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A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

author:Shuyu Island

This year is the seventh year that Chen Yi has left China, and the elderly parents can no longer remember what the scene was like when their daughter left, but only the proud appearance of her daughter when she reads.

When a small meat dumpling grew up around her, sent her to elementary school, high school, and college, I thought that my daughter would find a confidant to marry, and I could help my daughter with children.

But when the daughter graduated from college, she took the baby and followed her boyfriend to Africa, hated and scolded and cried, but more or less worried.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Stepping onto Africa with missing Lao Chen, the moment he saw his daughter, he couldn't believe that this was the baby he had been holding in the palm of his hand since he was a child, the figure of the rickety, the sallow face, the bottom of the eyes with deep fatigue and numbness, and the face with the traces of wind and frost.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Seeing her elderly father, Chen Yi's long-suppressed pain spewed out, she cried and knelt down and begged her father to take her back to China, but her identity documents and passports were destroyed by her husband, and Old Chen had no choice but to leave all the money on her body to her daughter.

When his father left, Chen Yi knelt down and prostrated his head to his father, saying that he regretted it, sorry for his parents' decades of love, he was afraid that he would not be able to return to China in this life, and hoped that his parents could take good care of himself.

Old Chen took his daughter's words and wept blood, and the old tears flowed on the plane back.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Chen Yi has been praised for her beautiful appearance since she was a child, and when she was young, she was praised as a boy sitting on Guanyin, and when she grew up, the name of the school flower fell.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

After going to college, as soon as he entered the school, he was asked which department this beautiful student was, and there was no shortage of wild bees and butterflies stalking Chen Yi, but Chen Yi always felt that his true destiny had not yet appeared.

By chance, Chen Yi bumped into Bu Li, who was walking around the school, he didn't know the road, he didn't know the way, he was looking around like a fly without a head, out of friendship with foreign friends, Chen Yi kindly gave him directions.

That is, this time the direction let Bu Li add Chen Yi's contact information, Chen Yi also wants to practice oral language through communication with foreign friends, unlike the chinese people's subtlety and introvertedness, Bu Li boldly showed love to Chen Yi after a few days of booing and greeting.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

On the one hand, Chen Yi was very surprised, Bu Li's passionate show of love made Chen Yi feel confused, but on the other hand, she was a little moved, under contact, she found that Bu Li was an innocent person, Chen Yi gradually accepted Bu Li and confirmed the relationship between lovers.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

But what Chen Yi did not know was that this relationship was full of deception at the beginning, Bu Li was a black man, from Africa, and even had a family and married two wives, but he was worried that Chen Yi could not accept it, so he lied that he was from the United States, the family conditions were rich, and he was single.

Chen Yi knew nothing about all this.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Chen Yi and her black boyfriend quickly attracted the attention of the school teachers, and although Chen Yi tried her best to hide their relationship, she was discovered.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Soon the school's teachers contacted Chen Yi's parents, and the parents knew that after their children found a black man, they were dissuaded by lightning strikes, and under the double persuasion of the school and their parents, although Bu Li continued to retain, Chen Yi finally proposed to Break up with Bu Li.

If you break up at this time, will Chen Yi's life have a different outcome?

A month after the breakup, Chen Yi found out that she was pregnant, and Chen Yi, who held the test results, was flustered, she did not dare to tell her parents about the pregnancy, she chose to go to the child's father - Bu Li.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Bu Li was ecstatic when he learned that Chen Yi was pregnant, he knew that this was a perfect opportunity to bring Chen Yi back to Africa, and he and Chen Yi confessed that they were not from the United States, but from Africa.

His father was a chief, and if he could follow him back to Africa, a good life would be within reach.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Listening to Bu Li's persuasion, Chen Yi was moved, she believed that as long as she married to Africa, she would be able to live a good life, she decided to follow Bu Li to Africa, after thinking about it, Chen Yi calmly called her parents to tell her parents that she was going to marry africa.

Her parents had painstakingly cultivated her for so many years, and she was naturally very broken because a man they had just met was going to a foreign country.

However, no matter how her parents objected, Chen Yi didn't care. She felt that she could live the life she dreamed of by marrying in Africa and keep the children in her belly.

