The girlfriend who fell in love with his mother sounded more hardcore than the plot of Macron falling in love with a middle school teacher, and the sister-brother love, who was 26 years old, felt that the TV series did not dare to act like this. But this love story is real in Hollywood, and they are Patrick Dempsey and Rocky Parker.
Patrick became popular for starring in the American drama "Grey's Anatomy", and the film resources are also good, such as "Transformers 3" and "BJ's Single Diary" sequel. Rocky is also an actress, but not very famous, and she took a backstage to work as an agent in order to support Patrick.
The two first met on the set, Patrick was 18 and Rocky played his aunt. The two have a bit of love at first sight, and with close contact, they determine each other's love.
However, this 26-year-old love affair is destined to be less smooth, Rocky has been divorced twice, and she is still Patrick's mother's girlfriend. This means that the best friend becomes the daughter-in-law, and Patrick will become the stepfather of three men older than him after marriage.
But love can not be stopped, the two dating 3 years later, Patrick was 21 years old "young and early married". But in order not to delay Patrick's star path, nor do they want this marriage to bring more obstacles due to exposure, they are almost secretly married.
Rocky began helping Patrick plan his Hollywood career, doing his best. The relationship between the two is that of a friend, a lover and a partner. Unfortunately, love that crosses obstacles has not escaped the seven-year itch.
Patrick filed for divorce, and Rocky's account was that her husband had voluntarily admitted to having another woman.
The divorce between the two has no trace of love at all, and it is torn very ugly.
Rocky reveals that on the set of the movie, Patrick was violent to her. Slamming the car door shut, Rocky's finger was injured, pointing out that Patrick had a habit of drinking and sucking, emotional instability, and so on. Rocky also filed a home complaint, but later withdrew the case.
The exact reasons vary, with one theory being that Rocky admitted to lying and that Patrick didn't treat her that way. Another theory is that Rocky is still in love with Patrick and is reluctant to divorce, but he doesn't want to do too much.
The truth about Rashomon remained unsolved until Rocky's death.
Rocky's post-cancer nightmares were bleak, and he couldn't wait for Patrick's reconciliation and left at the age of 74.
Even more poignantly, after Patrick married stylist Jillian for the second time, the 22-year marriage shaped him into a perfect man. Rocky is gone, who cares about the so-called truth? It's just that the mystery is unsolved, and it occasionally becomes a talking point.
Jillian is 2 years younger than Patrick and is still a fan of his. The two once had a relationship on the rocks and applied for divorce. But after psychological counseling and reconciliation again, Patrick has completely become a wonderful man in the entertainment industry who sits still and is willing to give everything for the family.
On the other hand, Rocky, from the woman behind the hidden, to the lamented wife who does not want to go to court with her lover, to the old man who died alone, the ending of this Hollywood sister-brother relationship is really sadistic.
However, from this relationship, we can summarize 3 suggestions and talk about how to talk about sister-brother love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > first, loyal to the self</h1>
Rocky quickly became his agent after developing a crush on Patrick, taking care of the details of his life and planning his career for him. Rocky's sense of self-sacrifice may not be self-aware, but is focused on Patrick.
This is not unrelated to Rocky's first two failed marriages, when rocky was 19 years old when she first became a bride, and soon after marriage she had children. As a result, this marriage did not last long, and she married for the second time and had children. Whether it is a tradition of thought or a love brain, it can be seen that Rocky is not an independent woman who is loyal to herself.
She tends to get herself caught up in a relationship, especially when she meets Patrick, who is so much younger than she is. The cherishing of the relationship and the pampering of the girlfriend's son made her hide herself.
Imagine if Rocky continued to be an actress, even if she was not popular, but her vision was broader, and her relationship with Patrick was more equal. You will not become a gain or loss because of your age, babybirth, etc., so no matter when, learn to be a compulsory course for women.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, grow together</h1>
Patrick was diagnosed with dyslexia at the age of 12, so he was unhappy at school and had a bad relationship with his classmates, dropping out of high school before high school. He then toured the circus for a year with his juggling skills, so he was exposed to theater and aspired to become an actor.
With his handsome appearance, he began to formally contact the film and television circle at the age of 18. Until the cooperation with the "female version of Lin Yongjian" Wu Shanzhuo", "Grey's Intern" became popular, it can be seen that Patrick's ambition and goal, and the growth rate is amazing.
However, Rocky, who was once a senior and an elder, seems to be a little unable to keep up with Patrick's growth.
This experience is very similar to "Uncle Wolf" and "Thor", both of whom are sisters and brothers, and both face the problem of how to deal with family relationships when their careers take off.
"Uncle Wolf" Hugh. Jackman and his wife are also in love with the drama, and when he took over "X-Men", Deborah has always encouraged her husband and witnessed the transformation of Uncle Wolf from a small Australian actor to a big Hollywood star. Deborah's career has stagnated, and in the face of this difference, Jackman has done to slow down and wait for Deborah.
Allowing Deborah to feel more involved in Jackman's career while giving the woman enough security.
"Thor" Chris did the same, in addition to filming, the rest of the time is given to the family. He moved back to Australia with his family, away from the paparazzi, and lived a sunny and sandy life.
Moreover, "Hai Zong" often holds parties and invites friends in the circle to come to the house to party. First, let Elsa be exposed to the outside world and get busy. Second, let Elsa get acquainted with the insiders, invisibly increase the sense of security of the "hammer sister-in-law".
Those who have watched "Fast and Furious 5" should remember the beauty of "Hammer Sister-in-law", this face and figure broke into Hollywood, and the future is bright. But willing to choose a husband and godson for Chris, running a marriage, it definitely needs the efforts of two people.
If Rocky and Patrick choose to grow up together, give in and accompany each other, the marriage may not end abruptly in year 7. After all, the male protagonist of "Grey's Anatomy" is not as influential as the world influence of "Uncle Wolf" and "Thor". At the pace of one season a year, it is not so busy.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, academic society weakness</h1>
As a passerby, Rocky has a protective desire for Patrick, and her sense of responsibility makes her not allow herself to show weakness. Referring to his first marriage in an interview, Patrick said: "Yeah, I think I needed a mum at the time. ”
Holding the mother's treasure male mentality to find an object, it is doomed that the position of the two is not equal. It is said that "a woman is weak, a mother is strong", in the face of someone like Patrick with a son role, how do you let Rocky show weakness?
Showing weakness is not a "small interest" that cannot open the bottle cap, nor is it a dependence on the other party to obey, but to make the lover feel just right when he is needed. Properly learning to show weakness can not only reduce the sense of strength of one party, but also increase effective communication.
It is said that age is not a problem, but everyone's mind, vision and needs are different at different ages. The personality traits embodied by age will more or less affect the development of a relationship, and Rocky and Patrick's failure to become sisters and brothers in love with the beauty talk to the end is also a difficult result to avoid.
The "thrilling" of the second marriage finally met true love, indicating that Patrick became a better husband, a man willing to be considerate and compromised. Jillian would like to thank the predecessors for planting trees, and the posterity for cooling down.
Note: According to IMBD, Rocky was born in 1940, 26 years behind Patrick, who was born in 1966.