There are too many generals in life, we need to close one eye and one eye to treat, life is not smooth, there is no so-called satisfactory.
It will be inevitable, it will be normal, we will be in a relationship with a person, we will fall in love with a person, we will live with a person, these things, not on the point is not a normal way to proceed normally.
In fact, it will also be called run-in, your personality, your thinking ideas, the other party's personality, the other party's thinking ideas, can not be on the same line, if you feel that it is, then either you are very lucky, or the other party is echoing you.
Confused people are always confused, and sober people are always very sober.
So if you ask a person when they break the law of singleness, it's generally:
At a time when his character is no longer sharp ego, when his mouth is no longer sharp ego, when his thinking and thoughts are no longer sharp ego.
When these things become easy-going, become balanced, become peaceful, then his single state is self-defeating.
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Aquarius people are often praised and appreciated by people, and people often use these words such as smart and interesting to describe Aquarius people, which is good, and Aquarius people are also quite popular.
In fact, if it does not involve feelings, does not involve deep feelings, Aquarius agility and intelligence can indeed be online from time to time, but as long as it involves deep feelings, Aquarius will change greatly.
Some words feel exaggerated, such as "Almost no Aquarius can really burn his feelings completely." ”
Few people feel that this description is not exaggerated, but this is a fact.
It's so special that not to mention those signs with strong initiative, it is said that Cancer, which is the most difficult to deal with in the relationship, can burn their feelings completely.
Aquarius really has no way to "normally" control their feelings and behaviors in their emotional relationships.
When feeling changes, consciousness changes, consciousness changes, thoughts change, thoughts change, thoughts change behavior changes.
Then as long as it feels wrong, Aquarius will lose control of themselves, they have no way to meet, to do not pander from the heart.
This kind of internal resistance to oneself will greatly enhance Aquarius's self-awareness, and you let them endure it? You let them pretend not to see?
This kind of joke should not be opened, because the patience of the water bottle and the emotions that pretend not to see the bottom of the heart, the more they hold back, the more they will end up.
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To put it simply, the more Aquarius feels that he is being patient, the more he feels that he is pretending, the more disgusted he is in the current relationship.
This disgust will inevitably make Aquarius more rebellious, and thus the feeling of relationship will be worse.
In fact, in the matter of feelings, Aquarius is a bit similar to its umeros zodiac sign Leo, the more people who do not take the water bottle seriously, the more the water bottle has feelings, and the more people who take them seriously, the less they feel.
So in this interesting phase, the emotions of the water bottle can burn normally, and once the relationship has a result, or the relationship is confirmed or broken, the feeling of the water bottle will plummet.
When this kind of thing comes, they only consider their own feelings and feelings, and do not habitually think about each other's thoughts and feelings, or take care of each other's thoughts and feelings.
Because of the importance of feelings and sensations, and being influenced by these things, so:
If Aquarius doesn't want to be with a person, it won't be because one thing destroys their feelings, but because of the accumulation of many things.
Aquarians will not be impulsive to this point, they will not care much about contradictions and troubles in their emotional relationships, and they can skip the past.
But it is useless to skip the past, and Aquarius himself does not think that the current contradiction can have any impact on himself at the time of the contradiction.
It is not appropriate, but when the contradictions and problems are more and more, they have reached the edge of not being able to control themselves.
Because things accumulate, feelings are also accumulating and changing, and hindsight is Aquarius's "strength".
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The best time when Aquarius's emotions burn in a relationship is in the early to mid-stages.
In addition to this important question, there is a more important problem, in the meticulous and practical relationship, there are not many people who can adapt to the water bottle, and it is impossible to do so.
Because the water bottle is accustomed to their own feelings and feelings in the emotional relationship, accustomed to their own needs and desires, their often state in it is the self, which is the initial pretense and disguise.
In addition to these points of self, Aquarius does not spend much time thinking about other things, especially other feelings and thoughts of the other party.
For example, the person who gets along with the water bottle is more sensitive, this person is slightly hurt because of one of the self-behavior of the water bottle, so there is an emotion, the water bottle sees that he has an emotion, will make a laugh, or ask a question.
Under normal circumstances, this emotional person basically can't say the inner heartbreak, the water bottle is asked, and after the teasing to see if the other party's state has not changed much, he will question.
If the situation is more serious, the water bottle will also think that the other party is neurotic.
On the other hand, when the water bottle has needs and cravings, the other party must be there, there must be a response, but when the other party has any desires and needs, the water bottle itself can not be there.
Especially when the water bottle itself is playing, or doing something with a friend, the other party cannot receive the response of the water bottle.
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For example, if you are the object of the water bottle, if today is Sunday, you want to go to the movie in the afternoon, and the water bottle is playing with a friend, you call her "you come back early, we go to the movie", can the water bottle come back?
The first time you called, there was no response, the second time she was annoyed, the third time she may just shut down, after she finished playing and came back with nothing, you may be angry all afternoon.
With the water bottle together, you will feel that you are not so important in many cases, this is a normal state, in fact, to put it bluntly, it is a meaning, the feeling and feeling of the water bottle is the most important in the process of getting along between the two of you.
If you want to make a fuss about this problem, the water bottle will feel that you may not be suitable, and if there is more such a thing, the water bottle will not bother to deal with it.
So the question is how do you go about burning your feelings?
There are ways, first you have to adapt to the water bottle, and second, your heart is bigger, when you feel that you are not very important, crazy, forced to brainwash yourself "yourself is important"
Or maybe you play by yourself, find your own space, deal with a week's affection, you spend three or five days on your own, and the rest of the time you are with the water bottle.
To say something practical, most people are between real survival pressures, all sorts of goal responsibilities, interesting is impossible to be funny, this kind of people are very few.
Therefore, the probability of being interesting with people with water bottles is not high.
If it is not interesting, it will be boring, bored will be bored, bored will find its own fun, and the self-state of the water bottle will appear.
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So, don't expect the water bottle to confirm the relationship with you and put the focus on you, put it in your relationship, the extravagant hope will be poisoned, the water bottle will focus on its own fun.
Even so, don't think that Aquarius should be single if he doesn't meet true love, or if he doesn't have true love.
This kind of cognition is undoubtedly wrong, in fact, the person who adapts to the water bottle, the person who the water bottle can still get used to is the true love of the water bottle.
It's just that they themselves are a little dismissive of this, after all, they are behind, but time will always give them real answers.
Aquarius woman is a little different from Aquarius man, Aquarius woman really needs someone who can conquer her, that is, Aquarius woman from the heart, and not very tired to chase a feeling.
Aquarius men mature late, and middle age may not necessarily mature, so the responsibility for feelings, the care for feelings and the sacrifice of feelings cannot be much better in the early stages.
That is to say, you have to wait until their self-awareness is no longer sharp, they can consider things in a balanced way, and they can think about life in a balanced way, then they can be regarded as mature.
There may be some water bottles that can't understand this, balance or my water bottle?
Equilibrium does not mean that you cannot be self-sufficient, and the ego can still be balanced.
In general, the concept of true love in the constellation of Aquarius is a bit special, and the establishment may be relatively low, but as long as it is a person, the problems that often plague themselves will be solved sooner or later.
Water bottles are no exception!
One day, after they figure out the nature of why they were hurt, the emotional problem may be solved.
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