Physical health and mental health together determine a person's ability to survive and quality of life, no matter which side of the problem will directly affect a person's ability to survive, but then again, the health of the conditioning body is not too difficult, and the health of the conditioning of the psychology is more difficult, and even said, this may already be a stubborn concept, and once a person's psychology has a problem, the catharsis and judgment of emotional consciousness will deviate from the normal track. Objectively speaking, people who are easy to be affected, their own state will become relatively unstable, today we will talk about these three constellations that are too easy to characterize and psychological states are difficult to adjust!
Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio
For the water sign with feelings as the benchmark for life, they are the most easily affected people, affected by family affection, friendship, love, and the initial feeling is family affection, the initial atmosphere of the water sign psychological state is here, such as a Pisces in the small time by the parents love and care, no matter what she does next to the parents to accompany, then this Pisces will not lack love, this is the beginning of pisces emotional development, that wait until Pisces grows up and began to read, Friendship will become another benchmark for Pisces' emotional awareness and emotional development, but the influence of friendship on Pisces is not an absolute concept.
This is like this Pisces who has not lacked love since childhood, even if she has failed to make friends and is hurt by friends, Pisces' emotional awareness will not become so biased, because Pisces' sense of security can have family affection to comfort, then wait until this Pisces begins to fall in love, the concept of this influence is also similar to friendship, to be honest, such Pisces is undoubtedly very lucky and very happy, so this Pisces psychological state is generally very normal and very healthy.
But if a Pisces is not very good in the family atmosphere and family atmosphere when he is young, her parents do not care much about him, and do not comfort her when he is sad and sad, and if Pisces grows up in this environment, then there is a good chance that she will lack love, so when he faces friendship, her lack of love in her heart will also affect the development and results of friendship, such as a friend of Pisces betrayed her, but became friends with another person. To be reasonable, this kind of thing is actually not much hurt in itself, for us ordinary people, it doesn't matter if you don't make friends with me, at least I can find new friends.
But Pisces can't do it, or in other words, this kind of thing can have a big impact on Pisces, so if this Pisces makes a friend later, can she be sincere? The answer is impossible, because this Pisces has a root cause, she will always think wildly, will think that this friend may also betray her, and this lack of love will also affect pisces judgment, such a Pisces will always feel that others are wrong, others are not good enough for themselves. Then when this Pisces is in love, the problem may be even greater, and it is better to meet someone who really loves her, but if you can't meet, the trauma that occurs in the relationship will fundamentally overlap with the lack of love of Pisces.
And this leads to a psychological imbalance in Pisces. This is the two development lines of Pisces feelings, Cancer and Scorpio are also similar to this, you can actually imagine that a person has some knots in his heart, these knots make her very uncomfortable, very pessimistic, so what she needs is love and strength, and it will be an urgent desire fantasy, and once a person's psychological state and spiritual needs reach this level, it means that it is excessive, which means that no matter how to fill the gap of the heart knot may not be filled.
And the definition of security required by the water sign is here, for Scorpio, only after Scorpio has determined and determined that you will not leave her, they have the courage and courage to give their love, Scorpio is after all the most prominent one of the water signs, and this sign can have such boldness when dealing with feelings, it is not easy, because in addition to those influences, Scorpio's psychological state and emotional consciousness are actually contradictory, but even so, it is better than Pisces and Cancer Because Pisces and Cancer do not have the courage of scorpio.
And this will lead to another problem found that the pessimistic Cancer and Pisces themselves need a lot of security, only in this way can they enrich their emotional awareness, in other words, only in this way cancer and Pisces can really go to the heart, but because they do not have so strong courage, so when they ask for a sense of security, they can not intuitively express it, so it is easy to be misunderstood, and as long as the Pisces Cancer is misunderstood, feel that the other party does not understand themselves, then their pessimism will be raised to another level.
And the characterization of their psychological state also stems from this model, to put it bluntly, once such a thing has been experienced, their psychological state is almost qualitative, they are too easy to characterize, which is called passive and uncontrolled emotional awareness, and this state will eventually slowly precipitate, so it is difficult to regulate the psychological state of the water sign. People who get along with the water sign should know, such as you let the water sign do something or want to ask her to eat, watch a movie, etc., then in general, as long as the water sign says to consider it, think about it, the result is generally that the water sign does not go, as for why, the friends of the water sign should have a number in mind.