Not only are women good at disguise, but some men are also full of stomachs and intestines.
In the relationship, some men may also "disguise" themselves in order to achieve their goals more easily. Men usually disdain to do this, but once they get serious, it is not so easy to distinguish.
Because of this, many women are deceived again and again, and as a result, they not only do not find the right feelings, but also suffer a body injury.
In fact, if you want to know whether a man is "really honest" or "fake and serious", it is clear to see these three points.
01 Look at his usual hobbies
If you want to know whether the other person is a good man or a scumbag, you can easily tell from his hobbies.
Serious and honest men have some more normal, serious hobbies, such as playing basketball, reading, or researching something or something. But scumbags' hobbies are mostly to dress themselves up, like to visit nightclubs, and they also love to make friends, especially friends of the opposite sex.
No matter how honest a man says he is, don't believe it. Men's mouths, deceitful ghosts, if you only listen to them as a basis for understanding them, you will certainly be pitted.
When they first met, they may behave themselves very honestly for some purpose, but in the subsequent contact and interaction, their daily behaviors and hobbies will make them appear in their original form.
If you find that men have different hearts, women must not hesitate, must stay away as soon as possible, he can lie to you once, he can deceive you a second time.
For dishonest, dishonest men, you must take decisive measures, otherwise the longer it drags on, the more it will hurt you.
Don't be fooled by their appearance, observe what they usually like to do, and naturally get an idea of their true side.
02 Look at the friends he made
As the saying goes: "Things are clustered, people are grouped", if you want to understand a man, you must first go to see the friends he has made.
Good men make good teachers and friends; while scumbags are mostly fox friends. From the matter of making friends, it can reflect whether this man is reliable or not.
If he tells you that he is an honest man, he usually keeps to himself and does not go out and mess around. But you find that his friends are all prodigal sons, ruthless scumbags, or some people who do not learn and have no skills, and linger in entertainment places all day, otherwise they are addicted to games, you should understand that most of the men you meet are not good "goods"!
Don't believe it, when we choose a mate, the people around him are one of the most important reference factors.
Because it's impossible for you to fully understand a person in a short period of time, especially if he has something to hide. At this time, the best way is to observe what kind of people he usually contacts, and naturally understand whether this man is worth your lifelong trust.
For him, it may be difficult for you to understand it in a short time, but his friends who have no defense against you can easily show the truest side to you.
Don't take any chances, when you find that the situation is not right, it is better to stay away as soon as possible. It is better to kill the wrong person than to let it go, otherwise it will only be you who will be hurt in the end.
03 Look at his attitude towards others
A man, no matter what his attitude towards you, don't believe it completely. Because he may do something against his heart in order to get you.
To know whether a man is reliable or not, you need to observe his attitude towards others.
For example, when you feel that others are good when you are in contact, but later find that he has no respect for other friends, even parents and relatives, and is completely different from his attitude towards you, you should understand that his kindness to you may be pretended.
The reason for this is, of course, to achieve some purpose.
If you really entrust yourself to him, those who are "treated differently" by him will be your future fate.
Some people have two faces, one before and one after. Even in front of different people, there will be different ways of treatment, this kind of man has to be careful.
If a woman wants to be happy, it is important to find an "honest" man, at least he will treat you sincerely and will not cheat and deceive.
If you're looking for an unorthodox man who looks honest on the surface, but is actually disguised, one day you'll regret it.
If improper men love you or not, don't talk about them, and those "bad" problems in them are not something you can accept.
Most of the unsatisfactory men are not satisfied, see different thoughts, and are proficient in eating, drinking, gambling and gambling.
Most of these men are very unpractical and often always want to dream of getting rich, but the reality has never done a serious thing seriously.
With such a man, it is difficult to live a lifetime. Because marriage wants happiness and needs too many factors, these immodest men simply can't afford to give you happiness.
The most stupid thing for a woman is to look at a man's surface and define him.
There are many "masked" boys in real life, and the way they really look, it's not what you see, you need to feel it with your heart.