Lin Huiyin, Lin Su
The world knows that Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng and his wife know one, two or three things about Lin Huiyin's emotional entanglement, but how many people know about Liang Sicheng's second wife, Lin Su?
Mention Lin Huiyin, maybe you can say two sentences, "the originator of green tea", having a grudge with Bingxin, Xu Zhimo divorcing her, Jin Yuelin not marrying her for life...
But when Lin Su is mentioned, he will think about it for half a day, hesitate, Liang Sicheng's second wife, who took care of him for many years, is more similar to the existence of a nanny.
When Lin Hui was in bed due to a serious illness, Liang Sicheng had to take care of her every day, and even learned intravenous injection for her, and after Lin Huiyin's death, he was depressed for many years.
As for Lin Su, he was slapped by his ex-wife's daughter in the living room of the house, but he could not justifiably find her husband to support her, but instead got his cold gaze and warning: "Why bother?" ”
Liang Sicheng
Until 2004, Lin Su's book "Liang Sicheng, Lin Huiyin and I" came out, and the names of Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng, Lin Su and others once again resounded throughout the country.
Along with the circulation of Lin Hui's title of "Green Tea of the Republic of China", Liang Sicheng's future wife also began to appear in front of everyone's eyes.
Not only does it make people wonder, if Lin Hui is as unchaste as the book says, lingering among several men, why does Liang Sicheng always love and cherish her?
Treating this second wife, why did Liang Sicheng repeatedly indifference and frustrated her?
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Love always has a priority and quality.
Compared with the later period when Lin Hui died of illness, Lin Su took care of him for many years and accompanied Liang Sicheng to get his approval. Lin Huiyin's first acquaintance with Liang Sicheng was more romantic.
Lin Huiyin
These two people originated from the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker, but they fell into free love and soul mate.
Liang Sicheng's father was Liang Qichao, a modern Chinese thinker and statesman, and one of the leaders of the national Penghu Reform Law.
Under the influence of his father, he was deeply affected by the national crisis and the hardships of the people, and from an early age he had a very high national belief.
Lin Hui's family lineage was comparable, and his grandfather Lin Xiaoke was a scholar during the Guangxu Dynasty, who served as a local governor and advocated running schools and opening up people's wisdom.
Her name is from Lin Xiaogong, the original name of Lin Huiyin (later changed to "yin" to "yin" because of the collision of her name), excerpted from the "Shijing Daya" in the "Great Concubine Huiyin, then Baisi Male", which means female virtue and virtuousness.
His father, Lin Changmin, was a politician and educator of the time, advocating democratic politics.
When his daughter was 16 years old, he took her to London, England, and Lin Huiyin studied at St. Mary's College, and met Xu Zhimo during his time in Britain, the rumored "gossip boyfriend" in later generations.
But no matter how it spread in later generations, Lin Huiyin at that time never liked Xu Zhimo, or never created an illusion for him that he was willing to be with him.
The young girl has known, but she is not willing to contact love, she is bent on improving her self-knowledge and cultivation, so in the relationship with Xu Zhimo, she always abides by etiquette and never takes a wrong half step.
Lin Changmin
At that time, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng had not yet known each other, and it was not until she returned to China that the young man and woman slowly became acquainted and fell in love under the guidance of their elders.
The opportunity that prompted Lin Huiyin to be with Liang Sicheng should mention their subsequent experience of studying in a foreign country.
In June 1924, under the arrangement of Liang Qichao, the young man and woman went to the United States to study together.
To read, you have to choose a major, and what major you choose is also a job.
What Liang Sicheng wanted to learn at first is unknown, but in his later recollections, he once said that he studied architecture because of Lin Huiyin.
Lin Huiyin told her boyfriend that he would study architecture in the future.
Liang Sicheng felt incredible, such a weak and gentle woman, how can not have anything to do with the rough, rough architecture, he can not imagine her wind and rain, sweat under the hot sun.
