Shen Aojun's 2 million marriage proposal Nie Yuan was rejected, and the good man found was a descendant of Ai Xinjueluo, and now became the diplomat's wife.
Good love is mutual fulfillment and growth together.
Bad love is like two cows pushing hard in opposite directions, and the rope used to maintain it in the middle will eventually break.
To love someone, you can't just look at the surface of the other person, but more importantly, see if he has a respectful heart.
When Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan were together, they didn't realize this, so that ten years had passed, and they finally faced the fate of being betrayed.
If the three views are not in line, do not force it, and make up for the loss in time.
Shen Aojun was born in 1976 to an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province.
It seems that from the time she landed on earth, among the three sisters, she was like an ugly duckling.
Four children in a family, there will always be many comparisons.
In contrast, Shen Aojun's appearance is not so prominent, and his academic performance does not belong to "other people's children", but due to the reason of borrowing, his grades are not good.
Compared with his three sisters, Shen Aojun was very inconspicuous, and sometimes even had some inferiority.
However, Shen Aojun in middle school unexpectedly became lively and cheerful, and his academic performance also rose sharply, becoming an excellent student in the eyes of the teacher.
These changes mainly stem from one person, Gao Caixia, the class teacher of Shen Aojun's middle school period.
She is a teacher and educater, a leader, and shen Aojun's Bole.
In a self-study class, Gao Caixia walked over to Shen Aojun's side and put her hand on her shoulder, and the warm breath passed from the teacher's palm to her shoulder.
Although it was only a few seconds, it was enough to comfort Shen Aojun's heart, and she felt the love and support of the teacher.
The child's world is simple and sensitive.
At that moment, Shen Aojun, as a loan student, had a feeling of being recognized, which made her almost moved to tears.
The teacher found the shining point on Shen Aojun's body, and silently cared for and encouraged her when she fell into a low point.
With the support of Gao Caixia, Shen Aojun found a learning method suitable for himself and determined his goals and ideals.
Shen Aojun's professional grades are very good and very stable, which also allows her to sink her heart to learn the knowledge of cultural lessons.
In 1995, Shen Aojun took the college entrance examination, successfully achieved his wish, and was admitted to the Television Editing and Directing Department of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
Since then, her life has opened a new chapter, and everything in her life is full of freshness and unknowns.
Occasionally, she envies the stars who sparkle in front of the camera.
But more often than not, she focused on television choreographers.
Just when everyone thought that Shen Aojun would go down according to the current pace, her life suddenly took a new turn.
Eighteen changes in the female eldest, Shen Aojun quickly became a pure and beautiful beauty with the excellent foundation inherited from her parents.
By chance, Shen Aojun was selected to participate in the shooting of an advertisement.
The partner she works with is Aaron Kwok, even if the object of cooperation is a superstar who has long been famous, Shen Aojun is not afraid of the stage at all.
The resulting work is eye-catching.
After the shooting, Shen Aojun got a reward of 100,000 yuan. Aaron Kwok's remuneration is ten times hers.
This realization stunned Shen Aojun. At that time, it was 1997, and 100,000 yuan was not a small amount of money.
She exclaimed, "Being a star can make so much money!" ”
Aaron Kwok smiled and said, "When you become famous, you may make more money than I do." ”
Shen Aojun couldn't even imagine this. After tasting the sweetness, she began the path of an actress without hesitation.
Shen Aojun studied TV choreography in college, and in order to make up for her shortcomings, she used her free time to learn acting from the third sister.
In this way, she waited while studying.
When Shen Aojun was 25 years old, she was given the opportunity to play the role of Princess Gaoyang in "The History of Love in the Tang Dynasty".
It should have been a pleasant news, but Shen Aojun hesitated.
The reason is that in the "History of Love in the Tang Dynasty", Princess Gaoyang has many large-scale performances.
This is undoubtedly a huge challenge for Shen Aojun, who has just entered the show business circle.
In the entertainment industry, especially for an actor who is not yet famous, there are not many options.
Give up this opportunity, want to wait for the next opportunity do not know when it will be, and it is possible to wait until you can't wait.
Since you have chosen this profession, while enjoying the glory it brings, you must also accept the criticism and accusations that you may encounter in the future.
