Childhood is the foundation of growth, the water sign and fire sign of growth and change

Psychiatrist Adler once said such a sentence: "Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, unfortunate people are curing childhood all their lives" Childhood is a period of ignorance and wonderfulness, it is the beginning of our growth, but also the beginning of the growth of our emotional consciousness, it has practical significance and practical value, in fact, our growth and change trend after that has a lot to do with this, although unfortunately it sounds very harsh, but some innate things we may not have the ability to change, And the only thing we can do is to manage ourselves, not negatively affected, childhood is the foundation of growth, which is also a lead for the growth of the 12 signs, today we will explore the growth of the theory of water signs and fire signs.

Water sign

I always like to observe and summarize, as far as the 12 signs are concerned, I have observed 12 zodiac signs of children, some have fewer examples, some have more examples, and the children of the water sign are very, especially in need of love and dependence, but at the same time they are easy to let down their guard, to give a very interesting example, one of my friends has a Pisces child, this child looks very afraid of life, so when you call his name she will not respond to you, the farther you go, the more she will retreat, And when she saw and got used to me talking and laughing with her dad, she slowly let down her guard.

And at this time you only need to praise her, tease her, she will not be afraid of birth, in short, the children of the water sign need to see your good first and then they will slowly let down their guard, and in fact, as long as you leave a good impression on her this time, then the next time you see her, it will be different, you take the initiative to tease her, she will no longer be afraid of life, Scorpio is tough, Cancer is very similar to Pisces. As for why I say this question, it makes sense, the development and growth of the emotional consciousness of the water sign is a habit or a habit of dependence, without this prerequisite, then the feelings of the water sign will not be stable and stable.

Or to put it another way, on the level of feelings, the water sign is very fragile, so you have to know that the environment for the growth of the water sign's emotional consciousness is very important for their growth, this point is not divided into men and women, then this is the concept of childhood, childhood is the foundation of growth, this is also a lead for the growth and change of the water sign, and the fixed point of the lead is love and affection. Subdivide, if the childhood of the water sign is very beautiful, her family atmosphere is very warm, then the water sign's psychological state and emotional state will develop on the bright side, which will affect her psychological state and thoughts when making friends and falling in love, on the contrary, if the water sign lacks love in childhood, then the feelings of the water sign will be more paranoid, followed by more fragile and more extreme. But this is not a real heart-wrenching point, the real heart-wrenching point is that the water sign will habitually grow up with that state of mind and thought, and it is difficult for them to get out of this lack of love, so the water sign especially needs a "warm" childhood.

Fire sign

Fire signs are different from water signs, fire signs are mostly naughty and naughty, and most people in water signs can clearly remember what atmosphere her childhood was, what happened, even if they don't remember clearly, they can probably remember, this point is a conclusion I came up with through my water sign friends around me. Unlike the fire sign, the fire sign probably can't remember, they remember the interesting, painful points, summed up is crying and fun things.

Here we need to explain a problem, in the eyes of parents, a child obedient, sensible will make them happy will also make their faces stained, at least compared to those naughty children this is certain, and helpless is that many parents will use this standard to ask children, you obey and understand that you are a good child, you are not obedient, you do not understand, you are not obedient, you need to correct, improve and then learn to obey. But there's probably another question that many parents haven't thought about, and that's what exactly do these kids need! Some children's parents are very strict, if children do not grow up according to their ideas and obedient standards, then they may be punished, while some parents may not be very strict, but they are not very guided to their children. The first situation is actually very common in reality, but often children who grow up under this guidance are very depressed.

The second case is also common, and children who grow up under this guidance may be very casual. Fire signs in these two circles, or they are the most representative, fire signs will not be so early to soft, so fire signs childhood are inevitably more scolded and beaten, but in all fairness, fire sign children in addition to naughty mischief is actually very good to bring, because they are really good at coaxing, or joke, they may be the kind of "good deception" of children, fire signs are not as fragile as water signs, on the contrary, they are likely to become very extreme, If fire signs have no sense of presence in childhood, and they feel that they are not important at home, then they will go backwards, which is the lead.

They will find a way to prove to their parents that the performance of Aries, lions, sagittarius at this point is very obvious, just take the Leo friend next to me, when he was studying, his parents were very bad at him, saying that he was stupid and not suitable for studying, but let him go to a technical school or something, but what his parents did not expect was that their son graduated from graduate school, and once he drank some wine very emotionally, I asked him why he was so powerful, he said a lot of sad things, the most glaring is the parents' uncertainty and contempt, Even if he hadn't figured out what he was going to do in the future, it was undeniable that he was fine now, but the resentment in his heart was still there. The childhood of the fire sign really does not need to be controlled by parents, affirm him and then give him a direction.