So he tentatively asked, "You mean house?" Or buildings? ”
Lin Huiyin laughed in a shallow way, and responded crisply and loudly: "It's architecture." ”
This young man, who didn't even know what architecture was, decided to follow her to learn architecture in the future for the sake of the girl he liked.
Go to school together, work together, live together, grow old together. It was the best he could think of.
During their studies in the United States, the two urged each other and learned from each other, and they even thoroughly ate the knowledge of architecture.
In his studies, Liang Sicheng also felt the charm of architecture more and more, and he learned that China did not Chinese its own architectural works.
He was full of enthusiasm and wanted to write a Chinese "History of Chinese Architecture".
No matter how outstanding and famous Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin's parents are, but that is them, the two men and women have always been drowned in the aura of their fathers, it can be said that there is no other reputation.
Liang Sicheng boldly proclaimed his ideals and propositions when he was dressed in white, which naturally received opposition from some people, who ridiculed Liang Sicheng for only knowing fantasies, and only Lin Huiyin believed him.
When the two graduated from college, in the spring of 1928, they held a wedding ceremony at the Chinese Consulate General, in which Liang Sicheng's brother-in-law was consul general in Ottawa.
Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng
Liang Sicheng, who finally wanted to embrace the beauty, could not believe that Lin Hui was destined to have many suitors because of her excellent appearance and outstanding talent.
If it is said that after her father's death, the Liang family's care for her does not have to be promised.
Even though they had been in love for several years, Lin Huiyin had never changed his mind from beginning to end, but Liang Sicheng still couldn't control his shame, and he asked Lin Huiyin:
"I'll only ask this question once, and I'll never ask it again, so why is the person you chose me?"
Lin Huiyin looked into his eyes and replied seriously: "I will answer this question for the rest of my life, are you ready to listen to my answer?" ”
This is Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng acquaintance, there is no vigorous, but there is a long-term companionship and soul acquaintance, as well as the relief of their elders and the blessings of relatives and friends.
Lin Huiyin and his father Lin Changmin
On the other hand, Liang Sicheng and his second wife, Lin Su, have not been recognized by the people around them, and there is only helplessness and self-comfort for the two people.
Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin have been married for more than 20 years, sharing hardships and hardships, climbing up and down together, and never complaining.
If Lin Huiyin is Liang Sicheng's rib and is his destined half soul, then Lin Su is a cup he likes, accustomed to it, liked, but not irreplaceable.
Liang Sicheng knew Lin Su through Lin Huiyin, a woman 27 years younger than herself who was a student sponsored by his wife, and Lin Su's boyfriend Cheng Yingquan was also a student of Liang Sicheng at that time.
At that time, Lin Huiyin, who was already in the late stage of tuberculosis, chose to take two afternoons a week to learn English for her despite her serious illness, which opened the prelude to the understanding of Lin Su and Liang Sicheng.
Lin Su and Liang Sicheng
After Lin Hui died of a serious illness, Liang Sicheng, who was immersed in the departure of his wife, mourned and thought about it day and night. At this darkest time in life, It was Lin Su who accompanied him.
If the previous love is very beautiful, then people can't help but look forward to the next equally beautiful love. This is exactly what happened between Liang Sicheng and Lin Su.
In the years of being dependent on Lin Huiyin, Lin Huiyin worked neatly outside, and was gentle and virtuous inside, giving Liang Sicheng enough love and companionship, and also let him fall into love and being loved, and he was not willing to go out.
Lin Su, who has been with him for several years, is mistaken by Liang Sicheng for love, so he confesses to her that he hopes to spend the rest of his life with her.
But after actually being with Lin Su, Liang Sicheng found that the feeling between her and him was not what he wanted.
There was no way back, no matter what, no one could be as compatible as Lin Huiyin and him.
One is a young acquaintance, mutual recognition and mutual achievement, the other is a woman who took the initiative to post after becoming famous, Liang Sicheng and Lin Su were greatly involved in the entanglement between him and Lin Huiyin at the beginning.
