Two days ago, when our daughter was out of school, she chatted with the mother of her classmates, she had a five-year-old son, a 14-month-old daughter, but she still had a full-time job. He complained to me that every day he felt that he didn't have enough time, and often when he worked, he had to deal with emails from school from the nursery and from the evening nursery. Then on weekends, children are sent to interest classes, and they often forget important things without their own personal time.
For example, he found that he had not taken his son to check his teeth for a long time, and suddenly remembered to take it for examination and found that his teeth had been mothed in a small piece. Because of this, he blamed himself very much, thinking that his time was not arranged properly. Before I became a parent, I felt that after becoming a mother, I would be very organized and arrange the time. But in fact, after you have a child, the trivial things that come to your face really overwhelm you, and you may not know what you are busy with after a day.
Especially those mothers who gave birth to two or three children, over the past few years, I have accumulated four small tip.
Hopefully, I can help those very busy moms and dads and save a little energy. I usually make plans based on one school year, before the start of this school year. I'll go to the official education website and open a link to see a calendar for the next school year, which will list all the holidays, exams, and public holidays. Then I'll print it out and stick it in the most eye-catching place.
Such a ritualistic action will make me feel that I have mastered many situations this school year, and there are many benefits of planning for the holidays in advance. The sooner you do it, the cheaper those hotels and airline tickets for the holidays will be. The monthly plan is generally based on the school year plan, so I will be in this month before the start of the school year. In the plan, I will use the calendar that comes with my mobile phone to write down all the things in this month and arrange it. If you can't do something in two minutes, write it down quickly and don't trust your brain too much. Sometimes things are completely forgotten when they drag on.
Everyone may have been tired of hearing the three words, but if you save energy, breaking away is really the only way. Take the example of the child's interest class, because when the child starts out, he always has to try to find out what he is really interested in. But if you have determined that he is not interested in such a thing, then simply quit directly, do not like to pick up and drop off by yourself and are very tired.
Many friends will feel that buying things will reduce pressure, but the management cost of more things is more. Do not stay if it is useless, and do not hoard it when it is useful to buy it directly. The risk of a large number of hoarded goods is that when you need to use them, you can't remember that there are goods at home. It may also cause duplicate purchases, save your energy, and waste money.
The third is to set up a good cycle utilization tool, I don't know if you have found, in fact, a lot of housework it is cyclical. For example, you need to change your sheets regularly or clean the refrigerator regularly for two weeks, and you need to pay a mortgage and car loan every month. Every year, the car needs an annual inspection, every three months to take the child to see the dentist, or you also need to check the teeth for six months and other trivial matters. Although this kind of thing is small, if we forget it, it will bring certain troubles to our lives. What we have to do is to find out and list all these periodic transactions, and then use the mobile phone to remind the remind function to manage it uniformly.
For example, if you want to dispense a prescription drug, the pharmacy is right near the supermarket, but you want to go to the supermarket by the way to buy the medicine back, set a fixed point reminder, so that you go to the supermarket will remind you that you need to dispense the drug again, so that you can save two trips. There are also some things that may be more trivial.
The fourth is to find out the strengths, mobilize the family, encourage self-reliance, and outsource as much as possible. Finding out what you're good at means finding out what you and your lover are good at. For example, like me, I may not be good at money numbers at all, so my family's water and electricity, every bank account is managed by my husband.
Children need to be encouraged to be self-reliant and do their own thing. Like I encourage a child to be self-reliant, the most important thing is to help build his self-confidence. The child's self-confidence is actually not from the inside out as we think, but needs to be completed from the outside in through the completion of one small thing after another, and gradually build his self-confidence.
So while you encourage him to do his own things, you can also try to cultivate his self-confidence, which is a win-win situation! I really hope that these tips can save everyone a little energy, and the leisure time saved must be kept to yourself. Especially many hard-working mothers
Remember, your family will be happy only if you're happy. If you think what I'm talking about is a little helpful, please give me a thumbs up If you think something is wrong, feel free to discuss it with me in the message area.