In the end, Shen Aojun still chose to seize this opportunity.
With its sophisticated production and rigorous plot, this drama has been widely praised by the audience after broadcasting.
In the play, Shen Aojun vividly interpreted the gentle beauty, noble and intelligent wisdom of Princess Gaoyang.
Her smile is often striking. The mole in the eyebrow has become a unique symbol of Shen Aojun.
That mole seems to have magic power, injecting soul into Shen Aojun's role in the play.
The charm of the classical beauty of Shen Aojun was discovered, and for a time he became a popular heroine of costume dramas.
During this period, Shen Aojun's popularity in society and personal energy reached its peak.
Affected by the family environment, Shen Aojun belongs to the down-to-earth, more pragmatic kind of person.
Therefore, shen Aojun's subsequent participation in several TV series has also gained a good reputation, and she has also become a goddess in the minds of the public.
Careers are rising, but love is experiencing setbacks.
Because of the drama, Shen Aojun and Nie Yuan talked about love.
Love is like an onion, peeling off one layer and another layer, the outermost layer is often intentionally displayed by the other party, unable to touch the depths of the heart.
Shen Aojun belongs to the more gentle and traditional people, while Nie Yuan is the opposite of her, with a bold and rebellious personality.
In the school period, things such as skipping class and fighting were a common thing for Nie Yuan.
Most of people's personality stems from the environment, and the environment is different, and the personality is naturally different.
These obvious differences, the two people can certainly find.
Two people in love can have differences, and there are differences to complement each other, after all, there are no two identical people in the world.
The appearance of the two people shows only the first layer of the onion, whether the two people are suitable together, the key is to see the core part, whether the two sides can accept.
Nie Yuan and Shen Aojun attend the same school, and Shen Aojun is Nie Yuan's sister.
Shen Aojun's experience of being admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy can be said to be somewhat conformist.
Nie Yuan was different, after graduating from junior high school, he secretly ran to Guiyang, with a set of broadcast gymnastics to be admitted to the dance class of a junior college, and later admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
After "The History of The Great Tang Dynasty", Shen Aojun's drama road became wider, and many people looked for her to act, and the script was so many that she was dazzled.
Nie Yuan has always been tepid, and has been playing some supporting roles in the crew for the next few years.
Some macho Nie Yuan put forward the request that Shen Aojun retreat behind the scenes and teach his husband and children at home.
Shen Aojun, who is in the ascending stage of his career, is naturally unwilling, the opportunity is rare, and age is especially critical for actors.
Perhaps for this reason, Nie Yuan's feelings for Shen Aojun had changed.
Shen Aojun is very keen in his career, but he is somewhat "dull" in his feelings.
She didn't feel nie yuan change in the slightest.
In her opinion, the reason why the two did not get married was because Nie Yuan felt that his career had not been developed.
Under such circumstances, Shen Aojun decided to take the initiative himself.
She began to decorate the house after the marriage of the two, imagining a happy future, and the house was completely arranged according to the newlywed.
At that time, she was very sure in her heart that the two would definitely get married, and she didn't even think about a way out.
Who knows, when she happily went to Nie Yuan with 2 million yuan to propose, she found that the other party had already fallen in love with someone else.
What made her most incredible was that the other person's family, and even some of her own friends, knew about it.
As a party, she turned out to be the last person to know.
For this relationship, Shen Aojun was very sad, and later when he mentioned it in the talk show, he still couldn't put it down.
Nie Yuan had his own set of views on love.
He believes that as actors, it is easy to have feelings for each other.
The two are together every day and play rivals in the play.
This is a very normal thing.
The words reveal his casual and irresponsible treatment of love.
If the three views are not in harmony, do not force them.
Shen Aojun married the descendants of Ai Xinjueluo and became the wife of a diplomat, and was extremely happy after marriage. Nie Yuan, however, flashed away from marriage and became the prodigal son in marriage.
After the two broke up, Shen Aojun was immersed in sad emotions and could not walk out.
As the saying goes, the quickest way to get out of the shadow of a lost relationship is to enter another relationship.
Seeing that Shen Aojun, who was already thirty years old, was about to become a leftover girl, her family began to make blind dates for her.
After the first few blind dates saw Shen Aojun, the scene instantly turned into a fan meeting.
