Text/Wei Chen
"Warring States Policy And Qi Ce III" has clouds: "Things are clustered in groups, and people are divided into groups." "It is said that everything in this world will be classified, and that this way of classifying is still natural.
Since the Creator has created us, he has given each person a unique mission, so it is destined that there will be a large or small gap between people.
And these gaps are an important reference for dividing different people into different categories.
The same rice feeds a hundred kinds of people, and we have to admit that people are hierarchical.
In fact, the biggest difference between people is the difference in levels, language can communicate only on the surface, a person's deep point of view, is something that others cannot decide.
When everyone has their own ideas, prejudices will also arise. This is just like Xiu Cai meets a soldier, some things are things that cannot be communicated clearly after a lifetime.
Any person's opinion must be based on a strong cognition, and people without cognition always have no opinion when they encounter things.
This society has been screening, invisibly dividing people into four categories, each of which has its own characteristics, some people have low eyes, some people act low-key, and some people love to show off, and so on.
In the end, no matter what kind of person, in the end, they can't escape the test from life.
Regarding the "law of two eight", I believe that many people have heard of it, that is, no matter what kind of environment, the crowd will be divided into two parts, the less part is excellent, and the more part is mediocre.
This does not mean that all those who are classified as 80% are incompetent, but only that they are not too outstanding in this natural selection.
It doesn't matter which level you end up at as a human being, what really matters is whether you find yourself at this level and steadily improve your personal ability.
Have vision, can see through the world
Regarding vision, many people will think that it is a mysterious thing.
In fact, the vision is not too complicated, to put it bluntly, it is a person's cognitive ability to recognize the things around him.
People with vision can more accurately recognize the truth of the things around them.
Usually, a person's vision depends on his past experiences, and the more experiences he has, the more experience he has.
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is written: "Good detection is not clear, and it is clear that it can be detected; it is necessary to win but not to be brave, and it is brave to be able to overcome and not to win." ”
People who are good at observation, who can easily see through the world, and who can win in the end are not necessarily brave people, but careful people.
People with broad vision will not be gullible to others. In life, they are able to accurately judge the truth or falsity of events.
Have a state of mind and be able to clearly know themselves
The Tao Te Ching has a cloud: "He who knows himself knows." ”
To be born as a human being, one must be self-aware, and one who is not self-aware is either too proud or too humble.
Neither pride nor humility is a good thing, those who overestimate their abilities will fall into the abyss if they are not careful, and those who underestimate their personal level will miss the opportunity in the promise.
Opportunities in life are not waiting for people, only when we fully understand our own abilities and advantages and defects, can we make full use of our strengths and avoid our weaknesses and seize opportunities.
After all, what we cultivate in this life is the state of mind, and people with a stable state of mind can be realistic whether they look at others or look at themselves.
Cognitive errors are often fatal, overestimating that you will see no one, resulting in low eyesight when doing things.
People with a clear self-knowledge do not overestimate their personal abilities or underestimate their own level.
As it is said in the Book of Soldiers: "Only by knowing oneself and knowing the other can one win every battle." "Only knowing that the other does not know himself, it is easy to make jokes of "grasshoppers shaking the tree".
Ability to turn things around easily
When it comes to "knowing oneself and knowing the other" in the soldier's book, it is impossible to avoid the topic of "talking about soldiers on paper."
There is no shortage of intelligent people in life, what is really missing is the brave and resourceful.
It is important that one can see the situation clearly, but what is more important is to be able to turn the situation around.
At any time, turning things around requires strong personal competence. To be a person is not only good at observation, but also to work hard, people can only have a voice in a certain field if they improve their personal ability.
As the saying goes, being smart is equal to being stupid.
People who have plans but do not implement them, or even those who have no ability to implement them at all, no matter how broad their horizons are and how clear their cognition, it is difficult to achieve great things.
Only when people have strict requirements for themselves can they be invincible on the road ahead.
Have courage and achieve the unity of knowledge and action
The philosophical theory of "unity of knowledge and action" put forward by the Ming Dynasty thinker Wang Shouren is to tell us that a person must not only have the ability to perceive things, but also have the courage to practice reality.
The road to success is always full of thorns.
Those who have the ability may be able to move forward, but they may not be able to persist in the face of setbacks.
Anyone who laughs to the end is a person who has both ability and courage and courage.
Setbacks and blows are everywhere, no one can predict the future, even Xiang Yu, one of the ten brave generals in ancient times, finally could not withstand the blow, could not think for a while, and killed himself by the Wu River.
Boldness is courage, no matter what difficulties and hardships are faced, they do not give up, and they have the courage to live.
Boldness can also be cheeky, no matter what others say, you can ignore it and just be yourself.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
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