Some people are very strange and don't love you and don't let you go;
Some people are strangers, love you and don't let you go.
The topic of security is always an enduring topic in feelings. Because this sense of security is really rare, it requires two people to trust each other unconditionally in order to indulge in each other in love.
Unfortunately, some zodiac signs are destined to endure gains and losses with him, and you are destined to feel seven up and eight down. To be with them, you have to be strong enough inside to control him and be at ease in their love.
Aquarius
She said: "Your generation has lived too clearly, so you can't get anything." We were confused about everything, we should get married, we should work and work, and now we have everything. ”
Whenever I write about Aquarius, I especially want to ask Aquarius, live so soberly, see so thoroughly, are they tired? Aquarius is really the highest of the twelve zodiac signs, always far-sighted about many things, and always sharp to the point for many truths.
They are even more aware of the relationship between people. So Aquarius is always cold and alienated in the world of feelings. They are like a Born Daoist, soberly watching the flowers of this world blossom and fall, watching the tide rise and fall, and it is difficult to rejoice and be sad in their hearts.
Dazai said: If you can avoid violent ecstasy, you can naturally avoid the attack of grief.
I believe that Aquarius must feel this sentence. Rational and sober Aquarius, their attitude to life is indeed enviable, but in the relationship they are really insecure.
Because the water bottle is always too rational, too believe in going with the flow, do not force it, never express warm love, and never insist on persistence. It seems that the other party is just a dispensable presence for Aquarius. Such an attitude of an Aquarius is bound to make the other person feel insecure, because you can't feel that you are really loved.
If you want to be with Aquarius and live together for a long time, you must have your own spiritual world. You have to love yourself more than you love the other person, and you have to provide him with emotional value, not physical companionship. This requires that your heart be strong enough and independent enough to make the water bottle willing.
Gemini
"At fifteen I was chasing the fashion like you were, but at fifty I started to love everything tacky. Do you think I'm old? No, I just love what I liked when I was fifteen, as always. ”
People always like something beautiful and alive, and exuberance and vitality are always full of change and enthusiasm. One of the most criticized points of Gemini is that they always like to throw themselves into the arms of change, always chasing novelty in all aspects of life and work love.
And change, in itself, is frightening, because you don't know what it will look like after the change, and you don't know the faces of people after the change. Gemini loves change, loves freedom, and hates being bound. People who can't embrace change must not be loved by Gemini because they hate pedantry and staleness.
But the change in the relationship is bound to make the other party lose the sense of security. Because you don't know what gemini wants in the next second, and you don't know if the freshness you offer him can still be fresh in him. There are always people who say that Virgo and Capricorn are difficult, and it is undeniable that they are indeed difficult to engage, but there is definitely no Gemini difficult to engage.
Because the Virgo and Capricorn mate selection criteria are traceable and concrete, and Gemini is very abstract. They always say look at the mood, look at the edge of the eyes, and rely on feelings. This kind of ethereal thing is the most incomprehensible. Anything can be appropriate, and anything can lose its meaning in an instant.
Gemini is a sign that is always twenty years old, no matter how old they are, they are always catching up with the youth and blood of their youth. It's not boring to be with Gemini, but if you're overly sensitive and crave stability, gemini is bound to leave you completely insecure.
To be with Gemini, you not only need a strong enough independent heart, but also a rich spiritual world.
Finally, I would like to give you a word to encourage in your feelings:
Later I learned that many things can be worked on, but people can't do it, and those who can go to the end are actually fellow travelers at the beginning, and there is a reason for encountering, either a gift or a lesson.