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Bing Xin said: "Read good books, read good books, read well." ”
The year I joined the workforce, I had a reading card on the third floor of a large supermarket, and with this membership card, the books in the bookstore on the third floor could be read at will. On weekends, I go there to read a book and enjoy a free cup of coffee or green tea.
In the years that followed, I didn't read much.
I started reading again in 2016, and I have forgotten what kind of circumstances I read a copy of Zhang Defen's "Meet the Unknown Self", and after reading it at that time, my heart was very shocked, because there was a sentence at the beginning of the book: "Honey, there is no one else outside, only yourself." ”
I began to understand that all troubles, whether it is dissatisfaction or dissatisfaction, although we are accustomed to complaining about external causes, in fact, in order to obtain peace and joy, we must first correct it from the inside.
I also read Dr. Hailan's "Imperfect, Beautiful", only to find that even if others look good, the small days are not uneventful, everyone has troubles, and the difference lies in the way people deal with them.
At that time, the books on the shelves also included "Gone with the Wind", "We Both", "20 Years Old with the Right Person, 30 Years Old To Do the Right Thing", "Goddess Daily Cultivation Manual", "Your 8760 Hours a Year" and so on. Every time I move, my husband always complains, because he always has to transport this box of heavy books.
Later, he joined fan deng's reading members, began to listen to fan deng's lectures, and found that fan deng was really a learned person, he knew astronomy, geography, books that could talk about humanities, and books on psychology.
Teacher Fan Deng read very quickly, a very thick book, he can read it in one afternoon. Teacher Fan Deng always has a blank piece of paper at hand when he lectures, and he mentioned in the video that he is used to drawing mind maps, and it turns out that he already has a book in his mind before speaking.
But then I felt that I had to eat my own food and read the books myself. Because what others say and what you read yourself has a different experience and collision of thoughts.
Buying paper books is really expensive, and now I basically read e-books on WeChat Reading.
Three insights into your own reading skills:
1. If you want to read more books, you have to improve your reading speed.
2. If you can't read this book, just change it.
3. Make good reading notes, it will be a good writing material.
In the process of reading, what changes did you find yourself?
The first is a change of mindset. I am a very sensitive person, able to be keenly aware of the slightest change in the surrounding things and eager to react.
Through reading, I found that my psychological resilience increased and my mental space broadened. In order to deal with the relationship with others, we must first deal with the relationship with the self, I learned to accept myself as I am, and I am full of trust and expectation for everything around me.
The second is cognitive improvement. We often comment on someone or something, but this comment is often based on our own cognition, and although it sounds very reasonable, it may not be accurate.
Through reading books, I learned a lot of concepts that I had never heard before, and I was able to go beyond my original cognition and see things from another perspective.
No matter what type of book you read, it's like eating food that will be a part of you.
I also buy a lot of children's books for my children, not only the books I read are changing, but his book list is also changing as the child's age and needs change.
For example, when I was a child, I read the most picture books, books on the formation of behavior habits, and scientific picture books. After the first grade, I began to read the math initiation book, the logic game book, and the Chinese character bridge book.
The variety of children's books is colorful and varied, and it is not to say that you have to buy them all back. Parents should screen themselves before buying books, and it is best to read them before reading them to their children.
If your child is not interested in a book, you can also put it aside and wait until he is interested.
"If you don't know enough, you are more worried, if you don't have enough intelligence, you are suspicious, and if you don't have enough, you have more complaints."
I hope that I have time to read every day, I hope that I can have the financial resources to buy more books for my children, I hope that reading can become a way of life for us, and I hope that through our own practice, reading will become a good habit to accompany children throughout their lives.