It made Shen Aojun cry and laugh, claiming that he didn't want to be like this at home every day.
Under the arrangement of his friends, Shen Aojun met with a foreign Chinese.
The other party is a Manchu, a descendant of the true Love Shin Kyora.
When they first met, Shen Aojun did not fall in love with him at first sight, but felt that the other party was a little short.
However, some people are like old wines that have lasted for a long time.
As the two of them got to know each other more and more deeply, the most unlikely person became Shen Aojun's boyfriend.
Due to the special nature of the boyfriend's work, the two are one in the southern hemisphere and the other in the northern hemisphere.
However, the two were not intimidated by the distance and could not meet and called.
Once, Shen Aojun took advantage of his free time to visit her boyfriend.
In order to surprise him, Shen Aojun lied to him that his good friend was going to his place of work and asked him to help pick him up.
By that day, my boyfriend was tired and listless.
When he saw that it was Shen Aojun, he immediately rejoiced.
Shen Aojun also hurriedly offered the prepared flowers to reward his hard-working boyfriend.
Quarrels between lovers are common, and the same is true between Shen Aojun and her boyfriend.
In particular, the relationship between the two did not become more and more quarrelsome and thinner, but learned to get along with each other in the day-to-day run-in.
Another thing that Shen Aojun was touched by was that when she was filming "Latent", her boyfriend used the 2-year vacation to accompany her to the crew.
At the same time as the relationship between the two warmed up, the boyfriend also had a deeper understanding of Shen Aojun's work.
Soon, the boyfriend's vacation was over.
With that comes the cold reality that the two are still separated.
Shen Aojun wants to develop in China, while her boyfriend has been working abroad for a long time.
Facing the future, Shen Aojun was a little confused and did not know whether this relationship should continue.
Her friend Li Jing gave her a piece of advice: Happiness is at the bend of the intersection.
Yes, it didn't take long for Shen Aojun to get the news that her boyfriend was transferred back to work in China. This made him overjoyed.
On May 23, 2009, Shen Aojun and her boyfriend held a wedding in Beijing.
The boyfriend is busy at work, and many things in the wedding are decided by Shen Aojun.
Although there were many trivial details in the wedding, Shen Aojun did not complain at all, but was very happy.
On the day of the wedding, the groom arrived late.
Due to too many things, Shen Aojun forgot to prepare the nameplates of the guests, resulting in some congestion on the scene.
Such a small thing could not affect Shen Aojun's joy in the slightest.
When he delivered his wedding speech at the wedding, Shen Aojun said that he could give up his acting career for the sake of his family after marriage.
The husband insisted that she do what she loved, and marriage was not a bondage, but a mutual fulfillment.
On May 31, 2010, Shen Aojun announced his pregnancy on social platforms.
Every time they make a public appearance, the audience can see the happy smile on Shen Aojun's face.
For the sake of the child, she can push off all the work.
In order to ensure nutrition, she gave up her body for many years and drank fish soup and ate meat every day to nourish herself.
After the birth of the child, touching his soft little hand and looking at her solid and reliable husband, Shen Aojun felt extremely satisfied.
On the other hand, Nie Yuan, who has flashed marriage and divorced many times, treats feelings like a child's play.
Almost every time a scene is filmed, there is a scandal with the actress.
When he participates in variety shows with his family, he speaks strongly to his wife and has no respect for his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
In 2015, Nie Yuan was sentenced to 7 months in prison for beating the driver after drinking, with a one-year suspension.
Indulge yourself too much, and the final fate is to eat the consequences.
Love will make us feel happy.
But when two people encounter challenges in their lives, that feeling can easily go away because we can find that feeling in different people.
This also leads to some people facing marriage very casually, love comes, they get married, love disappears, divorce.
In fact, this kind of love is not sincere, more often, it is just a kind of narcissism.
Naturally, this kind of love cannot last long.
Why love someone?
In the lover's body, we can see the former self, the present self and the future self.
We find ourselves in our loved ones and are able to reinvent ourselves.
True love is the ability to reject all temptations and to love a person consistently.
Sacrifice each other, investigate each other deeply, respect each other.
May one be favored, and may the generosity of the rest of one's life be fulfilled.