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At noon today, I saw a topic on the Internet, called "Good Objects are the Best Psychologists", and there is a very interesting video under this topic, about the boyfriend who prepared a surprise in order to encourage the girlfriend who was laid off.
Here's the thing, record the video of this guy's girlfriend being laid off, very emo, in a very bad mood, began to doubt life, collapsed and cried in front of him, the boy plans to take her out to eat well, hoping that she can be happy.
After eating, the girlfriend was still depressed, the boy secretly ordered a crayfish, let the boss say that it was sent, the crayfish was sent after making a good job, the girlfriend showed a smile and said that this shop is good, oh, her mood instantly improved.
After eating, his girlfriend said that she would invite him to drink milk tea, and he said that if he did not drink it, he would not be able to sleep at night. After the girlfriend finished ordering, he secretly went to order a cup, told the clerk that it was a buy one get one free, and the girl naturally felt very surprised when she went to get the meal, and the mood was also very happy.
Then he went to buy lottery tickets, bought a lot of unsuccessful tickets, and finally won, so he gave her the winning one disguised as a new one, and she scraped out ten dollars to be happy, thinking that she was so lucky.
After such a wave of operations, the girlfriend's bad mood instantly improved, no longer like before emo, but in fact, she guessed that buy one get one free is the boy behind the back of the secret operation, but she is still very happy, no longer feel that she is a failure.
This boy has a wonderful interpretation, a good object is the best psychologist, he actually did not do much, but he successfully pulled his girlfriend out of the sad mood, which is the greatest meaning of a good object.
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Good objects will make you happy.
Each of us will have many unhappy moments in our lives, and it may be a sudden loss of work one day, like this girl in the video. It may be something unhappy at work. It may be what kind of difficulties are encountered in life and so on.
When encountering things, people will inevitably feel lost, these are no way to avoid, no matter how optimistic and positive people, there may be emo in an instant.
A good object can reflect his usefulness at this time, that is, to provide emotional value, to find your unhappiness, and to value your unhappiness, and then find a way to make you happy.
He will know why you are not happy, and he will also know what to do to make you happy, because he understands you, so he can make you happy with great precision.
He will do everything he can to make you happy, because if you are not happy, he will also be unhappy, and your happiness is his greatest happiness.
When you feel unhappy, your unhappiness does not last long, because with him, he is your pistachio, will bring you happiness, with him around, you will feel that he is your greatest luck.
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A good object, his love is the medicine that can cure everything.
As we all know, being loved is a very happy thing, when you are loved by a person, you will live a very happy life every day, sleep at night with a smile, be full of expectations for the next day, and wake up in the morning to feel very happy.
The person who is loved, his mood is sunny for twenty-four hours, you can hardly see any haze, there will be no sadness on his face, and even if there is, it will dissipate quickly, and it will not stay on the face for a long time.
Good love can heal people, if you are a person who is not so easy to be happy, with good love, you will be nourished by such love, the heart will be incomparably happy, happy.
So, from this point on, we can distinguish whether the object you find is good or bad, this is a very obvious difference, a good object, you are happy with him every day, if it is a bad object, although not necessarily sad every day, but must be sad more than happy.
If you are with him, there will always be some moments when you feel sad, when you are not happy he will not coax you to be happy, when you are not happy he will not perceive your emotions, when you are angry he will not pay attention to you, then hunger is not a good object.
When we fall in love, we must be running to happiness and happiness, not to find happiness for ourselves, when you feel unhappy, you must think carefully about whether this person is suitable for you or not, is it a good match.
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Article illustration | Stills from "A Rainy Day in New York."