Without juvenile chasing, without the company of the end, and without sharing weal and woe, Liang Sicheng is destined not to treat Lin Su like Lin Huiyin.
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One of the important reasons for the large difference in treatment between Lin Su and Lin Huiyin is the cognitive difference and temperament quality of the two people.
Lin Huiyin, from beginning to end, knew what he wanted, how to go, and how to get it. Even if there were many temptations, she would not look in her eyes.
In the book, Lin Su describes Lin Huiyin's "erotic past", and Lin Huiyin tells Xu Zhimo that if he wants to be with her, he needs to divorce her first.
However, after Xu Zhimo divorced, Lin Huiyin refused to recognize this request and instead married Liang Sicheng.
But in fact, Lin Huiyin never considered being with Xu Zhimo. She once explained this:
"Xu Zhimo's love at that time was not the real me, but the Lin Huiyin he imagined with the romantic emotions of a poet, but I was not actually the person he thought in his heart."
She clearly understood that Xu Zhimo's love was only a fantasy, and she did not want to be wronged and asked for everything to go to this illusion. At the same time, she has a very high moral standard and is not willing to destroy other people's families.
Xu Zhimo
Even if Xu Zhimo's marriage was broken in the later period, it had nothing to do with Lin Huiyin himself, and it was Xu Zhimo himself who was always indifferent in his marriage to Zhang Youyi.
On the other hand, Lin Su was ecstatic when Liang Sicheng wanted to marry her, and she only thought that she could get what she wanted, but never thought that this was really the marriage she wanted?
Does Liang Sicheng really like her? Not necessarily.
In the main hall of her and Liang Sicheng's home, there is still a picture of her deceased wife Lin Huiyin hanging brightly, and she is required to wipe it from time to time, so that there is no dust.
Once, Lin Su was depressed, took off Lin Huiyin's photo (another said to be a broken frame), was seen by the ex-wife's daughter Liang Zaibing, and immediately slapped her.
Lin Huiyin with his children
Liang Sicheng, who saw what had happened next to him, also had a cold face and did not give Lin Su a good face.
Lin Su's children (with her ex-husband's children) occasionally visited Theo Si-sung and Lim-soo's home and were also forbidden from entering the living room.
Lin Su, the wife, did not look like a wife, like a nanny at home, who was set up with thousands of terms and conditions, and was not allowed to cross the line.
Another reason for the difference in the treatment of the two wives is that Lin Huiyin has brought Too many good memories to Liang Sicheng, even if his life is in danger and precarious.
Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, who returned to the motherland, single-handedly founded the Architecture Department of Shandong University, when they attended classes during the day and stayed in their rooms at night, always paying attention to the movement of bandits passing outside the door.
Replaced by ordinary people, they have long complained about the world, hated the turmoil of the times, and it is difficult to survive in a chaotic world. Lin Huiyin found pleasure in it, writing:
"At this time, we didn't dare to turn on the lights, and listening to their team of horses galloping outside the house, the atmosphere was really tense. Sometimes we peeked out through the window, and the bearded men in the moonlight rode horses and red cloaks, galloping past, which was also very romantic. ”
The romanticization of the bandits who represented the killing and disaster suddenly reduced a lot of fear.
Later, during the war, Lin Huiyin hid in an ordinary rural place in Sichuan with Liang Qichao and his children. For the sake of ancient architecture research, the two have no savings and their lives are difficult.
Mosquitoes stared at the children, biting their delicate skin and making their bodies red and swollen.
Liang Sicheng did not have any sweet words, but was silent on the side, silently picking apart the pustules on the child's body, and at most comforting a "good child" at the end.
Lin Huiyin took this as an interesting story to their friends in the United States, comparing the two children to "difficult children in the slums of Dickens's novels."
