These two summer vacations at home with a baby, accidentally saw a program rebroadcast by Anhui Satellite TV, which made me break into a cold sweat.
The theme of this observation is whether the child will walk with strangers.
The program team arranged for a mother to take the child to the dessert shop, and the mother ordered a delicious dessert for the baby, and habitually picked up the mobile phone and took a selfie with the child.
Then the mother made an excuse and left alone, leaving the child alone in the store.
At this time, the "liar" (actor Wu Zhuohan) appeared on the scene, first pretending to call the child's mother, attracting the child's attention, and directly saying the child's name to get the child's first impression.
Subsequently, the "liar" naturally sat next to the child, began to disguise his identity, and took out the child's photo to win the child's trust.
At this time, the child has gradually relaxed his vigilance from the initial precautions to accepting and recognizing the identity of the "liar".
Subsequently, the "liar" directly told the child that the mother was waiting for them outside to have lunch together, and directly told the child to pack the dessert and go to the mother. At this time, the child will subconsciously follow the instructions of the adult, and this will give the people around them an illusion, this person and the child are indeed very familiar, there is no coercion.
Therefore, no one will realize that the child is in extreme danger.
Finally, the child goes out with the "liar" and the observation ends.
When she saw her daughter leave her seat and leave with strangers, her mother's tears couldn't stop flowing.
Although I know that this is just a test, if all this really happens, what will be the irreparable consequences?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" > it's not the child's fault</h1>
"Don't go with strangers"
"Don't eat strangers' things"
"Don't Trust Strangers"
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I also grew up listening to these things, but until I have a baby, I will not think, just tell the child "don't" is enough?
Have you told your child how to judge a "stranger"?
I also watched a video before asking the child, what kind of bad guys do you think?
This question, I also went to ask my baby. I didn't expect the child's answer to surprise me, the bad guys look like monsters, have sharp teeth, wear masks, fierce...
We all know that bad people are obviously like normal people, and on the surface there is no way to tell who is a bad person.
Even if you let your child understand that as long as it is a "stranger", that is, this person you have not seen, or is not familiar with, do not talk to him, and there are people you do not know who want to take you to a remote place alone.
But when a "stranger" holds a picture of you and your mother, shouts your nickname affectionately in his mouth, and tells many stories about him and your mother, will you still confirm that he is a "stranger"?
You may already be able to judge and be wary as an adult, but the vast majority of children really don't!
So I said, it's not the child's fault.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="27" > we put our children at risk</h1>
In the show, when the host asks the mother where the child's name and photo came from.
The mother suddenly realized that she often posted her baby in the circle of friends, not only with the child's personal information, but also with many clear positive photos of the child, and even the location where the child often haunted was clear...
Through the circle of friends, and even vibrato, Weibo to post children's cute photos, recording the baby's growth process has become a habit of many parents and mothers. But many people have not yet realized that this not only violates the privacy of children, but also leaks a lot of children's information and puts them at risk.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" > photos of these 5 kinds of children should not be posted:</h1>
(1) There are many traffickers with the name of the child's school and class, posing as the parents of the child to take the child away at the entrance of the kindergarten.
(2) A photo of the child's personal name and age information, such as a final exam paper with a name.
(3) The child's trajectory, such as writing "Every Sunday at 3 p.m., the child will go to the library to read a book."
(4) The child's birthday date, many parents will use the child's birthday as a number with special significance as the password of other applications, such as mobile phones, bank cards, once the plotters know, they will steal your information.
(5) Children do not want to disclose photos, here is not only refers to the child's private photos, there are many parents like to take ugly photos of their children, not only enjoy themselves but also have fun with friends, which will bring harm to children. Think about your selfies all P-charts!
Go and see your circle of friends with your friends, there are several kinds of photos to quickly delete!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="38" what should I do if > want to send a photo of my child? </h1>
Did a friend say, can't I send a picture of my child for a record? Can't I share my child's cuteness with my friends?
Of course, dr.X gives everyone a few tricks to reduce the risk of children's privacy exposure.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" > (1) Circle of Friends Grouping - only for relatives and friends</h1>
Our circle of friends can be set labels and grouping, want to show the baby, set can only be shown to relatives and friends, after all, unfamiliar people, will not really care about your baby ah ~
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > (2) WeChat turns off functions such as "people nearby", "shake", "allow strangers to view the circle of friends" and so on</h1>
These features themselves are all designed to promote social interaction, but with a baby, pay more attention, and these will make the crooks narrow down and thus lock in the trafficking crowd! There are also many parents' avatars that take selfies of themselves and their children, and this should also be noted!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" >Dr.X said</h1>
Children's safety, not by teaching children a paragraph or a story can be completed, we parents in life to constantly strengthen the awareness of protecting children, but also to teach children more safety awareness and concepts, and constantly emphasize and repeatedly demonstrate, so that he really learns to protect himself.