Text/Wei Chen
Writer Su Cen said: "At this age, I don't want to please anyone, I am comfortable with whomever I am, and when I am tired, I will stay away." ”
This is the attitude of life that a person should have.
People live in stress all their lives, and no one can live freely and easily.
This life is not long, it is not short. People who live happily feel that a good life is fleeting, and people who live in pain often feel that the bad night is endless.
People only live once in this life, and within the scope of their ability, they must try not to let themselves live too tired.
When we are young, we please others for the sake of fame, for the sake of profit, for everything we want.
After people reach middle age, even if there is still something they have not yet possessed, do not be too attached to getting it.
People live one life, like grass and trees in autumn. Some things are already doomed, so don't try to change your life against the sky.
When you are young, you should take all the detours, and in middle age, you must learn to be yourself.
In the "Yangzhen Collection", it is written: "Since ancient times, the gods and immortals have no other way, only joy and no sorrow." ”
In this world, even the gods and immortals cannot eliminate all sorrows, let alone that we are just ordinary laymen.
If the sorrow is already there, accept it and do your best to forget it.
After all, this life is so long, happiness is a day, unhappiness is also a day.
If you accumulate too much unhappiness in this life, life will become bitter.
We can be indisputable, but we can't be worried about it.
All relationships cannot be forced, and if you insist on it, you will only be hurt in the end.
Rousseau once said: "Every righteous person should maintain his dignity." ”
In life, everyone is an independent individual, and the cruelty of reality makes us have to please others against our hearts in certain specific scenes.
Maintaining the independence of personality can make life full of vitality.
Excessive flattery of others will not only make you lose your dignity, but also make people dejected and lifeless.
A man's dignity is his conviction, and nothing is worth enough to exchange dignity for it.
In some principled things, there is no need to please others, even if you do that, you can achieve the purpose of the stage, but for the whole life, it is also useless.
Qian Zhongshu once said: "The prosperity outside the door is not my prosperity." "Life is our own, it has nothing to do with others, and we don't have to pay too much attention to what others think."
There is no need to make decisions that make you uncomfortable for some insignificant people and things.
Sometimes your compromise is meaningless, it will only make you more unhappy.
In interpersonal communication, flattery is not a good word. The more a person pleases others, the easier it is to be looked down upon by others.
There are no flowers in the dust, don't let yourself live too humble.
The best relationship between people is a relationship of equality. Although others are excellent, you must also believe that you are not bad.
The road of life needs to be walked slowly step by step, and it is easy to fall down if you are too anxious.
Hold on to the steering wheel of life and don't let the sounds of the outside world affect your original direction.
Truly intelligent people do not choose to reconcile with the world, but choose to reconcile with themselves.
You have to understand that no one can control the world, that people can control only themselves, and that some people can't even control themselves.
It is not terrible that life is full of hardships and hardships, what is really terrible is that a person's heart is full of pain.
Be kind to yourself, please yourself, and be a happy version of yourself. So that you don't feel lonely.
How many people in this world have come to the end to find that they have never lived for themselves in this life.
Romain Rolland said: "Life does not sell round-trip tickets, once you leave, you must not return." ”
Live the moment, don't waste time, be kind to yourself, and keep your original dreams.
In life, no matter what, we must take care of our bodies and maintain a good mood.
Don't end up finding out that everything was because you understood it too late.
For most people, life is hard and tiring because you think too much and do too little.
The biggest trouble in life is to want everything. Some things are better to forget than to remember.
People get old in a flash, try not to bother themselves. If you don't do things that have no results, people who have no possibility do not dwell on them.
No one can stay with yesterday, say goodbye to the past, and tomorrow is a new day.
Only when you have the sun in your heart can you live a glorious life.
The essence of loving life is loving yourself. Making yourself happy is something that is always worth doing.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.