First, fall in love with yourself first, and then meet love, do not disturb yourself, do not indulge in the past, do not suffer from loss for their own sensitivity, do not be willful for the faults of others, this is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Second, life is only a few decades, even if it cannot be vigorous, it must not be nestled.
Third, you give your personality to the constellation, give your effort to chicken soup, give your luck to koi, and then say to yourself: After hearing many truths, you still can't live this life well, then you should live badly.
Fourth, life when you grow up is like this: neither make you happy too much, nor let you disappointed completely.
Fifth, if you can put it down, you will not be lonely, you will be clear when you stand farther away, you will not feel it if you do not fantasize, and you will not care if you do not expect it. There is nothing difficult in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves.
Don't go to your heart when others say you're good, otherwise you won't take it seriously. In this world, those who say hello and bad can come from the same group of people. Adults, just pick up what's useful to you.
Seven, the four rules of being a person: do not deliberately disguise in life, do not rely too much on love, do not rush to defend when listening, and do not intentionally offend when speaking.
Eight, the days go by really fast, especially for people after middle age, ten years and eight years seem to refer to the affairs of gu jian. But for young people, three years and five years can be a lifetime. ——Zhang Ailing
One day you will thank the man who abandoned you, the man you loved but ignored. His abandonment prompts you to find a better next. Remember, never waste a minute or a second for someone who doesn't love you.
You peel the onion, trying to peel off its coat and peek inside it. Peel off layer by layer to find the onion heartless. But when you peel the onion, you shed tears, and it shed the skin. But everything that is reluctant is hard work.
You will meet many people in your life who say that they can't leave you, but only a very small number of people will hysterically forget their self-esteem and beg you to come back after you leave, and that kind of person is the person who can't leave you.
If someone loves you, let him love. If there are flowers sent, thank you. If someone asks you out, consider it. In this world, no one else is good to you, and they don't hurt you very much. Only if you are good to others will you repeatedly regurgitate and make you miserable. Therefore, rest assured and bold to let people love, and be careful to love people.
Thirteen, because you have low self-esteem, so you have a strong sense of self-esteem. Because you are suspicious and sensitive, you are insecure. Because you are controlling, you are possessive. Because you have a lot of careful thinking, so your troubles are also many.
Fourteen, I hope that you will be a child all your life, curious about everything, love to hum small songs, the voice is always happy, like and hate do not have to hide, every day you can tell a lot of nonsense to the people you like, and you can also say goodnight to each other.
Not everyone is willing to bear your negative energy, and not everyone is willing to listen to your anxiety. Only people who truly love you will empathize with your situation. More people just use your pain as a joke.
Sixteen, a person must at least lose love once emotionally, fail once in career, and make a mistake in choice in order to truly grow up. So, don't be afraid to lose, it's time!
Everyone has a forest of their own, maybe we've never been there, but it's always been there, always there. The lost are lost, and the people who meet will be reunited.
Eighteen, slowly everyone will understand that not being able to be with the people you like is actually the norm of life. Slowly, everyone will understand that love or not, can not be together, whether they can get married, are three completely different things.
Nineteen, hungry to eat, sleepy to go to sleep, hurt to see the doctor, pain you endure, the road to go by yourself, tears to wipe themselves, please do not go around preaching, because no one hurts you.
Twenty, too many love words make people temperamental, too many philosophies make people numb, too many realities make us look sophisticated. Simplicity, what a luxury.
In the blink of an eye, we are no longer young, put away our willfulness, throw away our temper, and no longer easily hurt or ignore the people around us. Because we know that half of life is over, what should be cherished should be cherished, and what should be far away should be far away.
Source: Garment Aaron
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