Fish yearn for life
Live the life you yearn for and let others say go!
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There is a saying: "Nothing is more convincing than time, because time can change everything without informing us."
One
When the time came, I never said anything, but answered all the questions and quietly changed a lot of things. If it doesn't say anything, we don't need to know only, because life will make us understand.
For example, many of my friends don't say anything when they first meet, and then they hate each other. After a period of indifference and strangeness. Time is like a giant sieve, what should be left, what should be left. We didn't talk to each other, but seemed to understand everything.
For example, many unsatisfactory feelings have gone through the test of time, but later found that the most satisfied feelings are the most prosaic. Time allows us to solve problems at the same time as we encounter them.
Many harvests are slowly lost in the screening of time, and many losses are gradually turned into harvests under the precipitation of time. Good and bad, true and false, all the answers we want to know will come up in different ways at some point.
Years do not speak, but witness all sincerity, time does not speak, but the most understanding of people.
Two
We often say to frustrated friends: it's okay, time will heal everything. Indeed, time is a magical thing. It will teach us to let go and become mature and responsible.
But who can tell us how long it will take? A month, a year, or a lifetime. No one can give us an accurate answer, including ourselves.
In fact, many things, not life trapped us, but ourselves. How many of those things that make us miserable now are something we can remember later, and how many of them will still affect us ten years from now? Even without the sun, it is always bright. And all of this will be overshadowed by time.
What can't be forgotten, what can't be put down, it's better to let go. Our lives are short, we don't have to worry about what we can't get, we don't have to stop for regretful youth. We want to live freely, and it's worth it.
Three
Perhaps, now you have achieved nothing in your career, have not gotten the job you want, and have not waited for the love you want. Life seems very confusing. After experiencing setback after setback, I no longer have expectations for life, I don't like the noise and excitement so much, but I become more and more silent...
In this life, people may give up a lot of things, but the most terrible thing is to give up on themselves. You know, life is long. Kicking away that stumbling block, there is no need to complain about yourself in the same place. Insist on not giving up, the years will never be indebted to everyone who runs hard.
In any case, remember to love yourself. Strive to be a better version of yourself, not addicted to the status quo, not worried about the future. Always walk on the road, the rest is left to time.
We don't have to worry too much about our gains and losses. Everything life gives us is meaningful. Everyone will go through some hardships and hardships. But don't give up. Calmly study the emotions of waiting for the right time, but also keep the effort and persistence outside of waiting.
I hope that even as time gets older, you and I can still face life with a smile.
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