Full of a little friend who is loved by everyone, versatile, and has always been an all-round baby in kindergarten. The family's award certificates occupy most of the walls, and many relatives have boasted that they have been so powerful since childhood, and it is amazing to grow up. Mom Man is also proud. However, this situation has changed after the first grade, whether it is silent writing or math tests, full of results are in the bottom few.
The little girl who used to be lively and cheerful and confident was gone. Seeing people also bow their heads and do not speak, Full mother said that every time the test is not good, parents say no, lose their temper when they say it, do not try to correct their own problems, and even avoid learning. This made Man Man's mother very headache.
What's the problem? Man man is not a stupid child, in kindergarten, whether it is acting, arithmetic or logical thinking is very agile, man man mom said that it may be too late for the child to contact the knowledge of the first grade. I suggest that he communicate with the child's homeroom teacher, after all, people have a lot of experience in education, see what to do with the full situation!
Man Man's mother also had to ask Teacher Zhang for advice. After listening, Teacher Zhang said that it seems that the child's foundation is no problem, and the problem should be emotional. It is recommended that full mothers focus on cultivating their children's self-confidence in the future. Children in kindergarten has always been the focus of the teacher's attention and praise of the object, to the first grade of excellent children more, they are compared, resulting in a psychological gap, if at this time the family blindly hit, then the child will lose the sense of security and courage, resulting in self-abandonment emotions.
Parents like to compare their children, which will cause certain psychological pressure on their children. And the emotional instability of parents will also be affected by their children's learning. Slowly children will feel that they can't do anything well. Teacher Zhang has brought many students, and she also knows that Man Man's mother is a little too anxious.
Man man is still in the first grade, as long as he adjusts his state, he can still catch up. After dispelling the doubts of the full mother, Teacher Zhang took out the picture books that many children in the class were reading from the book corner, and let the full mother take it back to read with the children, helping man man increase his courage to face failures and setbacks and rebuild his self-confidence.
This set of 6 books includes "It doesn't matter if you can't be the first place", "I want to be more confident", "My mother's criticism", "I am not afraid of being ridiculed", "It is not difficult to control my temper", "Overcome the timidity in my heart" and so on. It doesn't matter if you can't be the first place, let Man Man know that there is only one first place, even if it is not the first place, as long as you work hard, it is great.
Children like to hear praise, and in the face of criticism, either crying nose or resisting rebellion, the book "Mother's Criticism" allows children to dare to admit mistakes when they make mistakes. And when children face ridicule, don't be inferior and dare to prove yourself.
5. Tantrums don't work, keep the strength to deal with difficulties
After reading "It's Not Difficult to Control Temper", Man gradually learned empathy, and knew that tantrums are useless, and it is better to keep the strength to solve the problem. "Overcome the Timidity in Your Heart" lets children know that there is not much difference between night and day, but the colors are different. Guide children to overcome nervousness and fear when facing the night.
After a period of adjustment, Man man returned to his previous state. The results have also slowly become the middle and upper reaches, and the whole person is also confident and optimistic. Man Man's mother said happily, fortunately adjusted in time, otherwise the child would have gone astray.
In fact, children's psychology is more sensitive, and some emotional problems will become obstacles to their progress. As parents, we should not only pay attention to the child's achievements, but also pay attention to the child's psychological quality. It is more important to cultivate a child who is confident and optimistic and full of positive energy. But when we say a lot of bitter words, the child will often have a rebellious psychology, at this time a book suitable for him, often like a mirror, can play a silent effect of moisturizing things. This set of "Courage and Confidence Cultivation Picture Book" allows children to say goodbye to the glass heart and confidently face the future!