Since I was a child, I heard my mother say that one of the eldest uncles in our family worked in the city and mixed well, but I never met him. The reason is simple, this uncle has a stable job, thinks he is dragging himself to the sky, walks and looks at the sky, and never pays attention to the people in the village. When I was a child, there were red and white happy events in the family, and my mother would always take me, but I had never seen my uncle. Family affairs, the uncle never paid attention, rarely returned to the countryside, if not the rural parents, he is likely to break off contact with the countryside.
When I was a child, I thought that uncle had proud capital, who let the family have the ability to work in the city and have a stable income. After all, when many people in the village are busy all day in order to live, the uncle has a fixed salary every month. Perhaps other people in the village, while complaining that Uncle Dabo did not understand politeness and forgot his roots, also understood Uncle Da's approach to a certain extent. Even if the uncle dragged like a master, the people in the village still greeted him, but the most he got was to nod, in fact, the uncle was not familiar with the people in the village, and some did not know him at all.
As soon as uncle dae entered the village, he began to walk with his neck crooked, and many people he couldn't see at all. One of his goals was to get home quickly and not to pay attention to anyone. After arriving at home, the uncle could hardly leave the door and did not go out, and after watching his parents hurry back to the city, hiding in the countryside like a plague. Uncle Da's wife and children have hardly ever returned to the countryside, and uncle Da's people come and go in a hurry. If it were not for the last resort, the uncle would not return to the countryside and give his parents some money at most.
Growing up and living in the city, I felt that Uncle Da's self-righteousness was a disease. He felt that he had a stable job, even if he had a job, the whole village would have to hold it and respect him, others would ignore him, he would absolutely ignore others, and he could play with his might in the village. But in fact, the people in the village did not want to bird him at all, and every time the uncle returned to the village, who did not treat him with a careless attitude. The uncle patronized and dragged, did not savor the words and deeds of others at all, and foolishly showed there.
In fact, although the life of rural people was difficult in the early years, in recent years, people's lives have become better and better, and there is not much superiority in urban life. In the city, the uncle lives in a cottage of tens of square meters, while the countryside is a spacious compound with large and bright rooms. In the countryside, you can eat fresh vegetables every day, breathe fresh air every day, accompany you every day with simple villagers, and choose your favorite food at the night market every day.
Now almost every household in the village has a car, and each family has some savings. Up to now, the uncle is still struggling to pay off the mortgage for his son, and the family lives tightly, does he still have the capital to be self-righteous? I'm afraid there is none! Now that uncle has returned to the village, he still ignores people, drives a car, goes directly to the door of his home, and hardly sees anyone. Most of the people in the village were better off than he was, and he couldn't get up anymore.
Although uncle no longer has the capital to be self-righteous, his self-esteem keeps him from bowing his head and still looks up to the sky in the village. Uncle Da is indeed sick, not lightly ill, people are born equal, where is the noble saying? If you want people to be superior, if you want others to look up to yourself, then you have enough capital, you don't have capital, drag what drag. I don't know if you have found that the higher the identity of the person, the more approachable, the more peaceful the mentality.
The more people care about what they are, the less they lack, so we should not envy others to show happiness, do not envy others' cattle, and strive to do a good job of ourselves, and naturally we will rise up. Cows don't need to show, as long as you do yourself seriously and constantly improve yourself, you will become more and more cattle, and others will look up to you. A big uncle with a stable job thinks that he is dragging himself to the sky and walking to the sky, which is a joke! Friends, what do you think of Uncle Da's approach? Welcome to leave a message, comment, bookmark, forward!