that 16-year-old Guo Qilin has faced so many audiences.
Because of nervousness and inexperience, a lot of baggage was not spoken, and finally it was smashed.
In the backstage of the day, Guo Degang "grabbed" him,
In front of all the staff and senior brothers and brothers, he scolded him fiercely.
Afterwards, he forced Guo Qilin to write an apology letter, and scolded him again on social platforms.
Therefore, when Guo Qilin had the ability to get out of Guo Degang's control, the first thing he did was to move out.
Ever since he moved out of the house, he made up his mind,
Even if he starved to death, he would not ask his father for a penny.
Under Guo Degang's education, Guo Qilin was extremely inferior from a young age, saying:
"Before 2015, when I talked to people, I wanted to lie on the ground."
(iv)
Maybe it's getting older and soft-hearted, maybe it's recognizing your "mistakes".
Guo Degang's education of his youngest son Guo Fenyang can be called "doting".
For the convenience of his youngest son's schooling, he bought a house directly in Tianjin and returned to Tianjin to settle down.
I get up at 7 o'clock every day to take my youngest son to school, and pick him up in the afternoon for dinner.
Every time he mentioned his younger son, Guo Qilin praised with a spoiled face:
"Guo Fenyang is amazing, the language logic is too good, even I can't talk about him."
This image of a loving father is something that Guo Qilin has lacked in his life.
Outsiders feel sorry for Guo Qilin when they see it,
Not to mention how uncomfortable Guo Qilin should have felt when he saw this kind of differential treatment.
(v)
Perhaps it is Guo Degang's differential treatment and the education method of "suffocation" from an early age.
Now Guo Qilin rarely goes home, and rarely takes the initiative to see Guo Degang.
Guo Degang missed him at this time, and he publicly shouted on the show without seeing him.
Even in order to see Guo Qilin, he deliberately arranged some work for him.
But his love came too late, and Guo Qilin had long passed the age where he needed "fatherly love".
In fact, what is the need for that "home" to go back?
Since he was a child, he was like a guest, calling him a young class master,
In fact, 99% of the equity of Deyun Society is in the hands of stepmother Wang Hui.
The key real power is in the hands of the stepmother, but someone always asks Guo Qilin:
"When will you go back to take over the Deyun Society?"
What can Guo Qilin say? He has no shares at all, what "qualifications" to manage.
I can only maintain a superficial calm and say "I don't want to care".
So is Guo Degang "really concerned" about Guo Qilin?
If you really "care", why don't you even pay attention to what your son has done?
It is no wonder that now Guo Qilin has the ability to bring his biological mother back from Japan as soon as possible.
Love or not, only what you say is not counted, love in your heart is true love.
Today, Guo Qilin and his father and stepmother maintain a superficial "peace".
After all, Guo Qilin's family letters on the show were not written to his father, but to Yu Qian.
He had time to meet with his brothers, but he didn't have time to go home to see his father.
That speaks volumes about it.
For Guo Qilin's success, some people attribute it to the success of Guo Degang's "education".
Some people feel that this is Guo Qilin's own contention.
But as Guo Qilin himself said:
"Without me, his education wouldn't have worked."