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Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

The TV series "Even with the Wind" ended, and the gray whale five ushered in a perfect finale-

The bad guy Ye was always punished by the law, and also suffered from Alzheimer's disease; Tang Chen and Shuo Bing finally entered the marriage hall; Zhu Ran and Huang Yirou are back to their old ways; Sha Zhou and Chen Yang remarried; The white parrot and Hou Zhi are also together.

There is a very interesting detail in the ending, Sha Zhou is still riding his little electric donkey, but this time, he gave Chen Yang a brand-name bag as a gift, and finally won the smile of the beauty.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

In fact, among the four relationships in "Swift Wind", the separation and integration of Sha Zhou and Chen Yang is the most down-to-earth and the most realistic.

This last brand-name bag also represents that Sha Zhou finally changed himself for Chen Yang.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

As soon as Sha Zhou appeared, he was divorced, but he was disconnected from his ex-wife.

Although everyone speculated from the beginning that Chen Yang divorced Sha Zhou because of money, otherwise she would not have supported Sha Zhou so much to start a business with Tang Chen.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

However, it wasn't until the last few episodes that they really faced this problem, and it was their son Xiaoxing who poked all this.

When Sha Zhou and Chen Yang announced that they planned to remarry, Xiao Xing was not in a hurry to be happy, but instead threw out a question: Why did you divorce in the first place?

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Sha Zhou's explanation is: impulsive.

Xiaoxing's child is logical, and he then asked: Then how can you be sure that remarriage now is not impulsive?

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Chen Yang had to come out to play the round: we were not impulsive at the beginning, and at that time my father and mother had irreconcilable contradictions.

Xiaoxing broke the casserole and asked the end: Since it is irreconcilable, how is it good now?

In the end, Chen Yang could only say what she considered to be an "irreconcilable contradiction": because your father does not seek advancement, he knows every day to mess around, and when he comes home, he doesn't care about anything, he is exactly like the maggots in that rice tank.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

To be honest, Lao Sha can endure Chen Yang saying this about himself, and he is also true love.

Chen Yang also knew that this was a bit excessive, so he made up for it: Now your father not only established a company with your godfather, but also the head of the company's department and the vice president of the company, which is very worthy of recognition.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

But the child hit the nail on the head: That means my dad is rich now, so he reconciled with him?

Finally, he also warned his parents very soberly: The parents of our classmates basically divorced after remarrying, why was it the same reason later, so I want to ask clearly, and I hope you think clearly.

It was also the child's words that made Sha Zhou and Chen Yang have doubts about remarriage.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

In fact, the problem between Chen Yang and Sha Zhou is a matter of money, and it is not entirely a matter of money.

Before starting his business, Sha Zhou worked in a newspaper with a monthly salary of 9,000, which is already above the middle income level among ordinary people, but for a family, if you want to compare, it is definitely not enough.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

In fact, for his ex-wife and children, Sha Zhou has given everything he has.

His salary, excluding fixed expenses such as alimony and utilities, is only 1,500 yuan.

For the embarrassment of this middle-aged man, there is a very straightforward performance in the play.

When Tang Chen had just suffered a blow, Sha Zhou went to the supermarket to buy something, and when he checked out, the balance in his mobile phone was not enough, and the cash in his wallet was not enough.

You know, these things are only more than 400 yuan.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Less money can be earned, and what is really irreconcilable is actually ideas.

Before starting his business, when Sha Zhou went to the supermarket to buy things, he brought his own plastic bags, and he also brought several, indicating that he usually saved.

After starting a business, it was clear that he already had money, but Sha Zhou went to see his old classmates, but he took out two goji berries and threw them into hot water.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

No matter before or after starting a business, Sha Zhou's car is always the little electric donkey.

Explain what? It shows that Sha Zhou is a thrifty person by nature and does not have much pursuit of material life.

But Chen Yang is different.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Chen Yang is obviously not the kind of woman who is willing to be ordinary, as can be seen from the fact that her son goes to school. The school choice fee of 200,000 yuan, she wants her children to go to, is definitely not an ordinary school. And that's just the school choice fee.

If you are a little bit of a pursuit of food and clothing, Sha Zhou's salary is nothing.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

When Sha Zhou used a small electric donkey to drive Chen Yang to remarry, they had such a conversation at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, which was full of information.

The first is the trigger for the divorce of the two.

Sha Zhou felt that Chen Yang divorced himself because he disliked him for having no money and no future.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

But Chen Yang said aggrievedly: The child is not sensible, you also think so, I made it for a long time you don't know why I divorced you?

What about the facts?

Back then, a colleague bought a brand-name bag, and Chen Yang thought that he could only carry a canvas bag, and sorrow came from it, and he cried with Lao Sha when he went home.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

But Lao Sha didn't understand: you said to buy a pack of tens of thousands of yuan, can it eat, drink, or play, or can you live in it?

Chen Yang's answer was: cure all diseases.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Later, Chen Yang revealed that the two wanted to remarry three years ago, but did not return.

She said: Last time we came here to remarry, it didn't come back, you rode this car, three years later, you still ride this car.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Sha Zhou did not understand: what happened to this car? This shows that the quality of this electric car is good, or I will buy you a new model again?

Chen Yang was disappointed: Do you know why I cry when I see people carrying famous brand bags? I'm not for that bag, I think this kind of good thing, good life, as long as I keep up with you, I can't even touch the side, I feel sad for my life.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

This is already very straightforward.

She didn't cry for the bag, and she wanted more than just the bag. There are also big houses, luxury cars, sons go to top schools, and wear their own name brands.

These are not a problem that can be solved by a package, and a package cannot actually cure all diseases.

But even if he is already the vice president of the company, holding the shares of Gray Whale, Sha Zhou still can't understand Chen Yang's values, he feels that there are people who can't buy this package, people can live well, why can't Chen Yang?

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Chen Yang's answer was: Why should I compare with people who are worse than me?

It cannot be said that Chen Yang is worshiping money. There is nothing wrong with the pursuit of money, the pursuit of a better material life.

But the problem is that if the couple wants to live together, they must have the same values.

It just so happened that Sha Zhou and Chen Yang were completely two kinds of people.

Chen Yang is looking up, and she is not willing to gain satisfaction and happiness by comparing with people worse than herself.

But Sha Zhou feels that if it keeps comparing, it will be endless, and he should still be content.

Both people are right, but they look at the same problem but are not on the same channel at all.

If you want to go on, only one side can compromise.

Judging by the ending of "Blast", it is Sha Zhou who compromises.

Even if the wind rises: torture parents to ask the real reason for divorce, this elementary school student is sober in the world

Although he still rides a little electric donkey, he at least knows to give his daughter-in-law a brand-name bag.

However, as their son Xiaoxing said, most couples who remarried often divorce for the same problem, because the root cause of the problem has not been solved.

Suppose one day, Sha Zhou becomes poor again, and there is no way to continue to provide Chen Yang with a good life, what will happen to their marriage?

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