"Don't Tell Her", understand her, respect her, find me

At the beginning, I would like to say that this is a Chinese-American film made by a Chinese-American, the audience is Chinese-American, it is a Chinese-American film, it does not belong to China, but it must belong to the Chinese nation, and we should go to see this movie with an empty cup mentality.

She started with director Wang Ziyi, a New York artist who came to the United States with her parents at the age of six, trained in classical piano from an early age, majored in literature and music in college, and moved to Los Angeles to start a film career after college. She is Billie, and her "ABC" life is the basis of the entire film, the clash of cultures between China and the West.

Grandma's sudden illness made the eldest son family who had been living in Japan for a long time and the second son family in the United States decide to return to Shenzhen to hold the grandson's wedding and give the old man a good memory instead of telling grandma about the condition. The first contradiction in the whole film appears, the view of life and death. From this first difference in three views, Billie embarked on the road to Changchun through her love for her grandmother and began to feel the baptism from oriental culture.

For the concept of life and death, the family's attitude is pure, can not be mentioned, there is no need to mention, only Billie alone said that she did not understand, a hundred unwilling and had to accept. The uncle said that teaching was useless again and again, and the frankness of her aunt and aunt made her wonder, and finally after a complete deception process, she finally began to feel and began to understand.

The days will go on, Billie left Changchun and returned to New York, everything in Changchun began to be familiar, but eventually it will be blurred, everything in New York will not be adapted but very short, so what is the change between this trip to Changchun and Bili? It changed Billie's way of thinking, no longer thinking simply as an Asian American, but thinking in a Chinese-American way, thinking about the diversity of the world, thinking about curiosity and understanding cultural differences. That ha was like opening up the second vein of Ren Dou, and everything has been different since then.