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Emotional intelligence is worrying? The "inappropriate" remarks completely angered the fans, and Cai Bin suffered a crisis of trust

Since Cai Bin was elected as the head coach of the Chinese women's volleyball team, the voice of doubt has never stopped. It is only because the Chinese women's volleyball team is in an important period of reconstruction, many fans even if they have doubts about Cai Bin's approach, most of them have chosen to reserve their opinions and try to create a relaxed public opinion environment for the Chinese women's volleyball team, so even if there has been a voice of doubt, it is only an individual phenomenon and has not formed a scale. However, Cai Bin does not seem to care about the feelings of the fans, testing the patience of the fans again and again. From the selection criteria focus on physical test results and ignore the actual performance, to the abandonment of the World Cup's best free agent Wang Mengjie's choice of the serious decline in the state of Ni Feifan, Cai Bin's approach makes fans feel more and more unreliable.

Emotional intelligence is worrying? The "inappropriate" remarks completely angered the fans, and Cai Bin suffered a crisis of trust

Perhaps the tolerance of the fans has encouraged Cai Bin's confidence, in an interview with CCTV, in the face of the topic of Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning's return, Cai Bin actually gave, "The door of the national team has been open to them, first of all, they must be willing to play for the country, at the same time, we also have to evaluate according to their injuries, we also welcome them to come back" Answer. Although Cai Bin's statement sounds very reasonable, if it is considered from the perspective of Zhu Ting, Zhang Changning, or fans, there is a suspicion of improper speech.

Emotional intelligence is worrying? The "inappropriate" remarks completely angered the fans, and Cai Bin suffered a crisis of trust

Cai Bin's remarks include three aspects: 1. The national team's door has always been open for Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning; 2. The prerequisites for the return of Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning; 3. The national team welcomes Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning back. Among them, the conditions for zhuting Zhang Changning's return are divided into two: 1. they must have the willingness to serve the country; 2. their physical condition allows. There is naturally no problem with the 1st and 3rd aspects. The second aspect is generally no problem, but the first of these conditions, "to have the will to serve the country", not only makes Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning feel humiliated, but also seems to contain the meaning of complaining in Cai Bin's context.

Emotional intelligence is worrying? The "inappropriate" remarks completely angered the fans, and Cai Bin suffered a crisis of trust

As the head coach of the Chinese women's volleyball team, Cai Bin offered Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning the condition of "having the will to serve the country", which is tantamount to questioning whether Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning are patriotic. This question is very difficult to accept, and if it is considered in an extreme way, it can also be said to be a disguised denial of Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning's patriotic feelings. In addition, Cai Bin put "the door of the national team has always been open for Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning" before the conditions for return, and this language order gives people the intuitive feeling that he believes that someone has the conditions to return to the team but has not shown the willingness to return to the team.

Emotional intelligence is worrying? The "inappropriate" remarks completely angered the fans, and Cai Bin suffered a crisis of trust

For Cai Bin's "inappropriate" remarks, Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning are naturally not good at expressing their positions, but they may be upset. And the fans can't take care of so much, this time completely angered by Cai Bin's remarks, bluntly said That When Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning are completely recovered, you are not necessarily the head coach of the national team, don't come out to open conditions for their return, or first find a way to keep their own coaching position. Unexpectedly, Less than three months after Cai Bin took office, he encountered a crisis of trust, and even some of Cai Bin's staunch supporters have changed their attitudes.

Emotional intelligence is worrying? The "inappropriate" remarks completely angered the fans, and Cai Bin suffered a crisis of trust

In fact, if you calm down and think about it carefully, the original intention of Cai Bin's remarks may not be as the fans understand, but there are problems in the language organization and language order, which leads to deviations in the fans' understanding. Of course, even if the language organization is smooth and the order is correctly adjusted, as long as there is still language like "the willingness to serve the country", it shows that Cai Bin's emotional intelligence is indeed not high enough. Even if Zhu Ting and Zhang Changning do not care, in the future, if two or one of them fails to return to the national team, they will also fall under the suspicion of not having the will to play for the country, bringing unnecessary trouble to the players, from this point of view, Cai Bin's emotional intelligence is indeed worrying, and it is not surprising to usher in a crisis of trust.

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