The success of Gu Ailing has made countless Chinese parents begin to reflect on what kind of education can teach such a good child as Gu Ailing. Maybe you may say that because her mother has money, or that her mother herself is highly educated, or even think that she has a better growth environment, etc., but in fact, Gu Ailing's mother Gu Yan's education is not the same as everyone thinks, Gu Yan told her when Gu Ailing was very young, you don't need to be like us, you don't need to go to Stanford or Harvard (Gu Ailing's father attended school), you just need to be yourself, do what you like to do
Recently, Jin Jing's "accusation against his father" has resonated with many netizens, Jin Jing is now an actor, but her acting path is not smooth, because her appearance is not beautiful enough, Jin Jing can only debut from a funny image at the beginning
Recently she shared a story about weight loss, Jin Jing said that because she likes Gu Ailing, she has watched all the documentaries of Gu Ailing, so she began to lose weight seriously during the New Year, but until one day his father said to her, "Are your thighs thicker than your boyfriend's thighs?" ”
Saying this sentence alone does not mean too much, but because of his father's "suppression education" of Jin Jing since he was a child, Jin Jing's eyes were instantly moist, and he said to his father very seriously: Dad, do you know why I can't become Gu Ailing? Because Gu Ailing's mother would never point to her daughter's thigh and say to her, "Are you thicker than a man?" "I'm so sad! Because Gu Ailing's mother gave Gu Ailing enough confidence
In order to prove his point of view, Jin Jing also deliberately emphasized that he had watched a lot of Gu Ailing's documentaries, but Jin Jing's father claimed that "when her mother said that Gu Ailing was not good, would Gu Ailing say it in the interview?" In the end, Jin Jing could only helplessly say, "This is not the key to the problem." ”
This dialogue has also resonated with many netizens, claiming that their childhood was almost grown up under the "suppression education" of their parents, and even some people said that they grew up with low self-esteem, social fear, entanglement in doing things, lack of courage, etc., all because they grew up in such an educational environment
Indeed, the biggest impression of 18-year-old Gu Ailing is self-discipline, self-confidence and bravery, Gu Ailing has known what she should do and what she should not do since she was a child, even if she is now a Winter Olympic champion, but Gu Ailing still maintains the rhythm of daily fitness and three times a week running, when Gu Ailing was full of curiosity about many things when she was a child, her mother Gu Yan will not suppress or deny her choice, but unswervingly support her daughter's decision and encourage her to be brave to try
In addition, there is self-confidence, Gu Ailing in CCTV's "China Ice and Snow Night" party specifically talked about why she will be so confident, she said that from the very beginning when she wanted to try skiing, her mother was very encouraged to learn and adhere to, and it is her mother's encouragement again and again, Gu Ailing gradually achieved one result after another on the ski, and these achievements have become Gu Ailing's biggest source of confidence
Similarly, although skiing is part of Gu Ailing's growth experience, it is also the experience of skiing that makes Gu Ailing more brave, strong and confident in the face of other difficulties and obstacles, she believes that she has the ability to do it, and believes that she will become more outstanding through hard work, all of which are inseparable from her mother's initial motivation
Although our children cannot all be Gu Ailing, the suppression of education is destined to make children unable to become the most confident self
Contributing Editor: Jason