Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but what made more regrets was love itself.
We used to think that having love would last forever, but then we found out that giving everything does not necessarily have a perfect ending.
When love is eager, the mountains and rivers cannot be stopped, and when love is discouraged and lazy, meeting is thousands of miles apart.
A thought rises, the end of the world is within reach, a thought falls, and the end of the world is at hand.
Is the reason for such change that we are fickle? No, it is we who give our hearts to each other and forget to tell her that our hearts are easily hurt and should be carefully kept.
Sometimes our behavior squanders each other's sincerity, and when a conflict occurs, we do not give the best treatment, and those fierce quarrels, those unscrupulous cold wars, deeply hurt each other.
How to deal with the relationship between two people? For some, they cherish the people in front of them, and can solve the problem with a gentle coaxing, rather than refusing to give up with all their might.
Just like these three zodiac signs, they eat soft and do not eat hard, and as long as two people have a conflict in their feelings, as long as they take the initiative to coax them, the contradiction will go with the wind. Which constellations are they? Let's take a look.
Aries
Rene Liu sang in "Later":
Later, I finally learned how to love, but you have long gone and disappeared into the sea of people. Later, I finally understood in tears that some people, once missed, are not there.
Rene Liu told us that the feelings are full of regrets, and we must not wait until we miss them to sigh.
Aries is an impulsive sign, they love eagerly, but the personality is straightforward, and very stubborn, encountering quarrels, if you can not take the initiative to seek peace, it is likely to become a regret.
Aries are often people who do not have any bad intentions, although they are outspoken, but they have no malice in their hearts, and they are very distressed by their own words.
If there is an argument with Aries, their words hurt each other, Aries regrets it at that time, but their self-esteem is very strong, it is difficult to take the initiative to apologize.
At this time, if the other party can give Aries a step, they can quickly agree and will willingly apologize, and the contradiction will not intensify, but if they are hard, the contradiction will continue to intensify.
So don't argue with Aries, use gentleness to impress them.
Leo
There is a line in "Natsume's Friend's Account":
I want to be a gentle person, because I have been treated like that by gentle people, and I deeply understand the feeling of being treated gently.
Leo is a sign worthy of gentleness, they are an upright, sunny sign, confident, brave is their characteristics, excellent is their label, but in love, they are difficult to call excellent.
Leo is very troubled in the relationship, they will be hanging in the mouth, suddenly silent; they will be gentle and considerate, suddenly a small temper burst; they will be very laughing, suddenly aggrieved unable to speak.
Leo is too emotional in their feelings, and they have too much pride in their hearts, they will quarrel with their lovers from time to time, and their love of face makes them refuse to take the initiative to bow their heads and ask for peace.
This requires lovers to understand them, take the initiative to make peace with Leo, and Leo who does not remember revenge will happily accept, but their problems are difficult to correct.
Aquarius
Between the origin and the extinction of the cause, all we see is love and hate parting, and regret in life. A deep love begins with a dependent origin and ends with the extinction of the dependent relationship.
For Aquarius, a fate can easily begin and end quickly, and it is not that they do not cherish, but they do not know how to love.
Aquarius is just looking for the feeling of true love in the relationship, they do not know what true love feels like? But one thing is certain, if they are left out in the cold, they will abandon their current feelings.
Aquarius is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and they long for a real relationship, but true love is too difficult for them to feel.
In a relationship, if there is a contradiction, Aquarius will use the cold war to deal with, but they are eager to be responded to enthusiastically in their hearts, but if they have been snubbed, Aquarius's heart will cool down, and after a period of time without a response, they will really give up.
epilogue
The fate of the origin is extinguished, and there is no regret in life, but the fate that can be grasped, do not miss it.