Text/Moran
I believe that in the relationship, some people treat a person sincerely, and in the end they still fail to get the desired result.
So some people fall into self-doubt, always feel that they are not good enough to separate, and blame all the problems on themselves.
In fact, such people are often pua by the other party.
The end of a relationship is never a problem for you alone, or the other party has already made a decision, in order to reduce the burden on your heart, forcing you to leave again and again.
So, sometimes the separation is not because the other party is not good, but the other party is not worthy, he is not really the right person.
In real life, we will always fall into self-doubt because of some small things, feel that we are not doing well enough.
For example, if you always lose everything, you will feel that you are too bad. Actually, it's nothing, and losing isn't necessarily your fault.
In your daily life, you can't find a thing, and you end up being spat upon. But sometimes it's not that you don't know how to cherish it, and sometimes it may be taken away by someone else.
If you look at things from another angle, it may be another result. You don't have to feel guilty and upset about all the bad things, and sometimes it's not your own problem.
If you blame your faults on yourself at every turn, you will form a law in your heart, and no matter what you encounter, you will become unconfident and self-denying.
Just like the departure of a friend, it may be because he has a better choice for himself, not because of you, those objective factors are parts that we cannot predict and control.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with people, there is actually no need to worry about the future, cherish it when we are together, and not let each other down.
If a person chooses to leave, then there is no need to doubt yourself, and it is not that you are not bad, or maybe he has changed himself.
In this life, we will meet a lot of people and run a lot of relationships.
Whether it is friendship, love, family affection, a relationship has a beginning, there is an end, many things are not something you alone can change.
Feelings are the choice and maintenance of both parties. If a person decides to leave you, then don't deny yourself, it's not that you're bad.
Maybe it's heaven who thinks you're too nice and thinks he doesn't deserve it, so let him go, you deserve better.
Don't encounter anything, just look for reasons in yourself, people still have to affirm themselves.
In this world, many things will develop in the direction you want as long as you work hard, but feelings are things that you can't control after hard work.
The beginning of the relationship requires the consent of two people, but the end is a choice of one person, so there is no need to be grumpy, you should feel fortunate.
A person who chooses to leave you is not bad for you, but has to have confidence in himself. There are so many people in this world, there will always be people who really understand you and cherish you.
For those who want to leave, let him leave, you always have to say goodbye to the wrong person, in order to meet the right person.
summary:
In this world, people must not deny themselves because of others. Those who punish themselves for the mistakes of others will ultimately suffer losses from themselves.
Some people don't deserve to have you, he wants to go let him go well, always believe that you deserve to have better, do yourself well, live yourself is the best attitude.