In this way, Chen Yi followed Bu Li to Africa, and when he arrived in Africa, Chen Yi was not greeted by the chief's luxury motorcade, but by Bu Li's eldest wife, second wife and the three children born to Bu Li.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

And Bu Li is not the son of the chief, on the contrary, Bu Li's family is poor, and even the money for studying abroad is hard worked by two wives.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Knowing all this, Chen Yi's brain was buzzing, she gave up her family, gave up her studies, gave up her motherland, went to a foreign country alone, and finally became a three-room wife.

She cried and begged Bu Li to let her go back, Bu Li withheld her visa and ID card and destroyed it, without these information, Chen Yi wanted to return to China is nothing more than a fantasy.

The eldest wife and the second wife also advised Chen Yi to confess his fate as soon as possible, to serve Buli in Africa, to have a few more children, and to live as a family, but how could Chen Yi be willing.

In the past few months in Africa, Chen Yi wanted to leave countless times but was caught, and each time he was caught, he would face a violent beating.

In one of the beatings, Chen Yi was kicked in the stomach, the child was almost knocked out, lying on the dirty, dark bed for a day and a night, and finally gave birth to a thin baby girl.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Six months after Chen Yi gave birth to his daughter, Bu Li left his family again and went to China to start his hunting, and Bu Li's departure completely dragged Chen Yi out of purgatory.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Chen Yi suffered discrimination in that family, and the eldest wife and second wife often scolded Chen Yi and forced Chen Yi to find a job to make money, but as a foreigner who did not understand the language, it was not easy to find a job.

In order to make money, they used Chen Yi's identity as a foreigner as a gimmick to force Chen Yi to pick up customers and make money. Yes, Chen Yi was forced to sell her flesh and serve the local black people to earn living expenses.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Once Chen Yi resisted, they used Chen Yi's daughter to blackmail and force Chen Yi to obey, under such inhuman torture, Chen Yi's living people were not ghosts or ghosts. The pampering of parents, the free campus life, the life in the sun like in the past is like a dream, out of reach.

The turning point of events occurred one afternoon, when Chen Yi was being beaten by the eldest wife and the second wife, just because she did not earn enough living expenses, Chen Yi could only hold her head in both hands and beg for forgiveness.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Just happened to be met by the Passing Chinese Engineering Team, listening to the familiar rural sounds, Chen Yi seemed to be in a dream, she shouted "I am Chinese, I was deceived, save me."

Hearing Chen Yi's cries, the engineering team staff rescued Chen Yi, for safety reasons, took her to the station near the project for resettlement, after listening to Chen Yi's experience, the person in charge of the project immediately helped Chen Yi contact the embassy and her parents.

After learning about the current situation of their daughter, Chen Yi's parents were impatient, and Chen Yi's father immediately went through the formalities to go to Africa and wanted to bring his daughter back. When I first learned that my daughter was going to Africa, I hated to cry and scold, but in the end I couldn't resist the thought of my daughter.

After arriving in Africa, Chen's father found that because Chen Yi's documents had all been destroyed, and according to the laws of the African region, if he wanted to leave Africa, he must properly arrange the child.

And Bu Li could not give the child to Chen Yi, and no one was willing to adopt Chen Yi's child. Chen Yi's father couldn't take Chen Yi away at all.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

After returning to China, Chen Yi's parents traveled around to consult and wanted to bring Chen Yi back from Africa, but it was basically impossible.

Under such circumstances, Chen Father often washed his face with tears, and finally changed into severe depression, and with guilt for his daughter, Chen Father drank a bottle of pesticide and committed suicide.

A Sino-African transnational marriage, cheating and love and hate intertwined: the fate of "African Chen Yi" is lamentable

Chen Yi, who was far away in Africa, knew nothing, and she was still waiting for her parents to take her back with hope. She didn't know, it was impossible.

For love, Chen Yi lost what should have been a beautiful life and lost herself.

For love, Chen Yi lost the family that should have been happy, the family was separated, and the yin and yang were separated.

Chen Yi regret it, I think she should regret it the moment she set foot in Africa, but what is the use, some wrong choices need to be paid for with a lifetime, and the consequences are often unbearable.

With a beautiful vision of a foreign country, leave the motherland, but the foreign moon is not particularly round, rather than placing hope on marrying a rich foreigner, it is better to invest in yourself, after all, the happiness of life still depends on yourself.

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