In the decades of getting along with Lin Huiyin, the suffering between them has not been less, and the hardships have not been less, but Liang Sicheng has always maintained his confidence in life and the innocence of his feelings, and it has to be said that Lin Huiyin has contributed greatly to it.
On the other hand, between Liang Sicheng and Lin Su, they were together after he became famous, and the emotional foundation was not solid. While experiencing tempering, Lin Su's performance once again disappointed Liang Sicheng.
Liang Sicheng, Lin Su
Lin Su was originally Cheng Yingquan's wife, but later Cheng Yingquan was criticized and dismissed from all positions.
Lin Su's first reaction was to worry that she was implicated, so she decided to divorce Cheng Yingquan and forbade her ex-husband from having any contact with the children.
Lin Su, who discarded Cheng Yingquan, was like a horse that let go of its reins, running freely to the meadow she had already looked up to, and the famous architect Liang Sicheng, who had lost his wife.
She entered Liang Sicheng's home on the pretext of sorting out the literature and insisted on it for many years.
Old and afraid of loneliness, Liang Sicheng, who is accustomed to Lin Su's care, decides to marry Lin Su, and this news is undoubtedly a thunderbolt on a sunny day for Cheng Yingquan, which is difficult to accept.
Cheng Yingquan does not ask Lin Su to share her hardships, but she not only abandons him, but also stays with his teacher. In the end, Cheng Yingquan committed suicide in despair.
When the news came out, it was unknown whether Liang Sicheng regretted it, only that many of his friends ridiculed him to break with him. Someone even posted a note on his doorstep: "Dog man dog woman".
But what cause and effect are really planted.
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People are born with the desire to pursue beauty, yearn for it, feel it.
For Liang Sicheng, Lin Huiyin is the flower that never withers, hidden in his mind and never forgotten.
She is not as dazzling as the sun, hitting people's hearts, but it is a bright moon in the middle of the night, seemingly cold, but it casts a clear light for the returnees, guides the way, if you look up, she will be there.
The beauty of Lin Huiyin lies in her indomitable resilience and persistence, in her national righteousness and personal belief.
From 1930 to 1945, Liang Sicheng Lin Huiyin and his wife traveled to 15 provinces and more than 200 counties in China, surveying and mapping 2738 ancient buildings.
During the inspection, Lin Huiyin was never arrogant and willful, as a woman insisted on climbing up and down, even when she was pregnant, she also insisted on climbing the beam to engage in surveying and mapping.
This also buried hidden dangers for her body, making her lung disease relapse and difficult to suppress.
In the later stage, Lin Hui was already seriously ill and lay down in bed, making it difficult to get up.
Under such circumstances, she still maintained an optimistic attitude, but silently increased her workload, and liang Sicheng gathered materials day and night to compile the "History of Chinese Architecture".
Liang Sicheng, Lin Huiyin
For more than two years, she lay in bed and finished this work with Liang Sicheng.
This is the first architectural history written Chinese, and the Chinese people can finally rightly accuse and push aside the Chinese architecture that Japan wrote with the convenience of invading China and establish its own architectural system.
Liang Sicheng finally fulfilled his youthful vow that the History of Chinese Architecture would be written by Chinese himself.
In the last period of his life, Lin Huiyin still insisted on contributing to the motherland and participated in the design of the national emblem and the Monument to the People's Heroes.
She was Liang Sicheng's wife, but she was also a great architect and a talented man of letters.
She doesn't need to depend on anyone, she doesn't have to be named after anyone, she herself is her biggest dependency.
Unfortunately, since modern times, Lin Huiyin has been frequently hacked, and has been ridiculed for opening salons all day, wandering among several men, drinking coffee and eating foreign precious foods, as if it has become a label that is difficult to tear off her body.
Interestingly, most of the unfavorable comments about Lin Huiyin basically came from what Liang Sicheng's second wife, Lin Su, said.
A woman's jealousy of a woman is the most cruel thing in this world. I don't know whether Liang Si felt something after he became an adult, which caused a completely different treatment from his two wives.