Spring feast, green wine a glass of song again. Goodbye to Chen Sanzhi: one wish lang jun chitose, two wishes concubines chang jian, three wishes like Liang Shangyan, the years to see each other.
This poem is the work of the five generations of literati Feng Yanmi, sending "long-lived women". In the tone of the wife, the words tell the deep blessings to the husband. Male literati simulating women's tone of creation is a normal, quite a bit of empathy.
Feng Yanshu visited him three times, but judging from this person's works, there was no bureaucratic habit. The history books say that he was kind and erudite. From this poem, we can also see another characteristic of him, his delicate mind. Fill in the words in a woman's tone, and most people are expressing their grievances. Feng Yanmi's words are fresh and unconventional, full of tender affection and sincere feelings.
At the spring banquet, the wife picked up the green wine and sang a song while offering the wine. What is she singing? Listening closely, she sang her wish. She had three wishes, the first of which was to wish her husband a long life for a thousand years. The second wish is to be healthy. The third wish is that the husband and wife will be healthy and healthy, gracious and loving, like a double flying swallow on the beam. The two people are paired up and see each other every year.
This poem describes a very life-like scene, perhaps the story between Feng Yanmi and his wife. Because of the sincere feelings, it reads fresh and bright. Some people use "shallow and deep feelings" to summarize the writing characteristics of this song, and it is not shallow at all from the use of words.
Feng Yanmi used the words precisely, and the whole word was read in a straight vein, without the slightest sense of separation. He emphasizes rhythm and rhythm, and the tone rises and falls when reading, as if people can feel the melody of the music. This beautiful feeling deepens people's understanding of the content.
Men want to marry a virtuous and kind wife, and wives want to live a lifetime or two. Feng Yanshu spoke up for women, saying the desire to be a wife, and also said that wives and husbands should have the necessary communication. Feng Yanshu found a particularly clever angle, pointing out the need for communication between husband and wife, and the basis of communication is mutual respect.
Feng Yanshu put women on an equal footing with men, and took the opportunity to drink at the Spring Banquet to promote the relationship between husband and wife. After reading this poem, Feng Yanwei must be very good to his wife, even if he is in a high position, he has a kind and inclusive heart, and will definitely treat his family well and love his wife.
Following this line of thought, it seems that feng Yanmi's creative intentions have been guessed. According to the fashionable saying, he was "sprinkling dog food". He wants everyone to see his happy life, and he also wants everyone to know how to be happy. Such a Feng Yanwei is quite grounded!