These 2 categories of children are the most vulnerable to bullying in school
Parents learn to educate in this way, and children are healthy and sunny
It is often seen on the Internet that a teenager in a certain middle school intends to harm himself because he has been bullied in school for a long time. Every time I see such a news headline, I can't bear to click into it and look at it carefully, because such news contains too much growing pain.
In recent years, there have been more and more such news, on the one hand, because of the rapid development of the media, on the other hand, it is not excluded that there are indeed more and more such cases.
Parents may understand that school bullying is extremely detrimental to the growth of children, not only will cause physical harm to children, but also cause serious psychological problems in children.
The movie "Young You" tells the story of two teenagers who redeem each other in different backgrounds, and Chen Nian in the movie is a proper three-good student, studying hard, introverted and low-key, but because of an accident, he is involved in terrible school bullying.
The film brings bloody and brutal bullying scenes to the big screen in a very realistic way, and sitting in the movie theater, I faintly hear a whispered sob, perhaps from a victim who has experienced a similar scene.
Bullying can destroy a person
The Norwegian scholar Orvis defines school bullying as a long and repetitive exposure of a student to one or more student-led negative behaviors. Just looking at the definition has begun to feel heartache, so how desperate should the child who is experiencing bullying be in his heart?
Little A lives in a small county with four junior high schools, and she attends the most recently established and loosely managed one. The children there are the most complex, some come from remote rural areas, some live in county towns, some have low-key and calm personalities, and some are obedient and aggressive.
Little A's family is generally well-off, lively and cheerful, hard-working, always maintaining good grades, and is a member of the study committee in the class. She has an extremely upright personality, does not tolerate a little sand in her eyes, and always speaks bluntly, without saving face for those who make mistakes.
However, before the middle school entrance examination, she suddenly became silent, lost her mind in class, and her grades plummeted.
The class teacher sensed that something was wrong and began to talk to her, but Xiao A insisted that it was because of the nervous mood of the exam and often insomnia. The teacher verbally told her to relax, but in his heart he thought that things were not so simple.
So the class teacher began to contact the parents of Little A, asking whether anything had happened at home, but the parents said that everything was normal at home, And Little A was more serious than before, and after school was in the room, he did not come out to watch TV, the class teacher listened, but he felt even more unlucky, he decided to "track" Little A, to find out.
Sure enough, after Xiao A walked out of the campus, he was surrounded by several little in the same class, and they began to loudly satirize how Xiao A did not laugh, whether he was beaten and laughed out, saying that according to Xiao A's stomach was a punch, the class teacher rushed forward to stop it, and they saw it and scattered.
The class teacher accompanied Xiao A all the way home, and asked the reason on the way.
It turned out that those "little bastards" had been looking for various students in the class to write homework for a long time, and Little A was often
He even gave a few small reports to the teacher. The "little bastards" decided to solve the problem with their fists, and Little A had been bullied for two weeks, and she began to become timid and silent.
Although the class teacher actively enlightened him, Little A could not return to his original state, encountered a little difficulty and began to escape, and finally fell behind.
A bullying needs to be cured for life, so parents must pay close attention to it. However, not every child will be bullied in the process of growing up, and it is also important to understand which personality of the child is more likely to be bullied, and can guide the child's personality more targetedly.
Which child's personality is more likely to be "bullied"
- Children who are too high-profile and like to show off
Now many families have good economic conditions, and the requirements for children are more obedient, which makes children develop a high-profile, flaunting personality. This kind of personality is particularly easy to be isolated by students, and it is also easy to be hated by teachers, although it is not said in words, but there will be a gap in the heart. Therefore, over time, children are easy to become lonely, and unwilling to take the initiative to interact with people, arrogance has become a protective color, everywhere they go, it seems to be separated from the crowd, and it is easy to be treated as a "soft persimmon" to become the object of bullying.
Such children often do not turn to their parents for help, but suffer silently, and when the parents find that something is wrong, it may be too late to remedy it. Therefore, only by correctly educating children from an early age and cultivating children to form a good character can we better avoid bullying.
- A child with a withdrawn personality and an unsociable personality
Because each child's genetics and growth environment will be different, their personalities are also very different.
But each personality can not be distinguished by good and bad, but by whether it can be adapted to the environment in which it is located, and it is usually more difficult for a relatively isolated personality to adapt to the environment.
In the movie "Young You", although Chen Nian has excellent grades, she is introverted and cannot get along with the people around her, which is one of the main reasons why she was selected by the bully.
Rome was not built in a day, nor was the character of a child developed in a day.
In the process of children's growth, the parents' education methods have played a great role in shaping, but many parents do not know where to start, resulting in missing the golden period of children's growth.
Here, Xiaobian recommends a set of books to parents "Children's Anti-Bullying Picture Book", which is a set of children's self-protection awareness training picture books recommended by parenting psychological research institutions.
Small picture books, big roles
Although school bullying is already well known to most people, for children, most of them are unable to distinguish bullying, and in school education, there are few special courses to popularize this knowledge, so family education is particularly important.
This set of picture books includes eight large open books, which are well received by the whole network, and are the word-of-mouth push picture books of mothers across the country.
Its content is rich and interesting enough to attract children's attention, through vivid narration to teach children how to protect themselves, to help children develop the right habits.
In addition to the careful compilation of the above content, the printing of this set of "Children's Anti-Bullying Picture Book" is also very careful, the paper quality is excellent, the pictures are clear, and it is really possible for children to love it.
As a family essential children's growth series picture book, it creates eight different characters according to the characteristics of children's psychological development, telling eight different stories, corresponding to eight different types of bullying.
In teaching children to identify bullying, but also to educate children to develop good habits and personality, neither to be bullied nor to become a perpetrator, so that children learn how to deal with the correct response in the face of various bullying situations, and the road to growth is full of sunshine and positive energy.
Now the purchase price of the order is also very favorable, the whole set of books only sells for 49 yuan, and the remaining meal opens this "umbrella" for the child's growth!
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